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boyfriend stuff
Okay so I am 15(F)and the guy is 16(M). I really like him. We have been dating for like two months now. But anyway. The problem is that sometimes he can be really dirty. Sometimes I like it or I don't mind it, but other times I feel like he wants me to be dirty back. He wants to have sex... Yeah, I don't. He gets that though I think. But whenever we are making out, I am always the one to stop it. Like, if it starts going too far, I am always the one to say "Okay, that's enough". I feel like he is always ready to just keep going, that I can't slip up. Or sometimes when we are on the phone or texting he will send/say somthing really dirty and I will be like "uhm..." and just kind of choke up. He's always like "Don't be so tense babe" but I don't know, I'm not used to that kind of stuff. All the guys I have liked before have been really... I don't know... not like that. I've told him that I'm not really experienced with those kinds of things (the making out and naughty phone converstations), but for some reason, he thinks thats hot and it only makes him want to do it more. I'm really stuck because I like him, but I just don't know how to be dirty like he wants me to... Help?
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just do what he wants you to. hes putting out an effort, and so can you. im not saying have sex with him, but do what he says. don't be so tesne. it's not like anyone ever got hurt from being a little dirty, so try it. and, yeah its hot. it makes him feel ilke your all his, and hes taught you everything. i can see that. but yeah, just try a little, and chill out, hes your boyfriend.
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you dont need to be dirty like HE wants you to be.
I can tell by reading your post, that you arent ready for all that. thats completely normal. I can also tell that it seems to make you uncomfortable. Heres my advice.
dont feel like you have to do it because he wants you to. if you have ANY doubts, the you are not ready. You will know when you are ready.
He should respect the fact that you arent ready for all that dirty stuff. if he loves you the way he should, he wont try to pressure you into that. he will wait until you are ready.
so be mature about it. pull him aside, tell him how you feel. If he is the right guy for you, it will all work out.
hope this helps! =]
steph 21
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