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15/f
im in love with my best guy friend. we've been friends with benefits for a while but never liked each other more than friends. now he's going out with my other best friend. we've stopped being friends with benefits but he'll still hug me or rest his head on me and his girlfriend is ok with that. my problem is that i liked him before he was going out with my other friend but didnt say anything because i thought it might be weird going out with my best friend. i still haven't been able to get rid of my feelings for him. i dont know if i should tell him or just try to somehow not like him anymore. any advice could help
thanks

tell him.

you'll be glad once its over with.

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alright i probably know what your going to say but i'm asking anyways. Me and my boy friend ahv bin having sex without condoms for about 8 months now, but i'm on bith control, is it still a bad idea to continue with this.

yes.

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ok for the past 2 days now i've been crying and i don't know the reason for why iam crying i feel like such a baby right now and yesterday my blood pressure was 127/90 and my hands was cold and clammy,but i felt really sweaty like when i have panick attacks and my heart rate was 111 and my doctor says that's very high.I don't know why i had that panick attack becouse i didn't feel sad or nervous and why did i cry for the past 2 days over very little things?one reason i cried was becouse monday i couldn't get the sheet on my bad so i just got mad i wanted to cuss so bad but iam trying to quit so when i could cuss the sheet out i just burst into tears which i knew sounded lame but it's true.Then yesterday i was trying to sew in homeec and somebody told me that i was doing it wrong and i just burst into tears and ran out of the classroom and ran in to the bathroom and locked the bathroom stall door and just sat down and cried so mrs.anderson found me and took me to the counslers office so we could talk but i just sat there and ignored the counsler for the next 15 minutes and then at lunch i wouldn't eat anything at school untill my friend made me eat a couple of bites of her sandwhich so i wouldn't get sick.I just felt like crying all day yesterday for somereason and then after i ate that couple of bites i went to the bathroom so i could throw it up and i've been doing that for the past couple of days throwing up everything i eat.what's wrong with me?

you could be depressed.

maybe you should talk to yer parents or whoever and try to get a doctor for some pills?

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What is the best possible way to get over someone? I got dumped MONTHS ago by my first boyfriend and I'm still not over it. He's somehow always on my mind and being pathetic, I still cry over him. My friends and family are even sick of hearing about it. Does anyone have good ways that you got over someone that hurt you badly? I just want him out of my mind & heart!

hi.
so you kan like;
when you HAVE to talk about him; spell his name out instead of saying it. that way yer thinking about him as an object; not a person.

and basically; find some one you could like and maybe be with.. that way you wont think about yer old boyfriend and as soon as you get over the old boyfriend; maybe you could move onw ith everything in yer life?

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Ok so like i used to cut because of all the emotions i was going through, but now im not depressed and im fine and im just cutting for no reason, and i have no idea why im cutting just for no reason. its not like im upset about something. its like im cutting because im used to it and i feel i need to keep doing it. can someone please help me and try to figure out why im cutting just because.

it could be because yer used to it; but now yer just doing it because maybe yer bored.

you should pick up a hobby or read or something to get yer mind off of it.

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hey um i was wondering i asked another person for advice and she said i am having this thing called "discharge" going on. its like a clear goo thing that comes out near your butt. but its soooooooo annoying and i really hate it and it has been going on for more than like almost half a year. and i was wondering if you know about it or if you know how it started or how i can get it to stop. because i have really fun things in my life and it just ruins them. and it sucks. but i am asking you because you have given great advice and you are sooooo awesome and good at it. : ] :D and i wanted to thank you so much. you help sooo many people out including me. :D so please if you have answers...i need them im desperate. thanxx so much :D

lol it happens to most girls when near their period.
mainly it happens when you are like a year away from getting yer first period.
it happens afterwards too.

you kant stop it, really. you just have to go on with yer life.

okay?

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I think I'm gonna pierce my own ear.


I have it pierced twice and my cartilage...but yea...how do I make the needle or w.e clean?

ive done it before.
all i did was dipped it in like i think its rubbing alcohol.
but if you do something like another cartilage.. make sure it wont hit a vein!

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This may sound silly but, I just got a new hamster.. He is black and has a white line on his tummy. I was just wondering if anyone has any cute names for a black boy hamster that are unique.
Thankz! :)

i have a dwarf hamster named princess. :]
and my friend has a hamster named rambo.

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Is it more apropriate to tell a guy your home phnoe nummber or your cell phone number?

cell phone number.

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Okay, so I'm going to get my hair cut sometime soon .. and I'd like to get it styled kind of different, because my hair has been long, blonde, and wavy my whole life. So, does anybody know of a website where there are pictures of hairstyles for teens, celebrity hairstyles, etc. ? It would be greatly appreciated.
Oh yeah, and does anybody know of any kind of shampoo and conditioner that straightens your hair without using a straightener or blow dryer, because my hair gets really damaged from straightening it. Thanks =).

you kan just search on google.com
for hairstyles.

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My dad pasted away from leukemia 4 months and 10 days ago (March 1st). Well right now, we're (my mom, brother, and I) in Ireland visiting family. We've been here for about 3 weeks. Well for then past 2 weeks my mom has been acting very different and forgetful. When she goes to do the dishes or something, when she's done, she'll come and sit down then get up and say that she needs to do the dishes. When she gets into the kitchen and sees that there are no dishes (because she already did them) she'll ask "Who did the dishes? I was about to do them!" It's so weird. She'll also repeats herself all the time and never wants to go out or do anything.


We're all so worried about her but we don't know what to do. My family members want us to get her to see a specialist here in Ireland but my brother and I want to cut our trip short and deal with it once we get back to the states. We don't know which is better.


At first we thought she's like this because of the loss of my dad but she's gone over 4 months without anything weird like this so why now? Any help?

She could finally think about it and this could be her way of grieving.

Counseling could do a little good or you could talk to her and tell her to start writing her feelings into a journal.

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what is the amount of calories per day that is healthy? like how many calories a day should you have?
please&thankyou

i think its like 1,500 calories. im pretty sure. :]

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I run windows 98SE, and yesterday I deleted the file "Rundll32.exe" by mistake thinking it was a virus. It came up on my virus program. Now I can't access my control pannel, add/remove programs, calendar, etc. It's really upsetting me because I didn't really mean to delete it, and I don't want to pay to get it back on my computer. Thanks for any help

you should try going to yer recycling bucket on yer computer and restoring it.

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be prepared, its a bit long.


my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months. he's amazing. it was actually one of those best friends for life, turned love, things er whatever. but the thing is: he has jealousy issues like no other. he always tells me that guys are flirting with me, and he doesn't like it. i admit, i do flirt with guys, but its my nature. i grew up with guys. and i dont see flirting like most people do. i know its bad, but i cant seem to get it through my boyfriend's head that i only like him. and not anyone else. i try to explain i dont mean to flirt. but he just says 'okay' in that sarcastic, i know he's lying sort of way. and to top it all off. he 'flirts' with other girls too. if he wants to say that i do. but i know he doesnt mean it.

[bt the way, "flirting" in the sense. would be me pushing a guy. or pretending to throw him in the water. or the definition of childish flirting. i'm not even talking about like, kissing other guys or anything]

..and i definitly don't want to screw things up with the one guy that i dont have any problems with [well, besdies this].


so, im asking.
could anyone give advice on how i could possibly.
try to stop "flirting" with people.
or how to get it through his head, that i dont mean to.
because i think he only partially believes me.

you should try to spend more time with yer boyfriend then those guys that you flirt with.
that way the person that yer most likely to flirt with.. is yer boyfriend.

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Does anyone know any good sappy teenage romance novels? I need something good to read. =D

the notebook.

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Well, my situation is as followed.

I have two best friends. One of which I dated, and we broke up. Now my other best friend whom is a girl, always thought my boyfriend was hot and lusted after him.

I trusted both of them completely, and not even a month after we broke up they had sex. Well, If one of them would of told me - it would of been nice but I found out thru HER ex boyfriend, and only because there was a pregnancy scare.

I feel betrayed because she promised she would never do anything with him, and I am still in love with him and she knew that when she did what she did.

He's away at basic in the army, and I had to deal with her. Her response was, "It's in the past, I cant do anything about it now." and her explanation for the event happening was that He started it, and she said (I quote) "I'm a ho, It's in my blood. Someone wants to hit this, I let them!"

I don't know how to deal with this situation. I didnt deck her like I wanted to, but I stayed over at her house and chilled that day because I wasn't sure how to react. Now she calls and I don't want to anwser her phone calls...how do I deal with this?

She seems to feel no remorse for it.. wants to be friends still..

But I know I can't just go on without having my say in it or else I will always feel bitter.

Yes it's in the past but the consequences are NOW.

I need help right away!

Talk to her more;
tell her that yer still in love with him.
and that you dont think you can forgive her yet.
it was a horrible thing for her to do. and yer not gonna put up with it.
maybe you should read a book or something to get yer mind off of it. and juss slowy let all of this go.
every moment that you spend mad, thats a minute of yer life you wont get back.

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lately ive been so self concious about my nose.i think its really big and is the only thing that stands out on my face. everytime i talk to someone i think they are staring at my nose. im not gonna go and get plastic surgery or anything but is there anyway to boost my self confidence?! im 15/f and not to sound like conceited or anything but alot of people say im so gorgeous and i just dont see it! ive never had a boyfriend and i WAS crushin on this really cute kid but now he has a really really pretty girlfriend. im jealous. for some reason im jealous of so many girls! i know people have said just say your beautiful or name off your good traits but thats not gonna help ME and i know it. ahh any other suggestions? thanks.

its normal to be jealous of many girls and to self concious about yerself.
its a normal thing. but if yer so concerned about yer nose, then think about yer good qualities. or instead of focusing on yer nose so much.. try doing something else. like reading a book or talking online or something.

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Where can i buy iron on clothing labels? (So my child does not loose any clothes while she is at summer camp.) thank you

try Joanne's fabric or craft mart.

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