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Love song :)
Posted Wednesday October 21 2009, 7:53 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and the flame is slowly dying out. I really need a song to remind him how much I still love and care about him. I've found tons of songs, but none of them just really hit home about the way I truly feel. I need something that says how hard I'm trying and how much I truly love and care about him.
Any help is greatly appreciated please and thanks!
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i need advice on breaking up :(
Posted Wednesday October 21 2009, 5:14 pm
me and boyfriend after being together a year and a month have decided to "break up".
i am moving out of his place and back into my house with my family.
we have had malicious fights and now we are doing this to
"save our realtionship". does that sound ethical?
i mean we both still love eahcother and will hang out--i will give him rides to school (we have class togther) and work (we still work together lol) and yeah.
we just needed to be ourselves again and not like an old mean fighting married couple that we turned into.
he also has alot he needs to work on like his anger problems and self control- one big reason we broke up....
but the term "broke up" is compli...
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My Troubles
Posted Wednesday October 21 2009, 3:05 am
I sort of like someone but hes like a lot older then me and a professor at my college but Im not taking his class anymore. I know hes itnerested in me but I dont talk to him anymore.
I live with my parents and I know they would get mad. Also Im a virgin and I definitely do not want to have sex with him but if we did have a relationship or flirted or anything I think he would expect sex.
Do you think its possible for him and I to flirt through emails without him ever expecting anything from me and without anyone finding out and maybe in a year when I move out we can officially date? Or do you think he would be too impatient or tell my parents or want something more?
PS I am 18/f.
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she's pushing her brother on me.
Posted Tuesday October 20 2009, 10:52 pm
19/female
urrrgh i'm in a bad bad situation :(
i've been at my current work for about a year now. me and this girl carissa who i work with got really close. she just turned 23. well she's always been trying to hook me up with her brother whose 20. he's not cute at all. not my type. we're into different things. she wont stop talking about him though and one day he came into our work and then later carissa told me that he asked who i was because he thought i was hot and wanted to talk to me and so on. well she wont quit on us 3 hanging out. i'm not that outgoing when i first meet people- especially a guy who i know thinks i'm hot. that just makes it more awkward. well i worked with her today and she was like lets all go ...
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Why do guys love to talk about sex?
Posted Tuesday October 20 2009, 9:19 pm
Okay, I'm 17/f and I am for abstinence until I think I'm ready and I know I'm not ready to have sex. But why do all the guys I have dated or date always talk about sex and having it. It makes me really uncomfortable, it seems like they're trying to pressure me into something I don't want. Like, I won't fall for it, but it just irritates me that they still tell me about they're sex life and stuff. Does it mean they want me just for sex? Or are they just talking about it because they're guys?
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Inexperience in relationships
Posted Tuesday October 20 2009, 7:18 pm
Im getting really stressed out because im 19 and i have not had a proper girlfriend yet. I think about it everyday. But the problem is im really nervous about meeting people (social phobia) and all the time im being reminded of the fact that everyone else my ag has gotten layed and i havnt kissed anyone properly yet.Also im not an ugly person but my clothing and haircut leave something to be desired.if i dont sort this out soon it might never happen. what should i do?
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roommate drama
Posted Tuesday October 20 2009, 4:54 pm
Okay, so I'm not quite sure how to begin so I will provide you with some background information as well as the actual dilemma. I live with a guy, Tim, who up until a little while ago believed he was gay. My other roommate, Susan, is best friends with me as well as Tim. I was drinking socially with Tim and a friend, Nick, one night and he was joking around about the fact that Tim needed to test out his "am I gay" theory and I needed to get laid, so he suggested with get them both out of the way by having sex with each other. Had we been completely sober I don't think I would have gone along with him, but in the past I had kind of liked him before I found out he was gay and he's a real good friend, so I agreed to it. I found out the...
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I'm so lost in my relationship
Posted Tuesday October 20 2009, 2:27 pm
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months today, and it's just not the same. We both know things have changed. He told me he still loves me a lot, and i feel the same way about him, but we're bored. Nothing to do. I want to be with him so much, but it's just so frustrating and it hurts because he doesn't show me that he cares about me anymore the way he used to. I'm so tired of feeling so lost in our relationship, but I'm afraid of losing him. I love him and want to be with him, but I'm so tired of not feeling like he cares.
I've tried and tried talking to him about it and nothing really gets resolved, except that he still loves me.
Can anyone please help.
I really need any advice that can be given.
Thanks you.
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new boyfriend
Posted Tuesday October 20 2009, 11:55 am
16/f
i've only had two boyfriends, i went out with my ex for 2 and a half years(8th to 10th grade), he moved upstate last year and we remained friends for awhile until we got into a fight and didn't talk for a long time. i was in deep love with him, and use to cry about missing him all the time. all of a sudden we started talking as friends again.. now i'm in 11th grade & have a new boyfriend since last week, i like him & he makes me laugh. I dont understand how i feel though. Like i use to cry about my ex and now when i hear songs that remind me of him i don't anymore? Have i moved on? I can't tell. Yet i still feel like i'm sort of still in love with my ex, i told him how i feel and he said he felt the same way. Maybe i'm j...
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Should I give up?
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 8:38 pm
17/f I've liked this one guy for almost three years. He's two years older than me and we're pretty close friends. He's away at college, and every time he comes home to visit friends, he flirts with me. I'm not gonna complain about that, but he's told me a million times that he doesn't want a long-distance relationship. It's quite annoying.
I've been trying to accept the fact that we'll probably never seriously date, but his flirting keeps giving me false hope. Should I continue to pursue a relationship with him or give him up for good?
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Bad kisser! New techniques?
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 7:06 pm
So I'm dating this guy and when we're kissing he always tries to put way too much tongue in my mouth! I've tried to "teach" him by taking the lead, and he'll kinda follow and do what i do for a little bit..but then he'll go back to what he was doing before. I have also tried to like..put my tongue up to block him or something to show I dont like it, but I dont think he gets the hint. What can I do? (preferably not having to say it outright, but if i have to, whats the best way to do it?)
Also, do you have any different kissing ideas/maneuvers? When I try something a little different he seems to copy that rather than just french kissing with his whole tongue in my mouth.
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Songs about Players
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 2:46 pm
subject says it all, What are some songs about players and about getting over them or whatever? I just saw the guy i liked, walking with two girls, all over them both. I feel like sh!t,lol. Any songs from any genre will do,i like them all. (not so much rap/hip-hop..but if theres some good ones i'll check 'em out) I kinda want one that says "I can get over you//you dont mean anything to me//your just a player//" But again anything will do. Thanks so much =/.
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I feel really bad
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 2:22 pm
OK... Here GOes... I meet this Guy... About three weeks ago... I really Liked him Fo a LONg time ANd... WE finally Exchanged Numbers... Anyway since we have been Talking... He have never paid me to much attention... He only answer his phone... when he wants to... And when I text him... He rarely text back... So Saturday nite we kinda hooked up sexually... I mean like orally so... And now I feel real bad... I did it to impress him... And he still is the same... I really can't live with myself for what I've done... And I feel real bad about it... I'm 24 And I'm a female... And for most of my life I've been in fail relationships... Domestic abuse...and I have a child but his father abandonded us when she was first born... I dont understand why...
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get my ex boyfriend back
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 12:54 pm
well my boyfriend have been dating almost a year this friday is one year exactly but last night when i got off my work my cell was screwing up and i wasnt recieving calls or texts til hours later and my bf was trying to reach me and instead he called my house phone and talk to my brother he got mad that i was at my neighbours watching a movie with him and his dad and lately we have been having problems cause of stuff and mostly rumors going around our high school and he dumped me cuz he was so pissed off now iv been up all night talking to him and he wont take me back i cant live without him literally he is my life and my everything but he wont budge he wont even compromise on one last chance im 16 and a female while hes 15 and a guy i need...
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This is really buggin me...
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 11:33 pm
Ok, so i'm a guy, 17. anyways, over the summer, i told this girl i liked her. she told me she had before, but she liked someone else at that time, i was cool with it, well anyways, i got over her, and we remained friends. we would text occasionally, but never really got to hang out. well i was talking to her one day, and we decided to hang out. she ended up having to work that day, but i went up and we just sat around talking for over an hour. well i think i'm starting to like her again, and i'm not sure if she likes me. well we were talking, and i'm not the skinniest guy you'll ever meet, and we were talking about that and she said if i gained some muscle and lost some weight, i would be, and i quote, "hot..." and she always smil...
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player
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 11:02 pm
so there is this guy, he only wants me because i almost grinded on him. I'm only seventeen, and I know that i'm not supposed to take any relationships at this age too seriously or anything like that....its just basically about dating a lot of guys and getting to know what i really like and don't like, and just having fun. He is hot, but he is a player. Should i let him in? or should i not? or should i just let him in and just have fun without taking anything too seriously?
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Don't know if I want this anymore...
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 10:21 pm
16/f
so i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he's 19 about to be 20 and turning 17 in december...well i can't decide if i want to be with him anymore. he's my first love but it feels like the flame is slowing dying and there's nothing i can do about it. plus he's going into the navy soon and i don't know if i'll be able to handle that. and i'm starting to develope feelings for another guy. and this guy flirts with me all the time. i just feel like i'm only with my boyfriend to make him happy and not myself. he wants to get married right after i graduate from high school but i want to go to college and have a steady job before i think about getting married. i love him i really do i just don't want to regret not seeing if...
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my boyfriends hair
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 10:19 pm
umm okay so i looove my boyfriends hair when its medium length...he always cuts it so short though and i hate it short ( i dont tell him i hate it short because i dont wanna hurt his feelings) but i just say i like it better medium length...how can i get him to keep it medium length and not cut it? thanks
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boyfriends smell...
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 10:15 pm
alright soo when we first started dating my boyfriend used to wear alot of this amazingg cologne and i really liked it...like i would alwayss want to be pretty much on top of him cause of it haha.. now he wears this new cologne that i don't like at all...how do i tell him this without hurting his feelings? should i buy him cologne i like for the holidays and tell him i'm in love with it or something? decembers pretty far though so idk what to do. help pleasee.
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Do I ask again?
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 10:06 pm
Long story short, me and this girl talked all summer, and when she moved back to school I asked her out. She basically said "no" without actually saying no. She told me later that she was having a really hard time getting over her last relationship. It got awkward for a couple weeks but soon we were back to normal and talking and hanging out on a regular basis again. Although the conversations aren't everyday anymore. I even still get signals from her that she may like me, although I totally misread her first signals, so I don't know. Anyway, I feel like I made a lot of mistakes in the situation, but I still consider her one of my better friends, and she initiates a lot of conversations. I'm just so scared that if I bring it up ag...
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