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I like my best friend ....
So me and my really close guy friend used to have a thing and he kinda told me he just wanted to be friends.
Now ,we are extremely close. we hangout everyday,we talk all the time and he kinda makes sexual gestures toward me,and talks about us hooking up...we haven't though since we stopped "talking".
But I still really like him,and we are like best friends but it feels like more to me.
what should i do?
I'm scared to talk to him about it because i don't want him to stop being my friend...
I was considering maybe actually taking his "hookup talk" more seriously and see how that goes.
help!
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i'm in a similar situation.
i like my best friend. now he hasn't told me he just wants to be friends but i think he wants to be more of.. friends with benefits.
i kept going back and forth thinking about everything. if i did something with him, that's all we'll ever be. i'll want to be more and he will just want sex.
if i didn't we can still be best friends. and we are. we're closer than ever and we haven't done anything.
i wouldn't do anything sexually with him, if thats what you were thinking. but i would still continue being friends. you don't want to lose him :) i always say, "if he can't be my boyfriend, i still need him as my best friend!"
i hope this helped, if you need anything else, ask away! ♥ LU
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If he said he just wants to be friends, then he just wants to be friends. You can't change the way somebody feels.
I'd respect his decision. Don't push him or force him into anything, because all that will do is totally mess up your friendship =/
-Laura (17-f)
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