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This is really buggin me...
Ok, so i'm a guy, 17. anyways, over the summer, i told this girl i liked her. she told me she had before, but she liked someone else at that time, i was cool with it, well anyways, i got over her, and we remained friends. we would text occasionally, but never really got to hang out. well i was talking to her one day, and we decided to hang out. she ended up having to work that day, but i went up and we just sat around talking for over an hour. well i think i'm starting to like her again, and i'm not sure if she likes me. well we were talking, and i'm not the skinniest guy you'll ever meet, and we were talking about that and she said if i gained some muscle and lost some weight, i would be, and i quote, "hot..." and she always smiles and seems happy when i'm around. she always trys to touch me (non sexually, mind you, heads outta the gutter =D)like she hits me playfully and trys to trip me. and i put my arm around her, like i was gonna choke her, and she leaned back against me and we fell to the floor and sat there for a minute.
so my question is...you think she's interested?
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i think you should be careful with this girl - she may be genuine & she may actually like you! but there are some girls who just like being friends with guys & joking around with eachother. and there's a big difference..so firstly, i think you should let her know how you're feeling..she most likely already knows that you like her, but i think you should tell her to see her reaction & see if she feels the same? if she doesn't respond in the way that you want her to, then just stay friends with her. people do change their minds & she may really like you now. we can give you as much advice on here as possible but the only way you will really know if she likes you is if you ask her. the signs indicate to me that she is interested..so it's all down to you now. good luck! <3
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well as a girl i have actually used that first line before.
look shes either into you, or a tease who just likes the attention a guy gives her, despite who the guy is.
you know her better then any of us do. she might be a really sweet girl whos also genuine.
my advice to you is too confront her again. girls have mixed feelings and change their mind 24/7. they may like someone while their with them, then outta sight, outta mind.
i honestly wouldnt be suprised if she is just in it for the attention. girls love that attention a guy gives them when their intrested. its like a drug.
she also seems really superficial talking about if you were to change your body, then you'd be hot. thats bullshit and if she dosnt like you the way you are, why would you waste your time with her.
talk to her about this all if you want to, but my overall answer is forget about it. she dosnt seem worth your time, and she just seems into playing little games with people.
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Well I think she is thinking about getting more interested. I am sure that the attention you are paying her is part of the reason. We all love attention. And it is apparent that you like her, from what you write. So sometimes we need time to think about things before we start down a path to admiting we like someone. We sort of have to try it on. You have had more time to think about it than she has. (or you think you have.) Maybe she has been thinking about you too. And while she made a comment about improving your health and body, to me it is obvious that she is attracted to you anyway. But girls your age are soooo hung up on what magazines, and movies and the TV tell us is the "ideal mate". When we get older we realize that that is not reality, and movie stars are just people with make-up and hair artists and better lighting.
It sounds to me like you like her too. So just give the two of you a chance to get to know each other. Be yourself. You seem smart, articulate and fun to be with. If you pay her close attention, compliment her, (sincerely not phony) and put a smile on her face whenever you are around, then she will like you more and more. And hey, if you do need to take better care of your health, then you should. After all, there is not down side to that, and well, she'll be thrilled that maybe she had something to do with convincing you to take better care of yourself.
Good luck to you. Sounds like the beginnings of maybe a great realtionship, and if nothing else a great friendship. And we all need friends.
Michele
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