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He's not responding!


Question Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 9:40 am

Okay~ There's a guy that likes me, a quiet, shy kid, much like me. I like him too. We both know that we like each other. Thing is, he's starting to fade, so to speak. I give him letters confessing to him, say hello and try to chat, and try to grow our relationship. However, he brushed it all off (I didn't even get a response from the letter!). I don't know if it's just shyness or what, but it makes me a bit annoyed that he would just ignore me. Now I'm starting to forget about him, saying "I'm over him", but school is coming back soon and he hasn't contacted me since it ended. I'm standing on a line between, "I still like him" and "He missed his chance". I don't know what I should tell him...

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Debbie235 answered Monday August 24 2009, 10:41 pm:
I don't know if you ever watched the movie ''He's just not that in to you'' And if you haven't you should check it out. My opinion on your matter is, maybe he's not that into you. For what reason who knows. And instead of wating for the guy, I think you should just move on. I'm sure you're a beautiful girl and, you can attract many more guys, so why waste time with someone who won't even respond to you. Best of Luck!

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tiredoftrying answered Sunday August 23 2009, 2:44 pm:
hmmm. I think you should just let it go, exhale and move on! If he's "brushing you aside" then you should just forget about it, you don't deserve that.
But to explain for his actions it could be many things. He could have heard a rumor about you maybe, that you were with someone else? Maybe he saw you talking to another guy and interpretted it as flirting. Or he could simply have a lot on his mind, and he likes you but he can't do a relationship thing momentarely.

If I were you, i'd let it go for the time being. He could always come back when he's ready, but for now, don't even worry about it. Go have fun with other guys :D

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