I am 16/f
And I like this boy named let's say Ryan and he is a senior.I'm a sophmore. We really don't talk cuz were both in different grades. I just talked to him yesterday and he looked so good. We both like basketball and I just know we would click. But how do I talk to him without being obvious.
misunderstoodx3 answered Thursday October 22 2009, 3:00 am: well, you can talk to him about basketball.
and you can't be obvious to boys trust me
there all clueless no matter what, all you
have to is keep you it cool and keep your
act together and i'm sure everthing will be fine. [ misunderstoodx3's advice column | Ask misunderstoodx3 A Question ]
Raindrops812a answered Tuesday October 20 2009, 9:33 am: why dont you just try smiling at him for a start :]
show him that you find him attractive xD
[he might not smile back right away because he may not expect it]
try doing that for a week. when you see him in the hallway just smile & then look to the ground. make eyecontact & be flirty.
if he makes eyecontact as well you can see if he likes you.
if it all goes well you could just try saying hello or hi the next time you smile at eachother.
that way you can start a conversation.
make smalltalk first & then talk about basketball.
and dont worry about being 'obvious'. if you start things slowly & talk to him casually it wont be. just dont be like: omg youre soooo hott etc' haha [:
cause THAT would be obvious. i dont think it matters that youre in different grades. i also have friends who are older than me.
lusingrip101 answered Tuesday October 20 2009, 9:09 am: who cares if its obvious? first of all boys are known for their observation skills...not! dont throw yourself at him but if you see him in the hall stop and say hi.... or try and talk bball with him [ lusingrip101's advice column | Ask lusingrip101 A Question ]
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