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not ready for a relationship
hi all <3 to start with, i am 17 and theres a guy who i really like who is 18. basically we met about 3 months ago now, at first we were just friends but it wasnt long before we kissed b/c we were both attracted to eachother. he said he really likes me and i said the same back to him. his friends say that he has told them that he really likes me.
recently he has told that he really likes me but he isnt ready for a relationship. and then kissed me. and he said that it hurt him when another guy admitted that he liked me too.
i understand that when guys say they arent ready for a relationship, that they actually mean that and it isnt a way of getting out of something. i know he likes me but im just wondering what to do now? i really like him and he always says he really likes me. he ended the relationship with his ex because he just wasnt ready.
what can i do? help me please <3
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He's just not that into you.
He might 'really like you', but he doesn't 'really like you' enough to change his mind, take the risk or try something differrent and scarry. He likes you enough to kiss you, but not enough to be with you. That's just where he is at right now.
The only thing you can really do is just be his friend. Whatever he is worried about might change, or it might not, but you can't control that at all. You could talk to him about what he is specifically worried about, and see if you can address some of his concerns, but that might not help. The only thing you really can do is be yourself, try to relax, and be his friend.
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