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i'm a virgin
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 12:20 am
i'm 18 years old and i'm a virgin. i've been seeing this guy for a while and we have done everything except sex. i have done everything except sex with other guys before too, but now i want to actually go further. the only thing is that i'm sure sure if he knows im a virgin or not and i think that is something he should know. i just don't know how to bring up that topic without it being awkward. do you have any ideas of how to bring it up to him? i don't want to just blurt it out ya know? thanks!
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Is it ever a bad idea to tell someone how you feel about them?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 11:30 pm
I really want to tell my boyfriend how much he means to me but I'm really nervous about it. I suck at expressing my feelings and I don't want it to come off as something forced, you know? I just want to let him know that he means a lot to me and that I, well, love him.
I mean, I know he might not feel as strongly about me as I do about him but that's okay with me right now. We haven't been going out too long so I don't expect him to say, "I feel the same way about you!" I just feel like I should tell him what I think about our relationship and how I feel about him...
Is it a bad idea since I'm not good at talking about my feelings or is it something that is ok?
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the ex
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 10:50 pm
I am bi sexual and my gf got mad last night because I was drunk and hugged an old guy friend. She got mad and was like how would u feel if I did that to you. But she goes to her exs all the time and I have went there before too because my gfs roomate used to live with her and there kids like the ex but my gf will come back and her ex has bough her cigs or something and is always wantin her to come over and drink usually my gf doesnt but its realy eatin me up and its causing a lot of tension between us what do I do? I dont wanna lose her
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more than best friends?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 9:30 pm
me and this guy, we say were "best friends" but we flirt NONSTOP everytime we're together, and i just don't know if its us being comofortable with each other, or if we both want to be more, if we're just really attracted to each other or if its just a best friend kinda thing. i'll give you a couple examples of what we do and i'll get your opinion!(:
i took a shower, and i came out with only a towel on and he was like "daaaaaaang, i'll dry you off;)!" and i started laughing and he took my water and i was like give me my water! and he sat down on a chair and he was like come sit on me. and i shyly was like "noooo:)" and i bent over and he like lifted my towel up, but it wasnt embarassing be...
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is it a rule that every first love must come to an end?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 7:08 pm
so, im 17/m, my girlfriend (17 too) and I have been going out for almost a year and 3 months now. She's my first girlfriend, but really love her.
A few weeks ago we were on our way back from some back-to-school shopping in the city and she asked me how I felt about having a girlfriend when i was in college, (we're planning on going to different colleges next year and she wasn't sure how to feel either). I freaked out, had a meltdown and told her all kinds of things i had thought about, but never acted on. Like how she's my first girlfriend and how I wasnt 100% sure of how strongly I loved her, since I havent been with anyone else. After getting back to her house, we talked some more and cried alot and decided to just be frien...
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FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS?!
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 6:24 pm
i just want peoples opinions if this sounds like friends with benefits to me.. it doesn't. I just got out of a long relationship awhile ago and this guy ive known since 8th grade, started talking more and we use the term were "friends with benefits"
1. Every time he signs on, or comes back from away on AIM, he IM's me instantly
2. He calls me at least twice a week usually aroun 11pm and we talk till about 2am
3. We talk about personal things, family, past stories.. ( i had to get an abortion because of medical reasons, i could have died ) we talk about that..
4. He sends me nude, and not nude pictures and vise versa
5. He have NOT actually hooked up YET he works a lot and i work a lo...
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i really like him <3
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 3:46 pm
there is this boy that i really like at my schooland he knows i like him due to my friends telling him but i dont really mind tbh it was just a crush at first but now i dont just fancy him i love him but i am scared to tell him how i feel incase he just laughes at me and when i speek to him on msn he never replys what should i do ??
13/f
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hmm, should i stay with this kid?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 2:39 pm
Alright, so I'm in this "summer fling" i guess you could say. I started talking to this guy weeks ago, and Wednesday he asked me out and I said yes. So we've been dating for like three days. Now, before this happened his bestfriend (who also liked me) said he's such a player. Anyways, so I've hungout with my boyfriend now a few times since Wednesday, and we've made out and got real into it if you know what i mean haha. Last night, on my way home from his house, he told me he wanted to have sex with me. I can't help but really think all he wants is sex, and he's compleeeetely using me. But he says no, that he likes and cares about me a lot.
Should I just let this go before i get hurt? Move on into school without this...
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I'm a mess...
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 12:17 pm
I just moved into college on Friday 4 hours away from my home where I left my boyfriend behind. We both cried when he drove back home and I've never seen him show any sort of emotion besides happiness. I cried again that night...more like bawling, then again the next day when my parents came back for a freshman ceremony. Everyday I'm on the edge of tears and I hate it because I am not a cryer. I'll be good all day but as soon as my boyfriend tells me he loves me (text or on the phone) I get all choked up and I can feel my eyes swelling. The good news is that he's applying for a school half an hour away from me but it won't start for a few months. I really need help getting through the months until he gets here...I can't keep crying everyday...
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Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 11:49 am
My boyfriend went on holiday yesterday for 2 weeks, we both got credit so we can text each other. We only really text if we need to talk about something or if we're meeting up etc.
So what's some cute texts I can send him? Without just telling him what I'm doing and telling him I love him. Thanks
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Is it worth the time?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 11:41 am
Hello ,
My name's Betty and I have a problem.Most guys just jump right into action right. Well , I met this guy and we hung out for the first time. We went to the movies and he made some moves on me. Then he said to go back to his car so we did , and he put my hand on his lower area. Most likely , I'm taking a guess that's all he wanted and wasn't interested in me. My question is , is it worth waiting him to talk to me or leave it behind and not talk to him again?
Thank you.
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I STILL <3 HIM, IS IT TOO L8?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 10:56 am
I love my boyfriend, well ex now. We broke up like a month ago. The break up was my idea. I felt ignored, unwanted, but I knew he loved me. I was always at the bottom of his priorities and I couldn't deal with that anymore. Ne ways we still say we're together when people ask though. We haven't really talked. But I can't get him out of my mind. I see him everyday at school and it hurts to just walk past him and pretend I don't care. When people tell me they seen him flirting with other girls and holding their hands I pretend I don't care. When I hear he even told some other girl that he likes her, I have to pretend I don't care. Well I'm tired of pretending. I finally had a real face to face conversation with him a few days ago. He said he m...
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He's not responding!
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 9:40 am
Okay~ There's a guy that likes me, a quiet, shy kid, much like me. I like him too. We both know that we like each other. Thing is, he's starting to fade, so to speak. I give him letters confessing to him, say hello and try to chat, and try to grow our relationship. However, he brushed it all off (I didn't even get a response from the letter!). I don't know if it's just shyness or what, but it makes me a bit annoyed that he would just ignore me. Now I'm starting to forget about him, saying "I'm over him", but school is coming back soon and he hasn't contacted me since it ended. I'm standing on a line between, "I still like him" and "He missed his chance". I don't know what I should tell him...
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I don't know what to do about two friends!
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 1:59 am
i really like two different friends but i don't know which to date. i am M Senior in High school
Friend 1. we were really close, talked about everything together. we started holding hands and talking on the phone daily but we thought we shouldn't date till the next school year (which now starts in like a week) b/c we were close friends and thought that it would be best to wait since she just got out of a relationship with someone who was a close friend to her but the relationship ended badly. after a little while she started dating another guy b/c she "wanted a fun relationship" nothing serious. a lot of miscommunications and confusion later our friendship was hurt but now we are talking on the phone again and thing...
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overreaction? NAH..?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 1:48 am
19/f
bad bad niiight!:(
so i'll admit, i flirt with guys all the time, it's just my personality. it doesnt mean i like them! and today i was with this guy i like (joe), who is also my good friend and his friend (nick) and this other girl who i don't like. well joe was flirting with the other girl, i dont know if he was trying to make me jealous or he was just doing it because he liked her so i started flirting with nick and just talking to him and stuff. well i was suuuper tired because i had just gotten back from an amusement park and joe was like come on, you're no fun! lets danceeee, lets do something! and i was like agh joe i'm sunburnt and tired!
well then them three went to a party and then...
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moving away
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 1:24 am
okay so me and my boyfriend started going out when i was 15 and he 16 we are now 18 so two years and some months well we broke up before we made a year and made a big mess! we started seeing other people in a way to hurt each other well we were broken up for like 4 or 5 months then we started bac talking but during the break up we still gave hint that we were still in love and talked occasionaly but anyways we have been together happily for a while now; he was my first love and i was his so we kinda knew that we would end back up together. so ive been going through alot of stress and he is my best friend seriously he's the only one that knows everything about me. well i lived wit him for about a month and during that time his ma started to ...
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7 months more arguing
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 12:50 am
hello im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we have been dating for about 7 months now. I've realized now that just this past month we've been having more little arguments lately. We really do love each other and i really think hes the one and i know he feels the same. Its just i have a problem with him smoking pot. I tell him i dont like it and he knows that but he says hes gonna do it anyways and he doesnt think he should change. I should like him for who he is. I do like him for who he is its just im tired of him doing it. I just hate it when he does. And those who do smoke pot out there please dont gimme a lecture on how it is possibly good for you. But its pretty much just been about that. There is no way of me getting him to stop. Is there...
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getting treated horribly.
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 12:37 am
15 year old female . & i want to be in charge of the relationship . my boyfriend lately has beeen in the i dont give a crap mood and he talks to girls and he gets mad about everything, also he loses patience with me alot, and he says that im annoying . he is always making fun of me and stuff in front of his friends and he always treats me bad and makes me feeel like if i was his dog or something. is there any way that i can stay with him , but make me be in charge ? and stop him from treating me this way ?
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turning on guys
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 10:14 pm
how can i turn on a guy discreetly without being slutty or nonchalant? Like ways i can do it while still staying a few feet away and without talking to them?
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A Shy Kisser
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 8:00 pm
Ok i Got A Shy Boyfriend But Not Shy in Gernal He is Only Gets Shy When I Say Kiss Me? That's The Only Thing. I Just Want a Kiss from Him nd i haveno idea how to get that from him.
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