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i'm a virgin
i'm 18 years old and i'm a virgin. i've been seeing this guy for a while and we have done everything except sex. i have done everything except sex with other guys before too, but now i want to actually go further. the only thing is that i'm sure sure if he knows im a virgin or not and i think that is something he should know. i just don't know how to bring up that topic without it being awkward. do you have any ideas of how to bring it up to him? i don't want to just blurt it out ya know? thanks!
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Before you're about to be intimate with him, just tell him. Alot of guys love the fact that their gf is a virgin, so you'll probably get a good reaction from him. I would definitely tell him before anything happens tho so he'll know to go easy. Goodluck!
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Wow! Virgin at 18, these days that's very good. I'm sure if you tell him you're a virgin, he should be really pleased. I think that would also add to his sexual attraction towards you. I would tell him just before we are intimate. I'll sit him down and say, well this is my frst time and I'm a virgin. So please be patient and gentle with me. And I'm quite sure you'll get a positive result from him. But remember, make sure he use a condom, you wouldn't want to get pregnant or catch an std your first time. Good luck.
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Honestly, just come right out and say it!
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Most guy's even prefer that. You can do what the person below me said to do..or one day when you feel the time is right, and you want to have sex. Just before you do, just flat out tell him you're a virgin. Nothing wrong with it at all :)
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if you have done everything but sex with this guy you should feel comfortable with just saying it.. just casually be like i have a random question, are you a virgin? and if he says no just be like oh, i am.. or something like that hes going to like the fact that your a virgin.. trust me guys are turned on by that kind of thing.. he'll like it. dont be embarrassed or anything.. like i said hes going to like it. and if you can't say that to him then your not ready to have sex with him, sorry if this wasn't what you wanted to hear, but its the truth.
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Well if you're wanting to go further with him, you should be totally comfortable talking to him about it.
Next time you 2 do things, afterwards, bring up the topic of you going further and see what he says - then let him know you're a bit nervous because you haven't done it before.
You could even say something along the lines of "I want you to be my first" - that's pretty self explanatory and he will be happy that you made that decision.
Stop worrying about telling him and just do it, in any way which makes you feel the most comfortable - face to face, even a txt message if you guys get onto that topic via sms :)
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If you guys are comfortable enough in your relationship to have sex, you should be comfortable in talking about it. If he likes you enough, he would probably be flattered that he would get to be your first. Maybe instead of saying, "I'm a virgin." you could say "I've never had sex." which isn't as harsh but he will know what you mean.
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