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should i?
today i was shopping somewhere with my friends and we were eating at moes,there were 3 other guys in there (hot guys) and we were like tlking about them. then one of them came up to me and said
him-"one of my friends has a thing for you"
me-"me????"
him-"yeah, he wants to fuck u"
then we talked to them for a while and im 15 they were 19 and one was 17.and then when they were leaving they passed us in their car and honked and threw a piece of paper out the window that had their #s on it. and it said "whenever u want"......should i call them??????????????? because i really want to hook up wit one of them and like everyone is all like "they are too old for you!"
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I don't think you should call either of them. Obviously you should be flattered that they find you attractive, but you're jail bait & doing anything with them can get you both in serious trouble. The 19 year old is considered an adult, and you are a minor so I would stay away from him if I were you.
You should also stay away from the 17 year old though because he's turning 18 soon & he'll be off-limits after that. Date a 16 year old or something. Your friends are right when they say that those boys are too old for you. Stay away. You could do without the trouble & so could they.
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For the 19 year old, you are pure jail-bait. If your parents even THOUGHT you two had sex or had ANY sexual contact then he could go to jail for engaging in sexual activities with a minor. Stay away from him. There is absolutely no reason why you should try to put him in harm's way for a little "fun".
And, not to be rude, but how low is it to hook-up with a STRANGE guy that walks up to you in an eatery and says he wants to bang you? Having high self-esteem and some standards are really good things.
I think you should re-think this entire thing and figure out what your boundaries are. Do you really want to be used? Do you really want to be just a piece of ass? Aren't you worth more than that?
They don't like YOU. They like what you look like. Really.
It isn't healthy and so I say you shouldn't follow this through at all. The guys see you as something to use and not any more or he would have had more respect for you when he told you why the guy was interested in you. Hell, if the guy even thought about WHO YOU were as a real PERSON then he wouldn't have wanted to bang you. That just isn't cool.
Don't lead this kind of life. You'll be really, really sad in the future. You may even be physically and mentally damaged from this sort of behavior. Please have more respect for yourself.
If you have any more questions please feel free to ask me directly!
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