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mean face


Question Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 5:52 pm

this is the most random question ever but when my face is relaxed, i look mean and ugly. i'm pretty when i smile, and i do smile alot but when my face is relaxed i have a frown and it looks like i'm giving people mean looks but i'm really not. so is their anyway i can make my face not so frowny and mean when its relaxed?

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sobeg answered Wednesday October 21 2009, 1:58 pm:
i totally understand you i suffer from the same thing. Friends have asked me why i look so serious and ticked off and i really have no clue there may be many reasons why we do this sometimes its because we have had a bad life, rough childhood, never have friends or just plain simple...never been taught??!!say what??? yeap believe it or not we may have never been taught to relax so if we are 15 or 80 or 100 years old and never have learned to smile or relax its no wonder why our facial epressions are at default . so what can you do? well...laugh tell yourself constantly to smile and keep an eye on it remind yourself that its ok not to be serious and to frown. remind your self that there is nothing to frown or to be serious and try and enjoy the good things in life. Itll be tricky but i have learned that life can be serious but you can always be happy for life itself. I hope this helps if it doesnt let me know

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CootieQueen answered Tuesday October 20 2009, 11:54 pm:
LOL (sorry)

Um... I would adive you to practice on a mirror... playing with your face. What I mean.... is... pretend someone is telling you a story and you are listening attentively. When you listen you tend to make certain facial expressions... like narrowing your eyes or frowning and looking serious or looking down on the ground or something. It atcually would be better if you could tape yourself before playing with the mirror but if you can't then just practice controlling the expressions you make and then putt hem to practice when you are having a conversation in which you are talking about something serious or when you are listening or when you are by yourself. People will say you can't change that stuff but that's not true, you can form abituation and alter your tendencies. I have done so with my voice and my facial expression (though my issue was not frowning but looking nervous).
Also, don't stare at random people too long unelss you are talking to them and if they happen to catcch you looking at them you may want to smile at them and look away (unless they are those old pervs that will start talking to you if you smile at them).
After you consciously start controling your facial expressions and demeanor you will start to do it unconsciously as well.
Another thing... what kind of make up do you wear? Perhaps you are wearing too much make up or make up that is too dark. That can cause people to think you have a 'mean expression' as well.

Hope I was of help to you,

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