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How should I deal with this?


Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 9:14 pm

Ok, here's the problem. A really good friend of mine, Nick, has been in a bad relationship for a while. It is clearly causing him pain and frustration. Friday night, we were watching a movie and eventually started making-out. It lasted about 2 hours. I don't know what to do about it. Should I talk to him? We said it wouldn't be awkward, but I do kind of like him. I'm very confused. What should I do?

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How can I show him I like him? And how can I tell if he likes me?


Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 6:27 pm

I went out with this guy named David for two months, and I didn't kiss him. (We barely ever saw each other, and neither of us have ever kissed someone before.) I broke up with him two months ago because I just wasn't feeling the relationship (yeah, that sounds kind of mean, but I have to be true to myself.) I haven't talked to him much since, but it seems that things are okay between us.
But anyways, so I've started to like his best friend Corey, a lot. He's really all I can think about lately. He's a big flirt so it's pretty difficult to tell who he likes since he shows signs of liking pretty much every girl in my school. How might I be able to tell if he actually likes me? And how can I show him, subtly, that I like him? I d...

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my best friend's friend


Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 4:30 pm

17/f. okay so my best friend and i are alike in every way except when it comes to boys. she has had her share of crushes and sometimes the guys like her back, but no major relationships. i have had a few relationships, one lasting over a year, and many hook ups, but am not at all promiscuous.
getting to the point- my friend (mary) has had a family friend (kyle) for the longest time. her whole family is friends with his whole family, and mary and kyles younger sister and brother are friends too. recently i have been hanging out a lot with kyle when mary does. he is really cool and we flirt a lot. i dont know if its just how he is, or something else, but i am beginning to be interested in him. yesterday we went and saw a movie with me...

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confusedddddd!


Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 3:38 pm


Okay so I never really care about guys. i get with a few here & ther ebut that was it. never really like the whole relationship thing.
then i met this kid, jim. we started talking, and i really started to like him for some reason.. anyway. we went out, and he ended up cheating on me with his ex, but he said that he needed to get with her one more time to realize he was completely over her.
so i said we can still talk but we're not going out. so we kept talking. about a month later, he admitted to having sex with her but he didnt expect it to happen it just did. again i said whatever, its not like we are together.
we are still talking, but everyone is telling me that i can do so much better and that...

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Held our hands to the ceiling?


Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 11:39 am

I am new at this whole dating thing, but I was with this boy I really like last night. He held our hands up to the ceiling of my car and said to see who would let their hand drop first.. He wouldn't tell me what it meant, so please, can anyone tell me what it means? Thanks x a million :)

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im so confuse


Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 10:15 am

well,to start off,i was dating my ex for about 10 months and we broke up coz of how he treated me.i dont know y i love this guy so much even if he treated me bad.i know there are tons of reasons that i should have hate him and i got no reasons to love him but yet im still in love with this guy.i dont really know if this is right.whenever he would text me and he wants me in his place i would definitely go.i so hate myself for being like this..is this really wrong?

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i need advice


Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 6:06 am

well me and my ex girl friend were going out for almost a month and im 13 and shes 14,
i have a really good friend that is a girl and i licked her face as a joke, my ex found out about it and told me she was okay. but the next dday she saw me flirting with a girl but i didnt even notice i was flirting. so yada yada yada all this stuff went on and she dumped me. do u think this is a valid reason for her to dump me? (oh and btw she sed she was the type of person to try and work things out, but i asked her if we could work things out and she sed they are already worked out) or do u think she just tried to find a way out because i noticed i few days before this she wasnt as enthusiatic about it and she seemed like she was starting not to love me any more.

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How do I get boys to notice me


Posted Saturday October 17 2009, 1:12 pm

I am 16/f
And I like this boy named let's say Ryan and he is a senior.I'm a sophmore. We really don't talk cuz were both in different grades. I just talked to him yesterday and he looked so good. We both like basketball and I just know we would click. But how do I talk to him without being obvious.

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I know my best friend's wife is cheating...what do I do?


Posted Saturday October 17 2009, 12:00 pm

Months ago my best friend confided in me that his marriage was not going as planned. I felt bad for this because he's really a good guy. I decided to keep my eyes opened when it came to their relationship to try and figure out what the fuss was all about because he was very confused. I know that since then he has talked about his wife coming home really upset after work, staying out much later than expected, not having sex with him for weeks, and other clues to her possibly cheating.

A week ago I was out and actually saw his wife. My girlfriend was actually the one that pointed her out to me as we were dining. His wife was all over another man, kissing on him and everything. I didn't recognize the man at all.
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where???


Posted Saturday October 17 2009, 1:04 am

where do really hot guys hang out usually?????????????????????????????????????????

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should i?


Posted Saturday October 17 2009, 1:03 am

today i was shopping somewhere with my friends and we were eating at moes,there were 3 other guys in there (hot guys) and we were like tlking about them. then one of them came up to me and said
him-"one of my friends has a thing for you"
me-"me????"
him-"yeah, he wants to fuck u"

then we talked to them for a while and im 15 they were 19 and one was 17.and then when they were leaving they passed us in their car and honked and threw a piece of paper out the window that had their #s on it. and it said "whenever u want"......should i call them??????????????? because i really want to hook up wit one of them and like everyone is all like "they are too old for you!"

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Why do I turn down guys that I like?


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 11:50 pm

I do this all of the time and it's really aggravating. Yesterday, my best friend (Michelle) brought down her boyfriend (Jason) and his friend (Chris) to my house to hang out for awhile. By the end of the night, Chris told me that he really had grown to like me over the hours of conversation and wanted to know if I felt the same. I told him that I wasn't interested right now--BUT I AM! I have no clue why I ended up saying that but I do it all of the time! I get to know a super great guy that and when he tells me that he likes me I tell him that I don't have the same feelings for him even though I do. It's really confusing because afterwards I feel like a complete idiot and regret opening my big mouth about the situation. Why don't I g...

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What do do other than sex


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 10:08 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month now and i feel like its the same old stuff. I go over his house, we make out, he might feel up my shirt or something.. and thats it. i'm not interested in any type of sex so i'm wondering how i can change things up. i really have no ideas. i mean we do just hang out sometimes and like make cupcakes like last week but its usually the same. Thanks!

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he may have feelings, but i dont


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 9:47 pm

i am a girl. i have been in the same classes with this one guy for about 6 years. around 3 years ago, we started to talk and hang out together. rumors started, but then they kind of went away after everyone realized that nothing was going on and high school started. this kid follows me constantly and never stops talking. the rumors are starting back up again, and its getting annoying. i dont know if this kid likes me as more than a friend, but i just like him as a friend. how do i let everyone know this (including him without hurting his feelings) and get the rumors and jokes to stop? please help!

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Annoying Ex-Crush


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 7:18 pm

Hello

Long story short i had this huge crush on this guy 2 years ago but he had gf and she freaked out when she knew i liked and now today i DO NOT like him and now both of them giving me terrible looks and they still think i ike him so there al over each other when im around and when i talk to other guys the guy i liked pushes them into me a laughs and high fives his friends !! :@ what can i do to stop this anything will help!!

thank-you

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i love him so much that it hurts...


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 1:11 pm

17/f and hes 18/m.

my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little bit over a year now, on and off of course... we were still hooking up during that time of not going out though so i still call it a year.
he now goes to colllege as a freshman and im a junior in high school. this distance is killing me, hes 320 miles away from me. but i see him so much already. i see him about 2 times a month for a weekend, its enough to make me happy. so this is a long distance relationship i suppose.
he was home for coloumbus day weekend because he had a 5 day break, so i was with him every second of those 5 days. having sleepovers, being with him all day, running aarons with him, seeing his grandparents with him and whatno...

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Gay


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 12:40 pm

k so i am gay and i dont konw how to tell my dad and i loke this guy at school and i dont know what to do will you plz help!

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First Love.


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 7:06 am

What's your view on 'first loves'?
Like, do you believe you'll always love the first person you fell inlove with ... to some degree?

Because it's been about 2 years since my first and I broke up, and I'm still hung up on him. Not like intensely, just... I still feel for him, and have wished I didn't for years now. What the hell?

Yeah, so... what do you think about first loves?
Thanks. ^__^


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Should I expose a cheater?


Posted Friday October 16 2009, 2:01 am

When I met him he was basically a prostitute. He was willing to sell himself to anyone for 50 dollars. I watched him do it. Later I convinced him that this was wrong and that he should not do that. I think he still does from time to time. He thought I was rich so he didn't try to charge me. Instead made me feel like I was important. He even moved in with me and became my best friend and secret lover. I guess with time he lost all hope of getting money out of me. Then one day he just up and left. Moved in with someone else. Told me it was platonic, but I soon learned that he was lying. He played a crazy game of roller coaster with me as all good players do. Kept seeing me the whole time he lived with this other person. He would even make pla...

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My boyfriend doesnt say the right things..


Posted Thursday October 15 2009, 10:58 pm

My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, but he always and rarely says the right things. You know, i'm 17 and hes 18 and you know how girls like to hear cute stuff. He has never really said cute things except "Laura i never knew i could love a girl as much as i love you<33" thats the only thing. I was really upset one day and i asked him how much he loved me, he said alot.. why? i said idk im upset, can you elaborate on it a little and make me smile? :) and all he said was.. i dunno laura i love you alot.
i just love it when guys call me beautiful, girls you understand that, being called beautiful to your face is the best feeling you can ever get while talking to someone. when he looks in your eyes and say...

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