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im in love with my best friend
15/f
im in love with my best guy friend. we've been friends with benefits for a while but never liked each other more than friends. now he's going out with my other best friend. we've stopped being friends with benefits but he'll still hug me or rest his head on me and his girlfriend is ok with that. my problem is that i liked him before he was going out with my other friend but didnt say anything because i thought it might be weird going out with my best friend. i still haven't been able to get rid of my feelings for him. i dont know if i should tell him or just try to somehow not like him anymore. any advice could help
thanks
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Go ahead and tell him.
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if you think you can survive sticking it out... the relationsip between your best friend and your best guy friend will probably fizzle out pretty soon...you're 15...i'm sure the average life expectancy of a relationship during these years of ours couldn't be more than a few months long...when it does end talk to your girlfriend...tell her the truth if you think she's mature enough to understand...and then go for him...if the break is nasty then you might have to conform to circumstance...and maybe not go out with the guy if you'd fell like you'd be betraying your friend by doing so...if all 3 of you are mature then all you should really have to do is wait your turn.
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tell him.
you'll be glad once its over with.
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trying not to like someone is almost impossible to do. and from your situation, i can tell you like him enough that it'd be really really hard to just let go of that. even though you always just though of eachother as "best friends" maybe he feels the same way you do, but you both were too scared to admit how you really felt. you guys are best friends, so you can talk to him. even if he doesn't feel the same way, at least you know that he now knows how you feel, and at least you two are still best friends. either way, you'll feel better, just let him know. it could change his relationship with his girlfriend realll quick.
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heyy.i think you should really talk to him,because you have feelings and you should deffeinetly express them
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You can't not like someone... like you can't ever control how you feel about someone, it just kinda happens and sometimes it hits you square in the face. But i think you should tell him how you feel. I kidna think you should also wait to tell him how you feel after his relationship with your best friend because if you do it while he is still going out with her you might cause some other problems in the friendship that you have with his girlfriend. But if you really feel strong about him and you can't wait any longer to tell him how you feel then go ahead and tell him, but also tell your friend (his gf) how you feel and how you didnt want to ruin your guys relationship but that you've like him in forever and you just needed to tell him. Make sure that you explain to her how important it is for you guys to stay friends and im sure that if she is trully a friend that she will understand. I really hope and helped and if i didnt than i am super sorry but i really hope i did help lol GOODLUCK!!
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I've been in the same situation just recently..
You can't just hide that you like him.
You should've talked to him about it and asked him if he felt the same way.
That's what I did.
And it ended up that he had always liked me back to.
So maybe when he's single you should talk to him about that.
I'm pretty sure everything will all work for you.
I hope I helped.
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