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i hurt her after a while.
the sex is amazing right up untill she says it hurts around the opening. as much as we both want to keep going i stop anyway because i dont want to hurt her, the condom's we use dry out rather quickly and are kinda hard to go back in when this happen's we use Mates condom's.
about 6 hours passed and when the movie we were watching finished i gently pressed my fingers on her but she said it still hurt so i went no further. Would lube stop this? or a change in condom brand? or both?
last time i checked im a good 6.4 inches long and kinda thick... maybe 3cm (ish) across? would size be another issue?
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It is entirely possible that your penis is larger than her vagina can accommodate comfortably for an extended period of time. This is usually the case for the first handful of times a woman engages in sexual relations with a man. A woman's body is naturally not as "wide" as a man's penis, as to produce more friction.
I suggest using some alternate form of lubrication along with the condoms. Most condoms have only a certain amount of lubrication and, if left in the air for a few minutes, will dry up quite easily. This sounds to be your problem to me.
So, pick up a plain lube that is compatible with condoms.
Go slowly when engaging in sexual intercourse. If her body is not use to it, it will hurt a bit. It's natural and something that women "get over" after awhile. Things have to loosen up to properly accommodate comfortably.
If you have any more questions please feel free to ask me directly! :)
P.S. It doesn't really sound like an irritation caused by an allergy, by the way. Usually that involves "welts" or "bumps" that only appear for a few hours. It may also include swelling, pain, or itching sensations. A yeast infection usually comes after the irritating has subsided somewhat, as things down there become out of balance with each other.
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I think you need to do a few different things.
First, try foreplay. It preps the both of you for sex, and it can get her wet enough for you.
Since the condom you're using runs dry, try switching to a different brand. Maybe use Magnums or Trojans since those tend to be the best brands. They're a little pricey, but very worth it.
The problem could be those 2 things, or your size. You might actually be hurting her. Either that, or you're too rough. Some girls are a little sore after so it's probably normal.
Just chill out and let her relax a little. Maybe when she says that it hurts, let her relax a little & then go back at it when she says she's okay. Either way, try those other things & keep protecting yourself.
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size could be but try adding lube first and if that doesnt work then change condomns... she may be allergic
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