My name's Betty and I have a problem.Most guys just jump right into action right. Well , I met this guy and we hung out for the first time. We went to the movies and he made some moves on me. Then he said to go back to his car so we did , and he put my hand on his lower area. Most likely , I'm taking a guess that's all he wanted and wasn't interested in me. My question is , is it worth waiting him to talk to me or leave it behind and not talk to him again?
Thank you.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Debbie235 answered Tuesday August 25 2009, 4:16 pm: It depends on what you want from him. If you want just a fling go for it... But if you're looking for a relationship... He's the wrong guy... Because he labeled what he wanted from you even before the dat begun... I've been on dates where I was taken to the movies and out to eat... And after the date was over, I was just given a quick kiss on the cheek... And dates like that ended and began an long term relationship... The guy had no right to assume that you wanted to jump his bones... And he had no intention of really getting to know you so, If you want something other than a fling you should move on... Best of luck to you [ Debbie235's advice column | Ask Debbie235 A Question ]
steph2k10 answered Sunday August 23 2009, 10:20 pm: honestly, it is pretty suspicious that he makes such a sexual move on the first date. Either he felt like he could get away with it, or thats all he wanted.
I would say go on another date with him. If he continues to seem only interested in sex, if thats not what you are looking for, let him know. See where it goes from there.
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