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I don't know what to do about two friends!
i really like two different friends but i don't know which to date. i am M Senior in High school
Friend 1. we were really close, talked about everything together. we started holding hands and talking on the phone daily but we thought we shouldn't date till the next school year (which now starts in like a week) b/c we were close friends and thought that it would be best to wait since she just got out of a relationship with someone who was a close friend to her but the relationship ended badly. after a little while she started dating another guy b/c she "wanted a fun relationship" nothing serious. a lot of miscommunications and confusion later our friendship was hurt but now we are talking on the phone again and things seem to be back on track
friend 2. our families' are kind of close, and we have fun whenever we are with each other, she seems to like me and i kind of like her.
i want to date one of them but i don't know which one is the right one. what should i do?
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Wow! complicated huh? Well it seems tha you have way more in common with the first friend, I mean you describe her a paragrah long... And the other was just what, a sentence or two... you really went into indept details about te first one... And it seems as if you're more smitten with her... And the 2nd you said that you kinda like her well it's no kinda... It's either you do or you don't... ANd I think you like the first more... And just because your family is close to someone doesn't mean that, you have to nessarily date that person or, it would even work out... My opinion is, you should follow your heart... And choose the one that give you that certain feeling... you know that feeling... But I'm banking on the first... but beware it's not always so good to backtrack... I personally would want to start fresh...
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Hmmm, okay, so I see it as you REALLY like friend #1 [who seems to be kind of the risky factor in this equation] and i think you like friend #2 as more of a friend than anything else. I really think your heart is set on number 1, because even the way you took the time to tell us about the history between the both of you and how she affected you shows that you care for her alot. although, I really think you should talk to friend 2 more, try to see if you can get more of a relationship connection with her than a friendship one. I mean, you did say that you "kinda" like friend #2.
I can't tell you WHO to choose, but i think friend #1 is the better option. but you have to follow your heart. think about these questions, and who comes to your mind first...
- who do you see yourself with in a relationship for more than a couple months?
- who would be the first girl you go to with a problem, 1 or 2 ?
- who makes you laugh more ?
- who do you have more in common with ?
- who can you picture yourself kissing more ?
- which one makes you more comfortable ?
- who are you thinking about right now ?
answer those questions and you'll find the answer, I promise. good luck and have fun ! hope i helped, and if you need antyhing else feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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