I am a single mom of a three year old little girl who i am pushing to be te best person she can be. I am striving to find myself a literary agent so that the words i write dont die with me but change the lives of the people who read my work.
E-mail: jesswilliams06@verizon.net
Gender: Female
Location: Baltimore
Occupation: UNPUBLISHED AUTHOR
Age: 21
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i have been on birth control for a about a month and two weeks almost three well im not very good at taking them like at all the other week i forgot to take the pill so i took two the next day. then the other day i was about to take it and the pill dropped and i couldnt find it OF COIURSE! that day me and my boyfriend were having sex and i told him not to cum in me but he did anyway. he almost alawys cums in me by the way. (we just started cuming in me thoug) and even missing the pills i dont take them all at the same time everyday sometimes i forget in the morning or i figure i dont have time and take it when i get home from school or b4 i go to bed. but sometimes i take it regurlary everyday in the morning but that lasts like three days. and i know there are chances of getting pregnant ALWAYS! and the way ive been doing things i have a greater chance of but. what are the sighns and stuff and percentage of getting prego. like the first week of getting prego do you have signs i have been pooping like three times a day now that mean anything! (link)
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you can google pregnancy symptons.... the most common one is morning sickness but there are many others like missing a period. unfortunately due to the fact your cycle is probably messed up because of the birth control being taken so irregularly you cant really depend on your period to tell you if your late or not. and there is a good chance you could be pregant since youve been taking your birth control so irregularly but the only way to know for sure is for your doctor to do a pregnancy test. you should switch to another method of birth control too. like the nuva ring or the patch or something similiar that you only have to worry about once a month. i have the same problem with remembering to take the pill go i switched.
hope i helped and good luck with everything!!
-Lusingrip101
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Im 14 and a guy, i have had 1 gf but i didn't kiss her or anything but hug and i was wondering if first kisses are suppose to be awkwardish?
And is it normal to not kno what to do? (link)
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sweaty palms... pounding hearts... shaking hands... the inability to think or breathe or put rational thought together are all signs of your first kiss. im older then you and when a guy kisses me for the first time i still get nervous and because its the first time your kissing each other and neither of you knows what to expect it should be awkward... just take a deep breath relax and try not to puke on her and you should be fine
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Hi I am 22 years old living with my mom. I know I should move out but I don't have a job yet. I can not stand her she is always annoying me and everyday it make me think of moving out getting my own place. Her behavior is really immature and whenever she speaks to me its like deep down she thinks I look stupid. My face looks to soft for her and my body is too fat. I hate it I had been trying to loose 70 pounds but its impossible cause I don't even go out. And I know in a few years I 'll be able to work but I wish it was sooner. I hate her she can never like me the way I want her too. I feel like she has this really strong personality and I just quiver when she tells me I am wrong. (link)
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as a child with whose mother has a strong personality, and if your mother is anything like mine talking to her is not an option. but im not understanding why you cant leave the house or get a job. even if you go for a walk just to get away from her. and if your stuck in a house you can still lose weight.... try push ups or running in place and drink more water. unfortuneately you cant chnage your mother so dont try. if you can sit down with your mother to talk to her then try it... i apologize for the generic advice but unfortunatly thats all there really is if you cant get a place of your own
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i have really thick hair but i hate my bangs because i have so much of them..i have side swept bangs but they're really annoying just because theyre thick...would it be possible to thin them out? would it look weird>? thanks (link)
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it is possible to thin then out... unfortuneatly they have to grow... measure out the amount you want to keep and pin the rest of them back with bobby pins or something, but be aware its gets ner racking trying to make the line perfect every tome you do your hair
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whats 4 play (link)
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its the "build up" to sex. its not actually sex and you can have foreplay without sex... its like kissing and stuff like that
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so there is this guy, he only wants me because i almost grinded on him. I'm only seventeen, and I know that i'm not supposed to take any relationships at this age too seriously or anything like that....its just basically about dating a lot of guys and getting to know what i really like and don't like, and just having fun. He is hot, but he is a player. Should i let him in? or should i not? or should i just let him in and just have fun without taking anything too seriously? (link)
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women usually have trouble separating their emotions from the physical....so if you do decide to "do him" be careful.
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subject says it all, What are some songs about players and about getting over them or whatever? I just saw the guy i liked, walking with two girls, all over them both. I feel like sh!t,lol. Any songs from any genre will do,i like them all. (not so much rap/hip-hop..but if theres some good ones i'll check 'em out) I kinda want one that says "I can get over you//you dont mean anything to me//your just a player//" But again anything will do. Thanks so much =/. (link)
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i know you said you dont like much hip hip but keyshia cole has some really good ones two of my faves are i should have cheated, shoulda let you go and let it go... but let it go is more of a your man isnt good enough for you so i dont want him kinda thing... if i can think of some more ill let ya know
also before he cheats by carrie underwood.... im not much for country but its a good one
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im 5 months, maybe a week more than that. before i was really skinny plus im tall, so my bump isnt that big at all.
the thing is, i cant feel my baby move at ALL. i mean, i thought that i did when i was 4 months just like little flutters. but now when its supposed to be more noticable i cant feel it at all.
is this normal ?
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call the doctor immediately if you baby isnt moving... they will tell you to come in and might want to do an ultrasound.... if you dont have a doc then to go the er...
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Ok, here's the problem. A really good friend of mine, Nick, has been in a bad relationship for a while. It is clearly causing him pain and frustration. Friday night, we were watching a movie and eventually started making-out. It lasted about 2 hours. I don't know what to do about it. Should I talk to him? We said it wouldn't be awkward, but I do kind of like him. I'm very confused. What should I do? (link)
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sometimes frieds make the best couples... but his other relationship should end before you guys do that again... ask him where you stand
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Which is better? Which is more common? (link)
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circumcised is more uncommon and easier to take care of. men who are not circumcised have to be diligent with keeping themself clean.
but if your jewish then obviously its no choice. jewish men just arent circumcised, end of story.
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My friend gave me a bunch of green tomatoes. I am not really fond of them and would like them to be ripe and red. Is there a way I can ripen them now? (link)
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when we were little my mom would put tomatoes in a brown bag and stick thwm in a cabinet to ripen them and it worked.... suprisingly
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my love life has been a total disaster im 18 years old and im an illegal immagrant, i got cheated on every relationship and i come to realize that i will never feel what real love is about, and what sucks the most is that i have no one to talk about this, my family is always against me and the only thing i do is go to my room and its quiet/boring as hell and im lonely. i do what everyone says to do on tv, "talk to god" but no response, i come to the point that i dont want to exist no more i just want to dissapear so all of this pain and lonelyness can go away.... should i commit suicide or just keep takin this pain to my heart? (link)
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pain helps us grow. without pain there would be no compassion. and God does answer. sometimes the answer is no but He is there. find a church.... im a baptist and i love my church. so find a church or read a bible--- im a king james only girl---the bible is God talking to us.... find a safe hobby something that you like doing and honey all men are buttheads thats what we women get to deal with. but the reason were put through this is because when we finally find someone worth our time well appreciate it so much more
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I am 16/f
And I like this boy named let's say Ryan and he is a senior.I'm a sophmore. We really don't talk cuz were both in different grades. I just talked to him yesterday and he looked so good. We both like basketball and I just know we would click. But how do I talk to him without being obvious. (link)
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who cares if its obvious? first of all boys are known for their observation skills...not! dont throw yourself at him but if you see him in the hall stop and say hi.... or try and talk bball with him
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so last year, my friend was in a car accident, and someone close to her died in it. she was in a lot of pain, physically, and was in hospital for a while. she had to be weaned off the painkillers, because she got so addicited to them, and it was really scary, but now she's back to normal. then fo the past two weeks shes been really distant. also she's been taking theese blue capsules. they are a light blue and i'm putting a link to an image of a similar looking pill, but it's a tiny bit darker:
http://images.medscape.com/pi/features/drugdirectory/octupdate/UPJ03950.jpg
it had the word 'ROCHE' on it and another word which i think started with an 'X'. i'm probably worrying over nothing, because she's really smart, but i'm worried she's taking too much, cause i see her take it every day, and i know she got it from a friend, not the doctors. can anyone figure out what it is, and is it addictive. im not going to the teachers, EVER. and her dad just isnt there at all. she's pretty much alone, but she's an amazing person, and i would hate for her to be in trouble. (link)
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a good friend would worry. talk to her abut it first. dont accuse her of it but kinda lean into it and tell her that your worried. tell her that it would kill you to lose her... i was doing some research and believe that the pill was made by roche and that it could possibly xenical.. for weight loss i believe, i dont know if your friend is heavy or not or if she thinks she needs to lose weight but you could check into it... hope i helped:)
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im 16 male
i just finished writing my first novel, well its on microsoft word. its about 300 pages.
what do i do next to get it in the stores? and sell? details please. i need to know! (link)
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your best bet is to find an agent. google literary agents in the genre that you want, research them and then read their submission guidelines. because your 16 though you may have to wait because at this age you cant be held to any contract.... you can go straight to some publishers but they wont market the book so youll have a book that no one knows about. DO NOT GO TO ANYONE WHO WANTS MONEY!!! a good agent wont ask for money.... try writers.net to find someone in your genre
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I do this all of the time and it's really aggravating. Yesterday, my best friend (Michelle) brought down her boyfriend (Jason) and his friend (Chris) to my house to hang out for awhile. By the end of the night, Chris told me that he really had grown to like me over the hours of conversation and wanted to know if I felt the same. I told him that I wasn't interested right now--BUT I AM! I have no clue why I ended up saying that but I do it all of the time! I get to know a super great guy that and when he tells me that he likes me I tell him that I don't have the same feelings for him even though I do. It's really confusing because afterwards I feel like a complete idiot and regret opening my big mouth about the situation. Why don't I give these guys a chance? It just doesn't make any sense to me why I just KEEP doing it... (link)
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your automatic response is to protect yourself from hurt... i do it too. so if you really like this guy then the only way to fix it is to go to him and flirt a little and try to show him that your interested...
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hi i'm a junior. and my bf and i have been going out for a year and a half. I'm not ready for sex just yet , but whenever we go out he usually fingers me. BUT i don't feel pleasure at all, and it's really starting to bug me! What is wrong with my body? should i get it checked out? (link)
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every woman experiences some type of non pleasurable experience in her life. it may be that your boyfriend doesnt know what hes doing or that somewhere in your subconscience you just dont trust either yourself or him enough to completely relax. talk to your boyfriend... dont tell him hes incompetent just let him know that you think there may be something wrong with you because your not as "worked up" as you should be but make sure that you dont blame him. ask him to help you learn what you like or try to figure it out yourself. but key is not to think to much... if your worried about someone walking in on you then you may notbe as relaxed as you should be... hope i helped :)
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I was reading around the Advicenators site and someone mentioned implantation bleeding. The question was something about a girl asking if she was pregnant but was having some spotting like her period. Well, I don't mean to sound stupid but what is implantation bleeding?
Thanks... (link)
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implantation bleeding is when the baby plants him/herself onto the uterine wall. when this happens there is likely to be some bleeding.
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the sex is amazing right up untill she says it hurts around the opening. as much as we both want to keep going i stop anyway because i dont want to hurt her, the condom's we use dry out rather quickly and are kinda hard to go back in when this happen's we use Mates condom's.
about 6 hours passed and when the movie we were watching finished i gently pressed my fingers on her but she said it still hurt so i went no further. Would lube stop this? or a change in condom brand? or both?
last time i checked im a good 6.4 inches long and kinda thick... maybe 3cm (ish) across? would size be another issue? (link)
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size could be but try adding lube first and if that doesnt work then change condomns... she may be allergic
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Hi!
I'm doing a project with my partner and it's due ina few days.
Sadly, procrastination in my best friend.
hahah(:
So, here's the deal.
I have to find a picture, of two GIRLS.
doing something?
Tennis, reading, modeling ect.
And then we have to pose for it, as in the picture.
And then we have to act it out, and make it into a skit type thing.
I need ideas.
Something short and sweet though.
Not some long play or anything,
haha, please get back to me asap.
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google two girls and see what you get... but do it with a safesearch or you will prolly get more then you bargained for
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