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Why do guys love to talk about sex?
Okay, I'm 17/f and I am for abstinence until I think I'm ready and I know I'm not ready to have sex. But why do all the guys I have dated or date always talk about sex and having it. It makes me really uncomfortable, it seems like they're trying to pressure me into something I don't want. Like, I won't fall for it, but it just irritates me that they still tell me about they're sex life and stuff. Does it mean they want me just for sex? Or are they just talking about it because they're guys?
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all guys think about sex a lot, but not all guys talk about it. i tend to avoid these kinda guys..i mean if you know them pretty well then it's different. but still, if you don't want to talk about it then don't let them pressure you. i have guy friends who used to talk about it all the time, i swear they thought it impressed me. i told them i wasn't interested in hearing the details..and they soon stopped :-) it doesn't mean they just want you for sex, it may mean they are open to sex but it doesn't necessarily mean that's all they want you for. they're just guys!
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its the number one thing on our minds. sorry, dudes are like anti-radar missiles, simple programming with a lot of cool features and abilities. besides, at that age, its new and wonderful. just wait a few years, and they'll be more apt to talk about more sophisticated topics, like sports.
-Gunner
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You can't generalize about a specific groups motivation. Five different guys could talk about their sex life extensively for five different reasons. Ego, lack of tact and knowledge of social graces, feeling you out for your opinions, trying to get laid, desire to entertain with stories, it could be any of these or none.
Theres no real answer to your question. If you feel pressured, say so, so that the guy in question can make his own judgements on his side and you can both do whatever it is you want to do knowing what the other is thinking.
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WELL boys talkin 'bout sex is a normal behavior, and if you date guys that talk about it you should stop them and tell them that it annoys you or make you uncomfortable.. but it means that the most important to them is lookin' for sex :s
well boys are difficult and if you feel some1 is pushing you and you're not raedy, let them know or stop dating them..
they love to TALK 'BOUT SEX 'CAUSE THEY JUST THINK 'BOUT IT, not all the boys will be this way, there are boy that doesnt think about this way.. but in my point of view if some boy date me and talk about sex i would think that he is looking to take me to the bed..
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