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so there is this guy, he only wants me because i almost grinded on him. I'm only seventeen, and I know that i'm not supposed to take any relationships at this age too seriously or anything like that....its just basically about dating a lot of guys and getting to know what i really like and don't like, and just having fun. He is hot, but he is a player. Should i let him in? or should i not? or should i just let him in and just have fun without taking anything too seriously?
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Having fun and not taking things too seriously doesn't mean dating worthless assholes.
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Okay If he is giving you alottttt of attention and hinting that he realllllly likes you then yes go for him. But if he is just like "lets hang out!" He just wants to hook up. Dont do that. If you really like him and he really likes you then yes you guys will be okay. But dont get your selfl hurt.
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Well, if its only fun you want i don't see why you shouldn't go for it :P! But, if your looking for a relationship or someone who's going to care for you,he's not the guy you want to go for(obviously). It'll leave you hurt in the long run,because all these guys want is to do things with you and then move on to the next girl. Make sure if you do go for him though, to not develop any feelings. Most likely to him, your just someone on his "to-do" list- (if you do let him in; tease the f#%@ out of him :P) I wouldn't go for this guy though, because players are only after one thing. And once they get it, they move on. So in the long run, you won't really find out what kind of guy you like by just doing stuff with someone :P! What I would do is flirt around with some guys you may be interested in, and see which one you really click with. Make relationships, not just hookups, you know ? Unless- you want that, in this case,more specifically a no-strings-attached case, go for it! Your doubt seems to me as if you don't want this though :P (i'm not the person to do this kind of thing either) It'd be best to stay clear of those guys any ways. I mean, who likes a cocky guy who thinks he can get any girl? Just ridiculous! Point is, if its a more serious relationship you want don't settle for anything less! Who cares if you're 17, there shouldn't be an age limit for serious relationships if you want one, you know?! Get out into the dating world and see where you go from there :D! hope i helped!
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O go ahead and have your fun girl. You know he's a player so do not taske it to seriously, you know. Test the waters, see if you like the tempereture. haha
Lillian
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