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my boyfriends hair
umm okay so i looove my boyfriends hair when its medium length...he always cuts it so short though and i hate it short ( i dont tell him i hate it short because i dont wanna hurt his feelings) but i just say i like it better medium length...how can i get him to keep it medium length and not cut it? thanks
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There really isn't anything that you can do. He has every right to cut his hair & if he likes having it short, then he can have it short.
I guess you could try & compromise with him, but you really can't make him keep it at any length. It's his hair & he'll do what he wants with it. Sorry.
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LOL I had the same problem but.... the other way around. I wanted my boyfriend to cut it shorter. I told him I liked it better shorter and he even let me cut it myself :-)
And I disagree with the other 2 people that gave you advice... you shouldn't feel guilty about liking your boyfriend's hair a certain way. Just because you know what you like does not mean you don't care about your boyfriend. And to be honest, msot of the times our boyfriends try to do things to make us happy but they just don't know what we want... that's why they say we girls are so complicated :-p because we don't tell them what we want.
Well... one thing I could suggest is .... if you know your boyfried likes something about you, like if you don't wear make up or if he wants you to wear a certain outfit on a particular day, you should tell him "i'll do it if you don't cut your hair" (of course, as long as what he wants is reasonable). And if he asks why you don't want him to cut his hair so much just tell him it's so nice and you love being able to touch it and play with it and he looks cuter that way. You don't have to say he doesn't look good with short hair just emphasize on how much BETTER he looksw ith medium-lenght hair :-)
Just keep giving him signs... play with this hair... if it's short say something like "I miss when your hair was medium lenght. Are you going to let it grow this time?" Give him clear signals and if you get the chance try to comptromise and clearly ask him to please let his hair grow a bit, not because you hate it short but because you absolutely LOVE IT medium lenght :-)
Good luck with the hair.... silly boys, they don't realize how IMPORTANT hair is :-p
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Sweet LiL angel is right, it should not matter, but maybey you could just be like 'hey your hair looks sexy today :)' or just a little confidence booster or something.
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it shouldn't matter how your boyfriend wears his hair. it just shouldn't bother you. If he likes it short then that is what should matter. my husband sometimes doesnt shave right away and is all pricker i hate it!!! but i deal with it.
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