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Marriage in question!
I have been married going on 25 years. For the last few years, things have been going on a downhill slide. My husband hasn't been interested in "relations" for some time now. When I tried to discuss this with him, he blows his top and tells me to leave him alone and I am feeling like a disease. Things have gotten so bad that I have actually found out he has been on a website for swingers and on line hook ups. I set him up and he actually showed up for the meet n' greet (which I didn't go too...ya im a cowardI even went so far as to have an affair (I still see him on occassion). I really think we are both done with it. What other options do I have to work this out.
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Well honestly it sounds like you already made your choice when you cheated on him but there are two options
1. stop with the other people and focus on each other. try something like sex therapy to fire things up again.
2. Or if you completely done just get a divorce.
If this is a recent problem he might just be under stress if its not you might have a more serious problem
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I helped someone else who was in a similar situation.
the best thing to do in this situation, it to sit your husband down, and tell him you dont think its working out, and get a divorce. I know this sounds really harsh and is going to be tough to do, but honestly, at this point, it looks like you and your husband just arent right for eachother. You are both obviously finding romance and "relations" elsewere, and unless you want to just ignore facts, it would be the healthiest to just end it. I know it can be hard to end something that you invested 25 yrs of your life in. He is no longer emotionally, or physically there for you, which you shouldnt subject yourself to any longer!
you deserve a man who loves you, and will treat you like he should. Just be honest with yourself, make a game plan, and figure out what action you need to take to move on.
hope this helps. email me if you need some support or want to talk about it more. =]
stephanie.ellick@gmail.com
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