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overreaction? NAH..?
19/f
bad bad niiight!:(
so i'll admit, i flirt with guys all the time, it's just my personality. it doesnt mean i like them! and today i was with this guy i like (joe), who is also my good friend and his friend (nick) and this other girl who i don't like. well joe was flirting with the other girl, i dont know if he was trying to make me jealous or he was just doing it because he liked her so i started flirting with nick and just talking to him and stuff. well i was suuuper tired because i had just gotten back from an amusement park and joe was like come on, you're no fun! lets danceeee, lets do something! and i was like agh joe i'm sunburnt and tired!
well then them three went to a party and then me and my cousin had to go pick up the girl and joe and brought them back to my cousins and now i was all hyper and had alot of energy and what does joe do? goes and lays on the couch with the girl and watches a movie. AWKWARD?! so i was like trying to entertain myself and i kind of stayed away from them, trying to act like i didn't care and then the girl has to go home and of course then joe is like well i'm going to go home, i'm tired! and so he like came over to me and hugged me but i just stood there and didn't hug him back and he was like come on give me a hug! and i was like....no. your not going to stay and hang out with me? and he was like i was trying to earlier! and i was like no whatever, and he was like come on just give me a hug and and i was like noo..
and then he was like alright bye, and left.
i mean i don't think i was to harsh by not giving him a hug do you? he suppose to be my best friend and hang out with me, but he pretty much ignored me the whole night but still wants a hug and acts like nothings wrong? he knows i was upset.
anyways do you think i over reacted?
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I think you might have overreacted a little bit, but not TOTALLY. Because I would have been a little upset if I was in your position too. But you DID decline his offer of going out with him and having fun, so he left and probably had a good time with the girl. then when they got back and were watching a movie, you DID stay away from him, so he probably felt just as awkward as you did. It's not bad that you didn't give him a hug, I mean, I'm sure if you explain to him why you got upset, he'll understand. But it's really no big deal, he DID try to hang out with you ... but you shot him down, which was probably a blow to his e-go yuh know ? Just talk to him about it. If you overreacted ALOT you would have like screamed at him and made it this whole big drawn out fight, but you're just upset, and that's understandable.
good luck ! hope i helped and don't sweat it, you're fineee. xxo. :]
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Yeah, you overreacted.
You have no right to be upset with him. He can hang out with whoever he wants, and he invited you along & tried to get you to come to the party with them. You refused so that's not his problem. He asked, you declined & he went about his night & had his fun.
You didn't have to hug him back, but to be mad at him for having fun & hanging out with someone is stupid. You even tried to get revenge on him by flirting with Nick, & that's even stupider.
You overreacted, it's that simple. Get over it.
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