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I feel really bad
OK... Here GOes... I meet this Guy... About three weeks ago... I really Liked him Fo a LONg time ANd... WE finally Exchanged Numbers... Anyway since we have been Talking... He have never paid me to much attention... He only answer his phone... when he wants to... And when I text him... He rarely text back... So Saturday nite we kinda hooked up sexually... I mean like orally so... And now I feel real bad... I did it to impress him... And he still is the same... I really can't live with myself for what I've done... And I feel real bad about it... I'm 24 And I'm a female... And for most of my life I've been in fail relationships... Domestic abuse...and I have a child but his father abandonded us when she was first born... I dont understand why I continue to let men treat me lke crap but yet... I do and no matter what I continue to choose men who treat me like nothing... I don't know what to do and righ now I can barely live with myself... Help me please
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Your are giving yourself your own advice in this question. You keep letting yourself get hurt. You keep letting these men hurt you. People don't pick bad. unheathly relationships, they pick us and only because we let it happen. We see the signs and ignore them, we pretend it will get better and most of the time we think we can change the person. Leave him alone for awhile. No phone calls, texts or emails. Let him play the game with you a little and then you will know if he is the right one. Don't rush anything, especailly a man into a relationship, because it won't happen that way and you will save yourself the hurt in the end.
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Before you get with any man you need to get yourself on track, and make sure your child is on that track with you. Though you cannot let those men dictate the rest of your life and don't let those mistakes happen again. And if they do then you need to step back think and when you know its not right and you will regret it then stop and turn away.
Lilllian
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honey first of all we woman tend to be the romantic ones trying always to impress someone.
if he does nor pay attention to you try talking in person and finding out what is wrong and if that does not help well I will say this; just walk away is not that you run into bad men is that you think that's all you deserve for whatever reasons you went trough in life. you should be a fighter a leader not a wimp nor a follower don't try to find love...let love find you eventually it will come.
concentrate on your child on his or her education and give him or her all the love that you want because a child is a true love.
you can always let love find you
be an example for that kid be kind be good be all you can be don't let anyone abuse you or your child
you will see you will succeed in life.
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