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boyfriend..


Posted Saturday October 31 2009, 11:31 pm

so my long distance boyfriend hasnt talked to me all day and im really upset about it
and we both have to the same company of cell phones so it says when he gets my texts.
hes got all my texts except one from like a couple hours ago so either he is out and doesnt have service or something
but when i call him his phone rings and everything
and i thought when you dont have service it doesnt ring and just goes straight to voicemail.
he always has a ringback tone for a ringer if that helps with my question?

so im kinda thinking he went and got my number blocked.but i dont think he would do that.
so idk waht to think/
help meee!

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"friend" is trying to get with him?


Posted Saturday October 31 2009, 8:36 pm

this might be quite long, but i will MUCHLY appreciate anyone who helps me out.

18/female. my friend taylor is about to turn 17 and the guy (joe) is about to turn 18.

so last night i hung out with my "friend" taylor. this was our second time hanging out, she's a cool girl i thought. well shes never met joe before but she seen him somehow and thought he was hot. she thought it was awesome that i was close with him. i told her our past, and how he tried getting with me. and how i've always had a thing for him. i was like yeah he is cute haha. well me and her went out to dinner and taylor was texting my guy cousin and he was like yeah im at the basketball game with joe and jeff. and taylor was like lets ...

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She cheated on me, and then she left me.


Posted Saturday October 31 2009, 3:42 pm

My wife and I were got married on September 19, 2008. Though in total we've been together for 6 years. My wife left me for another man, kicked me out of the house we were renting, and moved him in not a week later. When I asked her what went wrong, what did I do? She said it was all her, and that I didn't do anything, this is just her.
My heart has never been so broken, despite the fact she's cheated on me twice before. I want our marriage to work, I want to reconnect with her and work through this. I know I am trying to find out what I really did, and I'm having problems. Is it that I was too nice or too forgiving in the past? That boundaries were never set?
How do I get my wife back, while she's living with the other man sh...

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I miss him :(


Posted Saturday October 31 2009, 2:07 pm

OKay, i'm 14 and the guy i like is 18. We started dating September 23 and we dated for about a month, and then i was like i honestly dont think i like him? and i really didnt think i did, i mean i wouldn't even act like his girlfriend? he got mad at me because i like wouldn't even touch him, & it was stupid. and i know i was wrong. and then like the week after i broke up with him, he came and talked to me and we had worked everything out, so we got back together.. and then then next day, he called and told me we shouldn't date, that i was wasting my time, and then like five minutes later i saw him with a girl in his truck! and it really hurt, and at this moment they're still dating, and i honestly dont know what to do. because i have fi...

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Won't talk to me


Posted Saturday October 31 2009, 9:57 am

First off, I am a female and 17 years old and so are the boys I'm talking about...
Well, I was "together" with this guy, Bob for about 3 months and out of nowhere one night at a party he decided I was too much of a baby for not giving him head and he ended it, because he said I am perfect, but just not for him.. A few weeks later I began talking to one of his friends, Mike more. We had hung out before at parties and get togethers, but never really talked a lot. So, he texted me and asked to hang out and so we did and ended up hooking up and other stuff, but we didn't tell anyone. A week later we were all hanging out with all their friends and my friends and both Bob and Mike were there. Mike didn't talk to me all week, but ...

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Should i be mad???


Posted Friday October 30 2009, 9:02 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a very long time. we went to our first dance tonight and it was kinda rough. we danced once and he told me he wanted to go see his friends and i was fine with that. Almost all his friends are guys so i didn't really worry and i went with my friends. i hadn't really seen him for like an hour but then i saw him dancing with a girl he used to date. they weren't quite grinding but it wasn't really innocent. theeir hands were clasped and their bodies were touching. then he went up to my very good friend and did the same thing with her. when they were done i ran up to her and asked her what that was about and she said he told her i was fine with it (which i was not). then he saw i was mad and came up to me...

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boyfriend problems


Posted Friday October 30 2009, 4:38 pm

me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship at the momemt. becuase of some things.
lately all we have been doing is arguing and im so tired of it.
he works alll the time and its annoying haha.
but the past couple of days he hasnt been talking to me as much. and the other day i said something. and i was like ok well whatever just text me another day since you havent had time for me in the past two days. and he was like ok you just pissed me off bye.
and i didnt mean to make him mad. i was just kinda upset and didnt really think about what i was saying and all i was doing is being honest and telling him how i felt. and that whole day he didnt talk to me. and the day after that he wouldnt call or text me...

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i feel gross


Posted Friday October 30 2009, 3:48 pm

15/f


okay, so i have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 weeks now. we just hungout a couple of days ago and we started making out and he fingered me and i gave him a hand job. first time giving someone a handjob. okay so now i have finally realized what happened. and i feel disgusted in myself. i notice that its probably way too soon to do any of this. now i feel depressed and now im avoiding him because when i told my friend she said that she gives us 2 weeks until we have sex. im scared of having sex but when we get into it, hormones take over. so now i dont know what to do. and i can't tell him the way i feel. i am number one person who can't do confrontations.

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babe/baby


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 10:33 pm

Why does it REALLy bother me when guys call me babe or baby?? Like I don't really understand it. I'm okay with like "darling" or "dear" but when it comes to those they really just grind my nerves... can anyone explain this to me? Hahah, just wondering.

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dont know if he likes me


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 9:08 pm

okay, so i really like this guy at my school and he flirts with me mostl likely every day. but i dont know if he likes me. he wont talk to me through like texting or whatever but he will in person. i just dont get it. i raelly like him and i think that he kinda knows that i like him but i dont know how to tell if he likes me. i want to talk to him about cool stuff or something. or like flirt in a touching way but i have no ideas. help me??

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Why Are Guys.....


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 6:30 pm

Why Are Guys Sensitive On The Back Of Their Necks. Is That Really True? Do Guys Get Aroused By This?

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Girlfriend problems


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 1:18 pm

I am an eighteen year old male. My girlfriend wrote me a note this morning and it said,"I hate to tell you this but you have to know, York and Palmer kissed me today(yesterday). You have every tight to be mad but I feel horrible cuz I don't like cheating and I basically cheated on you.:( I am so sorry. I understand if you want to break up with me and never talk to me but again I am sorry. I am also sorry that this is so short but I have to go.
P.S. I understand if you don't want to but I at least still want to be friends." When I received this, I was heartbroken to no extent. I honestly think that I may have loved this girl. I have never told a woman besides my mom that I love her. A week ago we broke up because she was han...

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Boyfriend with split personality?


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 12:37 pm

My boyfriend of a year and a half is a wonderful, funny, considerate man. (We live together, have lots of mutual friends and interests, and generally get along great.) However, I'm concerned that he has a very different kind of personality with his "guy friends," in particular a few that I have never met. Some of these men are old friends from his college fraternity, others are from his early bachelor days, and nearly all of them are sexist, cheating, womanizing guys (from my boyfriend's own admissions!). My boy has also admitted to lots of philandering and cheating in his past relationships. However, he has always been good to me, and faithful (as far as I know).

My problem is that, because of this history and bec...

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im so confused!


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 9:44 am


well he's awesome to me. but not so much to other people.
he's kinda rude and inconsiderate and makes fun of people.
he also has a really low self esteem.
he always calls himself mean and ugly and that noone likes him.
this could be though because he doesnt have a dad and his mom hardly does anything.
what are ways for me to help him out?
and to show him that he doesnt have to be so mean. he has a choice, because he always says he cant change that hes mean because that's just who he is. please help!

thank you!
i dont know what to do!

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settling down?


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 9:29 am

so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past few days and she says i need to decide if im ready to settle down and this is what i want because she dont think its what i want. we moved intoour relationship a little fast but at times i do wish i could spend more time with my family she thinks i need to stay with her all the time and gets upset if i leave there early to be with family. at times i do miss being single so i can hang out with family whenever and my mom because I am really close to her but at times i kno i would be so miserable because i do want to be with you and we were planning to move out in 8 months what swhould i do?

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am i too obvious?


Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 11:37 pm

i've had a crush on this guy for a while. recently i've gotten more of the courage to start texting him first. we've known each other for about four years now. well we started talking and he broke his wrist playing hockey and told me he's getting surgery on friday. i was like you need to drink more milk! and he was like i drink alot. and then i was like well maybe you should be better at hockey and then you wont get hit (this was totally a joke, he's a great hockey player, d1 colleges want him to play for them) and he was like thanks.. and i was like you know i'm kidding. come on now you know i wouldnt be serious. i never am.. how long have you known me? you should know this. and he was like haha ok calm down. i think this kind of gave it a...

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my bf...


Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 7:41 pm

well he's awesome to me. but not so much to other people.
he's kinda rude and inconsiderate and makes fun of people.
he also has a really low self esteem.
he always calls himself mean and ugly and that noone likes him.
this could be though because he doesnt have a dad and his mom hardly does anything.
what are ways for me to help him out?
and to show him that he doesnt have to be so mean. he has a choice, because he always says he cant change that hes mean because that's just who he is. please help!

thank you!

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Older boy... won't back off.


Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 7:19 pm

Okay, I'm fourteen(female) and I'm a freshman in highschool. So here's the deal. There's this sophomore(male) (almost sixteen) Ive been "talking" to for the past few months, and I realllllly like him. He knows I like him, and he likes me too and I guess you could say we date a little but it's nothing exclusive and we agreed to take it very slow. Well then there is this junior boy... I do not like him, at all. In fact, he creeps me out a little and he's been trying to ask me out lately. He's asked me to go on like three dates and I've said no each time. I've told him everything; that I'm kind of involved with someone else, I'm not interested, my parents won't let me... (all of those things are true by the way. And since I'm like yo...

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I am in college and I still have no idea about guys! Help?


Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 6:59 pm

ok so im in college and i was talking to this one guy and we really hit it off and his friend liked me but the guy that i was orignally talking too does him alot so i said whatever and i really started to like his friend and well we talk and all but sometimes he acts like he likes and than doesnt he told me he liked me before than when i was trying to talk to him he tells me he doesnt like anybody but that same day he invited me to hang out and he made a move im so cinfused what do i do drop him or do waht hes doing i dnt want him to think its a booty call

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Guys with "pimp images"


Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 1:58 pm

So I've been talking to this guy for awhile We hang out every weekend.. we both don't hang out or hook up with anyother guys/girls. And I like him alot... but problem.. He denies likeing me and won't date me... He claims that he can't like/date anyone because he got hurt bad in his past, but people that know him says He's never stuck with one girl for this long and usually he'd at least hook up with other people too so I dont know what to do... Oh and worst of all... I lost my virginity to him. What do I do with him ? Hellllllllp ? please & thank you :)

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