Question Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:00 pm
okay so my boyfriend wants to finger me and so far hes felt me through like sweatpants.. but next time we hang out.. he wants to go in my pants and i dont mind.. except.. what does he expect to find as far as pubic hair goes? we never talked about it because i dont want to bring it up.. should i shave it or trim or what???
jstar answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 6:37 pm: definetly do what you want.
my boyfriend and i got onto that topic and yes, it WILL be awkward but you'll feel so much better after you talk about it.
most guys prefer atleast trimmed, but it's your body, not his. [ jstar's advice column | Ask jstar A Question ]
duckieh20lol answered Sunday November 19 2006, 8:45 am: Dear u
If your boyfriend wants to finger you. You should do wat you want to not wat he wants to either you shave or not. YOU control your body not him. Please write back. [ duckieh20lol's advice column | Ask duckieh20lol A Question ]
Mystic_Sandwich answered Thursday November 16 2006, 2:41 am: Most guys prefer less than a full, natural bush. Reccomend trimming it close with a beard trimmer or some such, (like less than 1/2 inch) and if he makes any comments or you want to ask him, find out what he prefers. It really doesnt matter that much until the subject of more than fingering comes up. [ Mystic_Sandwich's advice column | Ask Mystic_Sandwich A Question ]
Madalyn772 answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 4:40 pm: This question is one that comes up a lot with girls your age. My advice is to do what you feel comfortable with. After the first time, your boyfriend's reactions should basically show what he likes and what he doesn't. Either way, it's your body, and you have control over how it looks. Be comfortable. [ Madalyn772's advice column | Ask Madalyn772 A Question ]
disasterxwoah answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 4:12 pm: Its not your boyfriends area, it's yours. Therefore its totally up to you. Do what you feel comfortable with. You could always ask him & see what he says, but even still, it's yours choice not his. [ disasterxwoah's advice column | Ask disasterxwoah A Question ]
Melody answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 6:57 am: he won't know what to expect.
do what you want. then after he fingers you, ask him if he minds if you do/don't shave. he won't care, because it's your body. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
karlyndarlin05 answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 12:46 am: heyy ok.
well it is up to your boyfreind but most guys i know like it clean down there.
yeaa. like completly shaven. but its TOTALLY up to you. i would say that if you dont want to shave it all off then at least trim it and clean it up down there.
and heres a hint if you do shave it all...be verrryyy careful. and trim it down as close as you can get before you actually shave against the way the hair grows.
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