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*lol*
it's the.... 'actions' you do that lead to sex. Like the kissing and touching and stuff (not the intercourse itself).
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m/16. yesterday i smoked with my friends and i was with some girls. what are some good ways to start and keep a conversation going (link)
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Do you want to keep the conversation going with the girls? Ask them questions about them. Everyone lvoes talking about themselves. Ask them what school do they go to. If they go to your school, ask them about their schedule. Find common grounds. Like if you have the same math class ask who her teacher is and share your funny experiences with that teacher. And ask them what kind of music do they like and talk about the artists you both like and the crazy stuff they've done or the albums you didn't like after X singer died and got replaced or whatnot :-p and the concerts you've been to. Ask them if they have pets. That kind of stuff. of course, don't throw different kind of questions all at once. Be topical. The topics they don't respond well to, change them. When they start talking about something, ask them about it. After they tell you their stories and you ask anything that was relevant and helped enhance the conversation (i.e. :what/when/where/who/why/etc.) then share your stories and experiences about the similar subject. The subject can be anything, from how the math teacher is such a jerk and how yiou pulled a prank on him or he failed you to how your dog Spot ran away and got ran over. Of course, if you do say anything that would cause the girtls to be sad (like a pet dying) make it so that they sympathize with you but be sensitive - do not laugh about it or sound like a jerk.
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Long story short, me and this girl talked all summer, and when she moved back to school I asked her out. She basically said "no" without actually saying no. She told me later that she was having a really hard time getting over her last relationship. It got awkward for a couple weeks but soon we were back to normal and talking and hanging out on a regular basis again. Although the conversations aren't everyday anymore. I even still get signals from her that she may like me, although I totally misread her first signals, so I don't know. Anyway, I feel like I made a lot of mistakes in the situation, but I still consider her one of my better friends, and she initiates a lot of conversations. I'm just so scared that if I bring it up again that she will say no again and our friendship will start to dwindle even more. But at the same time it's killing me to just sit here and do nothing. What should I do or how could I bring this up again? (link)
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LOL Wow... I can relate to most of these questions :-) Which isa good thing.
I had a similar situation but I was the girl, ofc. Well.... there's two possibilities.... either she knows you like her and she likes the attention she gets from you and she likes knowing she could have you or.... she does like you. They are both very probable so be careful, my friend.
They are both probable because she didn't actually say no... when a girl is certain she wouldn't date a guy she is very likely to say "no, i only see you as a friend" which translates to: you might as well be a woman, for all i care, i am not dating you but i like having you around to hang out. But she didn't say that... she gave you the old 'i just got out of a relationship' which translates to: i don't know right now but i will reconsider in the future, when i have 'healed' or when i am decide my feelings for you or when i feel like it. So.... you definitely have a chance with her.... it all depends what kind of girl she is, which is something I will leave completely to your judgement.
I said she may just like attention not necessarily because she is one of those vein girls or anything but because tyou said she got out of a relationship. And note: all girls do like attention. You don't have to be an attention whore or a girl who wears a lot of make up and dresses provocatively or talks to a lot of guys. So it's hard to say which are the ones doing certaint hings for attention. Anyways, given it has been a while since her last relationship, if she still gives you the signals, there are more chances the signals she gives you are real. Especially given you asked her out before.... if she didn't like you she could be more careful with her 'signals' (again, unless of course she just likes knowing that she can have you.... BE CAREFUL MAN! :-p)
If I were you I would definitely... talk to her. Or, as someone suggested, write to her. But not myspace or facebook!>_< That seems so whimpy when boys do that. I mean an actual letter or note :-p Tell her how you feel. If she says she does feel the same way then yes, ask ehr out :-)
Good luck!
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Ok, here's the problem. A really good friend of mine, Nick, has been in a bad relationship for a while. It is clearly causing him pain and frustration. Friday night, we were watching a movie and eventually started making-out. It lasted about 2 hours. I don't know what to do about it. Should I talk to him? We said it wouldn't be awkward, but I do kind of like him. I'm very confused. What should I do? (link)
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Well.... I am not saying he doesn't like you but.... just because he made out with you doesn't mean he actually likes you. The reason I say this is because I have been in bad relationships and the worst they are, the more I look for ... escapegoats. Other people to innocently flirt with... and I develop crushes on them. But not so much because I really like them (they always go away when i;m single again) but because I am having problems with my actual boyfriend. And I have made out with 2 of my little escapegoats.
Again, i'm not trying to say you are his escapegoat but i'm just saying the making out alone thing is not enough to determine whether or not he actually likes you that way...
But should you talk to him? Definitely. Especially if it lasted 2 hours O_O Wow... longest make out without any sex ever :-p
Anyways.... if I were you I would talk to him and, telling him anything, see how he feels. If he says something like "i'm sorry, that was a mistake, i like my girlfriend and i only see you as a friend, i was just in a bad place" well.... then I would advice you to keep a distance until you get over him. If you keep being his close friend he may make out with you again and you may get confused that he actually has feelings for you (unless of course, you jsut want to make out and don't mind if he's taken and not into you). Otherwise, if he reveals he actually likes you and has for a long time (if he doesn't say he has for a long time, you should ask him when he started liking you that way) but he doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend.... then you should tell him that you like him too but you don't want to be 'the other woman' and you don't want what happened to happen again while he has a girlfriend. If he asks you if you would be in a relationship with him tell him you would like to be but you want to make sure he's not just using you or confused about his feelings so after he ends his relationship with his current girlfriend, you want to wait some time until he gets past the rebound stage and if he still feels the same way then you definitely want to be his girlfriend.
And yes, the rebound stage applies not only to the person who got dumped but to the person who did the breaking up with as well.
I broke up with boyfriends and jumped into relationships with my scapegoats too soon and it only led to an awkward break up. You don't want that. You want to make sure he actually likes you because he likes you, not because he's lonely or misses his girlfriend or wants affection or wants someone who wants him... but because he wants to be with you.
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umm okay so i looove my boyfriends hair when its medium length...he always cuts it so short though and i hate it short ( i dont tell him i hate it short because i dont wanna hurt his feelings) but i just say i like it better medium length...how can i get him to keep it medium length and not cut it? thanks (link)
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LOL I had the same problem but.... the other way around. I wanted my boyfriend to cut it shorter. I told him I liked it better shorter and he even let me cut it myself :-)
And I disagree with the other 2 people that gave you advice... you shouldn't feel guilty about liking your boyfriend's hair a certain way. Just because you know what you like does not mean you don't care about your boyfriend. And to be honest, msot of the times our boyfriends try to do things to make us happy but they just don't know what we want... that's why they say we girls are so complicated :-p because we don't tell them what we want.
Well... one thing I could suggest is .... if you know your boyfried likes something about you, like if you don't wear make up or if he wants you to wear a certain outfit on a particular day, you should tell him "i'll do it if you don't cut your hair" (of course, as long as what he wants is reasonable). And if he asks why you don't want him to cut his hair so much just tell him it's so nice and you love being able to touch it and play with it and he looks cuter that way. You don't have to say he doesn't look good with short hair just emphasize on how much BETTER he looksw ith medium-lenght hair :-)
Just keep giving him signs... play with this hair... if it's short say something like "I miss when your hair was medium lenght. Are you going to let it grow this time?" Give him clear signals and if you get the chance try to comptromise and clearly ask him to please let his hair grow a bit, not because you hate it short but because you absolutely LOVE IT medium lenght :-)
Good luck with the hair.... silly boys, they don't realize how IMPORTANT hair is :-p
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is the group kaskade lesbian or bi ? because in their song 'angel on my shoulder' they say 'beautiful lady, will you come and save me?...etc'
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Kaskade is a male DJ
so he is definitely not a lady
When it comes to music in general, don't just base it on the 'he's' and 'hers' but on the context. Some songs switch from the male to female perspective or do a bit of both or sometimes and males and females aren't even people... or females sing about 'hers' and males sing about 'hims' but the context of the song or the original version of the song or the story of the song can still be heterosexual.
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this is the most random question ever but when my face is relaxed, i look mean and ugly. i'm pretty when i smile, and i do smile alot but when my face is relaxed i have a frown and it looks like i'm giving people mean looks but i'm really not. so is their anyway i can make my face not so frowny and mean when its relaxed? (link)
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LOL (sorry)
Um... I would adive you to practice on a mirror... playing with your face. What I mean.... is... pretend someone is telling you a story and you are listening attentively. When you listen you tend to make certain facial expressions... like narrowing your eyes or frowning and looking serious or looking down on the ground or something. It atcually would be better if you could tape yourself before playing with the mirror but if you can't then just practice controlling the expressions you make and then putt hem to practice when you are having a conversation in which you are talking about something serious or when you are listening or when you are by yourself. People will say you can't change that stuff but that's not true, you can form abituation and alter your tendencies. I have done so with my voice and my facial expression (though my issue was not frowning but looking nervous).
Also, don't stare at random people too long unelss you are talking to them and if they happen to catcch you looking at them you may want to smile at them and look away (unless they are those old pervs that will start talking to you if you smile at them).
After you consciously start controling your facial expressions and demeanor you will start to do it unconsciously as well.
Another thing... what kind of make up do you wear? Perhaps you are wearing too much make up or make up that is too dark. That can cause people to think you have a 'mean expression' as well.
Hope I was of help to you,
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I am now really into the show The Office. I know I should've watched it from the beginning, but I didn't and now I'm watching old re-runs that come on weeknights. If there are any Office fans, please help me out here. I absolutely love Jim & Pam, and know they are finally married now. The re-runs I'm watching are when she was engaged to Roy. Please, tell me what happened to their relationship (how it ended and why) and any kind of summary of the seasons from then to now and how Jim and Pam finally got together. Thanks! (link)
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http://www.officeepisodesonline.com/ - watch all the Office episodes for free!
Jim and Pam have a 'special bond' for the first season but Pam has been engaged to Roy for a long time and Jim is dating a pretty salsegirl. When Roy finally sets the date for the wedding, Jim dumps Katy. He also eventually tells Michael how he feels about Pam and Michael tells other people and the rumor spreads but Jim says it was a long time ago though everyone knows he likes her and on one episode (when Michael gives the Dundies at a Chilli's and Pam gets really drunk, Pam kisses Jim). However, at the end of Season 2 Jim tells Pam how he feels and he kisses her.
In Season 3 Pam and Jim tell each other they wanted to kiss each other for a long time but Pam is engaged and she tells Jim she is going to go on with the wedding and Jim transfers out of the office into another branch of Dunder Miflin where he meets Karen, a coworker, who he starts dating. Meanwhile, Pam breaks off the engagement with Roy. The branch where Jim is working at closes down and Jim transfers back to Scranton, but so does his new gf Karen. However, his feelings for Pam get in the way of the relationship and Karen finds out about their history though Jim tells her hes over it (which is a lie ofc) and although Pam also has feelings for Jim, she is supportive of their relationship and befriends Karen. Though Pam does tell Jim the reason she broke up with Roy was bceuase of him, though Jim doesn't believe her. At the end of Season 4, Jim is considering a promotion opportunity that would require him to move to New York but he goes back to Scranton instead and asks out Pam and she says yes and that is how theur relationship starts (Karen, btw, gets the position, which is also how she gets out of the picturte).
I lvoe the office too. You really should see the other seasons.... another relationship to look out for - Michael and Holly!
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Okay so I am deactivating my facebook in a couple days due to personal reasons and ya know. So I am wondering what other fun things are there to do on the internet? Like othe websites (not like facebook) but other websites to do fun things on. Like I have an imdb account, twitter (stuff like that). I just want to know what else is out there besides sites like facebook,myspace i want to stay away from those for a while. Thankyou so much:) (link)
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17/f. okay so my best friend and i are alike in every way except when it comes to boys. she has had her share of crushes and sometimes the guys like her back, but no major relationships. i have had a few relationships, one lasting over a year, and many hook ups, but am not at all promiscuous.
getting to the point- my friend (mary) has had a family friend (kyle) for the longest time. her whole family is friends with his whole family, and mary and kyles younger sister and brother are friends too. recently i have been hanging out a lot with kyle when mary does. he is really cool and we flirt a lot. i dont know if its just how he is, or something else, but i am beginning to be interested in him. yesterday we went and saw a movie with me, mary, kyle, and their little sibblings. it was fun but obviously i didnt get any alone time with him and mary was between us the whole time. i talked to mary about how alike kyle and i are and she agreed and we jokingly talked about kyle and i being together, so i know she wouldnt be mad if we dated. and last night i texted kyle a smiley face and we started talking about the movie and other stuff. i know im going skiing with mary and kyle and their families in jan so what can i do before them to like flirt with him but without being too extreme. also what can i do to take us to the next level? i think he wouldnt be too opposed to it because he flirts back (link)
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Hmm... I think you need Mary to get you to the next level... If he doesn't make a move on his own and you make a move an it turns out he only likes you as a friend... then it will make skiing very uncomftrable. And yes, there are signs... but a lot of people like to flrit for fun, espeicaly with their friend's friends (me being one of them!)
If I were you I would tell Mary I think Kyle is cute. She would probably say something like "omg, you like Kyle?!?!" I would say "I don't know.... I just got out of a relationship" or "I don't know, I don't know him very well" and ask her about her opinion on the hypothetical situation of Kyle and I going out. If she seems to support it then ask her to find out for you what Kyle thinks about you. If Mary seems against then jsut pretend you are not interested. Say something like "I see, well I just thought he was cute" and change the subject and just get Kyle to give you his myspace and flirt there.
Another thing - do you have his myspace or facebook? Those are the best palces for casual flirting without any compromisation. And of course... keep text messaging him.
Good luck with Kyle,
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i am a girl. i have been in the same classes with this one guy for about 6 years. around 3 years ago, we started to talk and hang out together. rumors started, but then they kind of went away after everyone realized that nothing was going on and high school started. this kid follows me constantly and never stops talking. the rumors are starting back up again, and its getting annoying. i dont know if this kid likes me as more than a friend, but i just like him as a friend. how do i let everyone know this (including him without hurting his feelings) and get the rumors and jokes to stop? please help! (link)
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Um.... well to be honest there is absolutely no way to not hurt his feelings. But that is okay... pain is a part of life. The msot you can hope for is the least painful way to hurt him...
I have two suggestions for you but in both scenarios he will get hurt.
Either talk to him... bring up the rumors. Tell him something like "People have been saying you like me and I know we're just friends and all but people keep saying it and I just wantted to hear it from you. Do you like me?" Or maybe... "you don't like me, do you?" If he says yes tell him you like him as a friend. I never noticed how much I love this part and I always prepare a seech but I notice guys don't really like to hear our speeches. So... just say "that's sweet but I only like you as a friend". However... if he is one of those presistant guys (which i think he is sionce he follows you around) make sure you don't say somethign vague like "i'm not looking for a relationship right now" because it will give him hope for later. Say "I only see you as a friend and I can't possibly see you as more then that". If he says no, he doesn't like you, just laugh and say "sorry, I had to ask. It would be awkward if you would had said yes because I don't like you either that way. But it's good that you said no," and then go opn with a friendly conversation. But make sure you do state you don't like him because he may say he doesn't like you even if he does hoping you secretly like him and will say it first... but anyway, after that, cotninue with something friendly so you don't ruin the friendship. However, this conversation should occur in private so he can be as honest as possible... but it is evry likely that if you have this covnersation he will withdraw himself from you for a bit... at least until he gets over you... and that should help people stop thinking you like each other. I do suggest talking to him though... I had a friend who everyone thought liked me but I wasn't sure though I know from experience 'everyone' is usually right about that stuff. Anyway, I confronted him (in private, ofc) and he admit it and said he udnerstood and we stayed friends but he stopped following me around and acted more like a regular friend than a friend who liked me :-p So I definitely recommend you do this!
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If you don't want to talk to him at all... just talk about a guy you do like. But this is evry risky.... you have to tell people who the other guy you like is... otherwise people may think it's him. And it should be a guy you like because if this other guy finds out and likes you but you dont like him then you will have the same problem again :-p I personally like this because I see it as a win/win. You get to openly talk about your crush and even if your crush doesn;t like you, the annpying guy that does like you will loose hope when he realizes you like someone else. That, of course, will hurt him, too. And if he doesn't like you he will probably be a good wing man or something :-p You will know if he doesw like you also by how he reacts to how you talk about your crush.
Good luck,
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my love life has been a total disaster im 18 years old and im an illegal immagrant, i got cheated on every relationship and i come to realize that i will never feel what real love is about, and what sucks the most is that i have no one to talk about this, my family is always against me and the only thing i do is go to my room and its quiet/boring as hell and im lonely. i do what everyone says to do on tv, "talk to god" but no response, i come to the point that i dont want to exist no more i just want to dissapear so all of this pain and lonelyness can go away.... should i commit suicide or just keep takin this pain to my heart? (link)
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I feel the exact same way... but I feel guilty for feeling that way and I'm so sorry sweetheart but you should too.
It's not your fault for feeling that way... but you do have a lot of responsibility.
Firts of all... you are an illegal immigrant? Do you live int he United States? If you do you should be happy because there are so many illegal immigrants in 3rd world countries that have horrible lifes and face abuse and who want nothing more than to have a god childhood and an education and they want their children to have a better life but they don't get any of those things. They work. They are abused. They see their family memebrs starve. Sweetie, you are a lucky one and you have a purpose which you may not understand now but whatever you do, do not throw it away. I'm not trying to be a b**** trying to make you feel bad. I feel that exact same way all the time but sometimes it's good to remind ourselves onot only that there are worst things (and yes I know, jsut because there are worst things it doesn't make what we have good) but that you shouldn't throw away what you DO have.
Second of all... you got cheated on every relationship you ever had? If you keep dating the same type of guys maybe the problem is you. Maybe you are picking out the wrong kind of guys. Maybe you are rushing into things. Look sweetie, if you feel bad or sad or worthless right now then don't date. Your worth is the value you give yourself. If you ut yourself on the market now and for nothing, no one will argue or raise the price for you because everyone lvoes a good bargain, especially abusive men or guys who don't care about you. So focus on yourself... flirt and stuff but don't get into any relationship because it ost liekly won't be a healthy one because right now you are not in a mentally or emtionally healthy state and a bad relationship will make you feel worst so getting into a relationship right now would only be setting yourself up. And surround yourself with people who do care about you.
As for your family... try talking to them. Talk to your mom. Ask her about her childhood. Tell her about your day. Remember... our parents won't be around forever. And even if your mom seems agaisnt you, she does care about you and I'm sure she wants to talk.
You should also get a job or join a team or a cub or a sport. It willhelp you meet new people, distract yourself, and feel needed. Also, take up a hobby. Writing or playing an instrument. Find a healthy way to express yoursef.
Finally... the brst way to feel self-fulfilled is by helpingb others. Do some volutneering. It will serve to distract yourself. Tutor a child in a shelter or do art workshops in hospitals or help teach children with illnesses how to play a sport or play an instrument. It will make you feel better about yourself and more fulfilled and with a greater sense of purpose.
It definitely helped me.
I hope I was of help. If there is anything else I can do for you please drop me a message. I wish you happiness.
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I do this all of the time and it's really aggravating. Yesterday, my best friend (Michelle) brought down her boyfriend (Jason) and his friend (Chris) to my house to hang out for awhile. By the end of the night, Chris told me that he really had grown to like me over the hours of conversation and wanted to know if I felt the same. I told him that I wasn't interested right now--BUT I AM! I have no clue why I ended up saying that but I do it all of the time! I get to know a super great guy that and when he tells me that he likes me I tell him that I don't have the same feelings for him even though I do. It's really confusing because afterwards I feel like a complete idiot and regret opening my big mouth about the situation. Why don't I give these guys a chance? It just doesn't make any sense to me why I just KEEP doing it... (link)
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Is it possible that you lack confidence? Maybe you are afraid that if you say yes he may change his mind or you weon't meet his expectations or you wont be a good girlfriend or it will be a bad relationship?
I have done it myself several times because I lacked confidence. The funny thing is sometimes I thought I was too god for them anyway and sometimes I thought they were too good for me and I didn't understand how they were itnerested in me in the first place. In the end I ended up dating guys I wasn't itnerested in.... because it was easier. It was easier to say yes and I had full control because it didn't hurt if the relationship ended.... they never broke up with me. I could end it whenever I wanted to and walk away without a tear.
My only advice to you would be... next time when a boy you like is itnerested or.... if you see Chris again.... say you want to be friends and jsut get to know each other. It's also bad to rush things. If the guy is not patient then he isn't worth it and you are better off. But if he really likes you then hew ill be happy being friends and he will wait until you feel ready to start a relationship and after a period of being friends you will feel more conftrable saying yes.
I wish you happiness and hope I was of help,
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For Halloween I want me and my boyfriend to like have matching costumes. I was thinking Jack and Sally from nightmare before christmas (his favourite film).
But is there any others we could go as? :] (link)
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~The Phantom and Christine - from Phantom of the Opera
~Fred and Daphne - from Scooby Dooby Doo
~Mickey and Money Mouse - Disney characters
~Juno and Paulie Beeker - from Juno
~Mario and Princess Peach - the Mario video games
~Link and Zelda - the Legend of Zelda games
~You can be a female pimp and he can be a stereotypical gigalo :-)
Have fun and early happy halloween!
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there is a new girl at my school and she joined my group of friends. she has my exact same name which i have a very unique name so its awkward, she is my same hieght except shes super skinny and very outgoing and friendly and is so pretty. she gets along soo good with my boyfriend and best friend and is exactly like them so they talk about alot of stuff i dont understand. i used to spend every single day with my best friend and boyfriend. and now she is with my bestfriend everyday so i am pushed out n never get to see her n they ditch me. then shes always talking about everything with my boyfriend n she has more inside jokes with both of them than i do n always touches both of them n even held my boyfriend he always talks about her but says their just friends. i havent hungout with my best friend just me n her since the other girl came into the picture even tho we used to daily.. im just jelous :( this is literally the first time iv ben jelous so i have no idea how to deal with it usually nothing bothers me.. they both deny that shes getting between us but its so obvious what do i do (link)
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First of all... if your boyfriend ditches you for her and let her held hima nd talks about her all the time... there isa huge chance he is developing a crush on her.
As for this whole issue... I have some advice for you but I'm one of those manipulative kind of girls... so you may want to consider the other advice more than mine.
Whatever you do, do not let that girl know you are jealous....if she finds out she may do morethings to provoke you. Some girls get off by provoking other girl's envy, me being one of those biatches. Anyway, have you heard about keeping your friends close and your enemies closer? Well that is exactly what you should do. Keep her close. If everyone else is in lvoe with ehr then make her the cneter of your world too. Compliment her. Ask her for advice. Invite her to your house. Find out as much as you can about her, her dirty little secrets, who she likes at school, who she doesn't like, her weaknbesses, etc. This will serve two purposes. First of all, you never know when you can find out somethign juicy that you can use in the future. Also, you can use this knowledge to steer her away from your boyfriend and push her into a different direction. If she likes a boy then talk to that boy in private and ask him if he would be itnerested in her and fix them up. Plus if she has a boyfriend not only will she leave yours alone but she may be too busy with him to steal your friends. Also, if you do get to know her it is likelier she will like you and won't let you get left behind and help you get re-incorporated back in the group and she definitely wont try to do anything to hurt you, like flirting with your boyfriend. Also... you may end up liking her :-) Then you can actually be friends. And just in case that doesnt happen... well there's always the pushing her into another directiona dn finding out her juicy secrets. Getting close to her can't possibly hurt.
Also be a bit more affectionate with your boyfriend, especially when you are with your friends and when she is there.... but jsut a little. You don't want to make it obvious you are jealous. You just want to remind whoever is around that he is your boyfriend and you want to keep him focused on you.
Whatever you do, do not flirt with other guys to make him jealous or act mean to the new girl... the key is to keep the good girl image and the good friend and the good girlfriend so that IF your friends are ever forced to choose, you will come on top :-)
I wish you luck,
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well me and my ex girl friend were going out for almost a month and im 13 and shes 14,
i have a really good friend that is a girl and i licked her face as a joke, my ex found out about it and told me she was okay. but the next dday she saw me flirting with a girl but i didnt even notice i was flirting. so yada yada yada all this stuff went on and she dumped me. do u think this is a valid reason for her to dump me? (oh and btw she sed she was the type of person to try and work things out, but i asked her if we could work things out and she sed they are already worked out) or do u think she just tried to find a way out because i noticed i few days before this she wasnt as enthusiatic about it and she seemed like she was starting not to love me any more. (link)
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Well it's not so much about what you did but how it made her feel... she may think you don't like her as much anymore.
When she broke up with you... did she just say 'it's over' or did she tell you how it made her feel or did she ask you why you were flirting or liking your friend's face or... did it at all seem like she was actually hoping you would do or say something that would make it okay? If it seemed like she had no problem breaking up with you, like if she wasn't very sad when she did it, then maybe either she thinks you're the kind of guy that flirts a lot with other girls and therefore not worth fighting for or trying to work things out with or.... she doesn't want to be in the relationship. However, if you can tell what you did bothered her or if your break up lasted long... if it seemed it was hard for her to let you go, than she definitely still wants to be with you. For example, I once broke up with a guy because I thought he liked his ex. I did like him though. It took me one hour to break up with him.
Anyways... based on what you tell me... I do think she likes you. If she was looking for excuses to break up she would ahd found some. Being a girl myself, I know how petty we can be. She could had told you to stop hanging out witht he girl who's face you liked or something.... I personally think it did bother her that you liked that girl's face but she just didn't know how to tell you.... and if it didn't bother her or if she managed to let it go.... it definitely bothered her when she saw you flirting. Whether or not you were flirting, your girlfriend may be insecure about how you feel about her....
My advice for if you want her back,... first, call her or send her a text message... just to tell her you care about her and if she wants to talk that you will be there for her and you still have feelings for her. Then give it a week or two. Don't flirt with other girls or do anything that will make it seem like you are trying to flirt with other girls. If she doesn't come to you then go to her after those 2 weeks are up. Tell her how you feel about her. Ask her why she broke up with you. Explain yourself. If she does like you she will have missed you like crazy during those 2 weeks that you were apart and she will have gone through the flirting scenario a million times in her head and thought to herself "if they were just friends and i misunderstood this whole thing then ir eally scerwed up by breaking up with this great guy". Ask ehr to be your girflriend again. by the end of those 2 weeks if she does still like you, she wuill be your grielfriend again. If she still doesn't seem to believe you or doesn't seem itnerested.... it's time to move on.
I hope it turns out happy and you get your girl back,
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Hi,
I am trying to find a pattern so I can make my own grad dress. I have been searching through Vogue, McCalls, Simplicity, and several sites. But you know how when you see the right dress, it just clicks that 'that is the one'?
Well, I am looking for a dress that is tighter at the top, then kind of poofs out at the waist. What is necissary is that it has layers. Such as an underlayer or if it is made with layers from the waist down. I have found this one pattern from simplicity that I like: http://sewing.patternreview.com/cgi-bin/patterns/sewingpatterns.pl?patternid=26511
My only problem with it, is that it might be too short. I was thinking about making the C dress and maybe I could cut the layers longer to make the dress longer. But, if I could find a cute, flirty, but elegant dress pattern that naturally has length and is at least to my ankles it would be easier just to do that and save me a little trouble, haha.
Just so you know, I am 5'4.
Any patterns/dresses or thoughts that you think of, are appreciated :)
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Aww... just looking at all these beautiful dresses made me miss my prom :`-)
Um... anyways.... here are some dresses I think you'll like. Hopefully they will give you ideas :-)
http://www.formaldress4u.co.uk/acatalog/Prom_Dresses_LE29.html
http://www.formaldress4u.co.uk/acatalog/Prom_Dresses_RE20.html#a213
http://www.formaldress4u.co.uk/acatalog/Prom_Dresses_6.html (
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My friend has a Siberian kitty she needs to give away or she will have to give the kitty to a shelter that kills (all the no-kill shelters are full, we checked already). How can I persuade my mom to let me keep the kitty for two weeks until I can find a home for it, or let me adopt the cat?
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Hello,
I know just how you feel. Been there, done that, lol.
First tip: Be the best daugther/son you can be. Be ncie to your mom and your siblings (if you have any). Stay in a positive mood... if your brothers or sisters want to watch cartoons during your favorite show... let them. If they want to eat the last cookie, let them. If your mom asks you to help her with the groceries, do it without putting up a fuss. Not only that, but take initiative. First, do your chores and your homework before she gets a chance to tell you. Then, do a little extra. Washt he dishers or sweep the floor. You have to be nice because it is more difficult to turn down a sweet child then it is to turn down a demanding brat. And you have to do chores to show your mom you are responsible enough to take care of the kitty. That is actually really important because most of the times our moms don't let us have pets thinking we will neglect them and it will be them who will have to feed our pets and clean after them. So show responsibility. Do this without bringing up the kittyf or as long as you can. Than, when your friend can't hold on to the kitty much longer, proceed to step 2 which is either option A or first A then B.
Option A: Talk to your mom. Bargain with her. Tell her if she lets you keep the kitty you will keep doing your chores without her asking and you will study more and help more around the house and go to church or go to tutoring or do something you know your mom wants you to do. Whatever you do, do not tell her you will misbehave if she does not let you have the kitty. And don't whine either. If she keeps saying no than tell her that you want to at least find the kitty a home because if the kitty gets sent to the shelter it is most likely it will be put to sleep given the bad economy is causing more people to abandon their pets than to adopt pets from shelers.
Option B: (Disclaimer - this option may be a bit unethical for some but it is how I got my kitty. Also, do NOT try this if your mom or someone in your house is alergic to cats or if your mom absolutely hates cats.) Bring the kitty home. You can either say your friend was about to turn the kitty in to the shelter or you can say your friend gave you the kitty anyways (if you know your mom won't get mad at her or anything) or something. When your mom sees the kitty she will be more inclined to let you keep it. Anyways, bargain with her again. If you have siblings, get them to side with you but tell them to be nice to your mom as well. Tell them to tell your mom they will behave betetr too if they can keep the kitty. And as a guaranteed that you will follown through with your bibery, I mean, promises, tell your mom to just give the kitty a chance and if you ever fail to clean after the kitty or if your grades drop or if you don't do your chores then your mom can kick out the kitty. Just ask for a trial.
The trial thingie worked for me :-)
I have had my kitty for almost a year now!
Anyways, if your mom lets you keep the kitty make sure you actually follow through because don;t forget, she can kick him out any time.
Hope I helped and I hope you do get to keep the kitty,
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if your masterbating and its around the time your suuposta get your period can masterbation induce it? (link)
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Hello,
Well every body works differently. I'm no anatomy expert or.... expert about either one of the two issues you mentioned, but I did some quick research. Most girls on a regular menstruation cycle that masturbate have reported that their masturbation caused their perdios to come earlier then usual. So yes, masturbation CAN induce menstruation.
Hope I was of help,
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