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confusedddddd!


Question Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 3:38 pm


Okay so I never really care about guys. i get with a few here & ther ebut that was it. never really like the whole relationship thing.
then i met this kid, jim. we started talking, and i really started to like him for some reason.. anyway. we went out, and he ended up cheating on me with his ex, but he said that he needed to get with her one more time to realize he was completely over her.
so i said we can still talk but we're not going out. so we kept talking. about a month later, he admitted to having sex with her but he didnt expect it to happen it just did. again i said whatever, its not like we are together.
we are still talking, but everyone is telling me that i can do so much better and that i shouldnt be with him, hes an asshole and all this stuff. i just dont know, i really like this kid. & I know my friends dont want to see me get hurt. but i wanna keep talking to him.
i dont know if i should keep talking to him, or listen to my friends. I just dont wanna regret anything in the long run.


sorry its long, i just dont know who else to ask adivce lol.


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VeNzUeLa answered Tuesday October 20 2009, 10:25 pm:
You have to understand that right now, YOU are NOT HIS first priority! You need someone who will see you as his first priority! Yes, keep talking, STAY as friends only. Don't expect him to come back to you or anything. To avoid disappointment, it is always best to not expect much. So just stay as friends, listen to yiour friends as well and move on.. Go out and meet other guys, flirt a bit and just have a good time. If guys aren't a major importance in your life, then, spend some quality time with your girlfriends! Concentrate on yourself.

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CruxGuitar answered Tuesday October 20 2009, 10:03 pm:
First off, im confused, your not in a relationship but he cheated on you? how does that work?
does this mean you went out for one date then bam he had sex with his ex for some lame reason?

Well, if he can have sex with different women for any reason and you don't mind, your not in a relationship and you don't care much about him in terms of feelings

your just friends
then be friends

not much I can say if you don't mind being "cheated" on in a "Relationship"

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