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No Money For Christmas


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 10:11 am

My partner and I have a mortgage and a cat and although we have two jobs, because of various problems with our flat, we have very little money this Christmas.

Of course, our families and friends understand and keep telling us not to spend much money but that's really hard for me, especially because I always take Christmas as the one opportunity to really spoil everyone and splash out on them and it really breaks my heart that I can't do that this year. Instead, I'm limited to around £20 per person. Not much.

So instead, I was looking for alternative ideas. Is there anything I could perhaps make for the people I care about? Something that's quite easy but would mean a lot? We have craft stores near where I live...

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don't know


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 9:33 am

there is this guy who i like and he did the weirdest thing he went up to me put his forehead against mine and then blew in my face and walked away...what the hell was that about????????????????????????

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im in love with my best friend


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 7:17 am

15/f
im in love with my best guy friend. we've been friends with benefits for a while but never liked each other more than friends. now he's going out with my other best friend. we've stopped being friends with benefits but he'll still hug me or rest his head on me and his girlfriend is ok with that. my problem is that i liked him before he was going out with my other friend but didnt say anything because i thought it might be weird going out with my best friend. i still haven't been able to get rid of my feelings for him. i dont know if i should tell him or just try to somehow not like him anymore. any advice could help
thanks

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It takes three miracles to become a Saint...


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 3:40 am

I know a girl who hasn't done drugs, had sex or drank. She's never been kissed, or even had a serious boyfriend, and she's 21. Her uncle recently died, and her family, most of whom are drunks and stoners, are fighting about what to do with her uncle's inheritance, and she's caught in the middle.

I've also got a major crush on this girl, and it's mutual. To add to this, though, we're not the same race (which matters to her family), and because of her family, she's never been spoiled (which I love doing to her) and she's really introverted and shy about herself.

How can I help her fix her family, deal with her uncle's death and get her to go out with me?

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This basically sucks


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 2:14 am

So, I can't find a good job. My bike got stolen. I basically ruined my best friendship, and my life's going to hell. I think it would do me good to get out of town for a while. I need to get away from things, mostly. I'm thinking I'll just go to a nearby city, like 30ish miles away. I think what I'm going to do is go to St George (the 30 miles away city) the day after thanksgiving, come back for my dad's birthday (the 6th), and then come home around the 15th. While I'm living there I'll get a feel for the real estate, the jobs available, and the city in general. Do you think this is a good idea, or a waste of money? If hotel fees get to be too much, I can always camp, no big deal. I'm 18, btw.

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Fingering


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 1:21 am

ok like now..im not sexually active but when it comes to the time .. i hear that fingering is a good way to get loosened up, so when your bf finger's you..like where do u look? wont it be awkward if you look at him while he's doing it? do you lay down..what?!

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getting rid of cramps


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 12:59 am

ok soo im a girl and im on my period and im getting sick of it because im allergic to a lot of stuff in medicines so i really cant take anything for bloating or cramps. so as far as cramps go i try to use the heating pad and sometimes that helps but like when im at school i cant. and as far as bloating? i have no idea any ideas?

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player


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 12:42 am

so theres this boy.... i havent met him but all my friends are friends w/ him. just to start outt hes a player and every girl wants him. i just finally got over this one guy and then me and the playerr started talking on myspace then aim and now we like always talk on aim and text like every day.. he started out flirting w/ me like he does w/ like every other girl but then after a while he started implying that he thinks that we'll probably end up going out... which he doesnt do to every other girl.. well we've been trying to make plans for a while now but i keep fucking things upp and i fucked things up for the like 6th time and now hes mad at me.. he wont answer my texts.. i dunno what to do. help me out.

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bestfriends drama


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 12:18 am

13/f

me and my bestfriends has been friends for a long time ! i would totally be a different person without her.. but for some odd reason.. she stopped talking to me, and i aimed her after i called her cause she didn't pick up.. and she never answered on aim. she was typing.. but she didn't enter anything, she js backspaced and didn't say anything.. then my older sister got mad and aimed her up saying why is she ignoring me and stuff.. but i told my sister that shes gonna get more mad.. so she said "don't tell mary that im aiming you, she doesn't know." and etc. finally when i commented her myspace.. i told her i was sorry for whatever i did that i got her mad at me.. and she put "............" and i said ...

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idk what to do..


Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 12:10 am

13/f

okay.. its almost been a month since me & my boyfriend has been going out.. and my sister & my boyfriends older sister's boyfriend told me to be careful, because he can do some things, and that they don't want me to be getting hurt. and they think that he's not right for me. so what happened was that.. once and a while.. he asks me these weird questions like "do you even want to be with me?" and im like "yess.. if i didn't wouldn't i broken up with you already?" and he was like "ohh i knew that.." .. 2 days ago. out of nowhere he said "i miss holly" (my friend.. but not so close anymore cause drama). and im said "...." and he says "shes my friend." and i...

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Can telling someone you liked them hurt your relationship??


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 11:24 pm

I recently posted a question about:My friend is Pregnant and I have feelings for her??? If i tell her can it damage the relationship or should i just take a chance and tell her? She is a really nice person and I don't want her to get the wrong ideas. Like i am helping her only for a relationship. I am nervous but I feel she has a right to know.

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Masturbation


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:57 pm

14/F

please help! okay so 2 nights ago i masturbated for the second time and again felt absolutley nothing. i mean i felt it but it didnt feel good or bad it didnt feel like anything. i stuck my finger up there and nothing happened. whats wrong with me!!

my way of masturbating really taht feels good is making a fist and doing a hitting pounding motion on my bladder lower area. it feels really good.

whats wrong with me. any ideas why i cant feel anything and why the "hitting pounding" feels good!!!!!

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nervous as hell!!!


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:44 pm

This may sound really dumb but I get really nervous just before I see my boyfriend. Like I start shivering and not feeling hungry or sick and I get a weird feeling in my stomach. I usually have to pretend to my bf that I'm cold so I'm shivering. If someone asks my a question my voice trembles ans I have to swallow about 3 times during the time I'm talking. I hate it, it feels awful and I really want to be able to see him without feeling so nervous and edgy all the time. Please, does anyone know what this is and how I can fix it???

Thanks

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I (Heart) you


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:42 pm

Okay, time for another love conundrum.
So I like this girl. I have ever since I met her, you might even be able to say love at first sight.

And don't worry I didnt only fall for her looks. I got to know her and we got really close and she's just awesome. So eventually we got to a point where we were really close...like:
Holding hands
Writing love notes ect ect

Then summer comes...I live in the country she lives in the city. I barely get to see her.

I start school again and she's dating some other guy. So I was jealous...not angry at her or anything just...dissapointed.

So then...now in november I heard they broke up about 2 weeks ago. So at that point I was des...

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Gay kids


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:19 pm

15/M My locker is next to someone who has some bisexual friends. There are 2 of them. The other day when school was over, one of them was like, hitting on me and saying that I'm cute and sexy and stuff like that. I'm straight, so I got a little freaked out. I am used to getting that from girls, but I'd never had someone who's gay do that before. The kid is pretty proud of be bi, too. He wears shirts that say stuff like "Don't hate, celebrate," and "Gay pride." He also wears rainbow-colored shirts and he wears make-up and acts and sounds very feminine. So it's not like he's trying to hide anything. Anyway, the other day when he did that, I got all mad and called him a fag, queerbag, and other derogatory words an...

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Private School


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:11 pm

Okay right now I'm home-schooled and its not at easy as it seems I've been doing it for 2 years. I've been to a wonderful private school. I want to go back but my parents say its to much money and they say I might go back though should I keep hoping I could do it so I can be with all my friends again but of course I still have plenty of friends even when I'm home schooled.

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whats wrong


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:08 pm

im a guy and im 17, im not really into sports, but half the guys i know are..why can't i get interested?

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boyfriend/getting sexual


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:00 pm

okay so my boyfriend wants to finger me and so far hes felt me through like sweatpants.. but next time we hang out.. he wants to go in my pants and i dont mind.. except.. what does he expect to find as far as pubic hair goes? we never talked about it because i dont want to bring it up.. should i shave it or trim or what???

16/f. thanks

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boy trouble


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 9:52 pm

There's this guy, and we're like best friends and we used to like each other but agreed not to go out. but we didnt just like each other, we loved each other. he would say the sweetest things about how i meant the world to him and how if anything ever happened to me he couldnt stand it. okay so we got into a fight and kind of drifted apart and he got grounded so we couldnt talk and that made things worse. but we started talking again and i asked him if he still feels how he did about me and he said "kinda, but i want to move on" i love him so much and if he moved on i couldnt stand it. what should i do to get him to not want to leave me?

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makeout


Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 9:29 pm

i decided i want to makeout with someone before 8th grade. but i need some pointer on how to. like do you open and close you mouth? and do you put your hands? i am so confusedd. thanks in advance!

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