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just wants sex.?
16/f
so i'm dating this guy who i pretty much know just wants sex. i brought it up to him and he was all like "no i promise, i'm not i'll prove it to you" and stuff like that. so then i was okay, you know maybe he does want what i want which is a relationship because ive had a strong, good relationship before and thats what i want again. well the next day he comes to my house to hang out and we started fooling around, i went along with it i mean i have hormones to but then he asked me to have sex with him..right after he told me thats not what he wants. i really like him but i'm not about to just have sex with a guy i've known for a couple months and have been dating like a week and he hasnt even tried to get to know me. but hes my manager at my work (he's 18). its just an awkward situation. i know i should break it off (this is the second time we've dated and i broke up with him the first time too) but i don't know how or what to do. some advice pleaseee? :) thank you
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Girl you need to break up with this guy.I know it will be awkward but he doesn't sound like the type of relationship your looking for.good luck.
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You just aren't feeling it with this guy.
You aren't that into him. You don't trust him. I'd bet you don't even want to get to know him any better then you already do.
So, yep, you need to break up with him.
You don't need to say 'You only want sex!', because that might not be true, and you aren't a mind reader so it's definately rude to say. However you can certainly say "Dude, I just don't think we're compatiable, and I'm not as interested in you as I should be to be in a relationship."
You don't need to have a 'good' reason, to not want to be with someone, so it doesn't matter if he just wants sex or not. Even if he might want more then sex, you still aren't all that interested. So end it.
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