I am in college and I still have no idea about guys! Help?
Question Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 6:59 pm
ok so im in college and i was talking to this one guy and we really hit it off and his friend liked me but the guy that i was orignally talking too does him alot so i said whatever and i really started to like his friend and well we talk and all but sometimes he acts like he likes and than doesnt he told me he liked me before than when i was trying to talk to him he tells me he doesnt like anybody but that same day he invited me to hang out and he made a move im so cinfused what do i do drop him or do waht hes doing i dnt want him to think its a booty call
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? seductive_eyes89 answered Friday October 30 2009, 11:25 pm: wow its strange how were in the same position so im going to tell you what i did when he made a move i told him why should we do this if you dont like me and he confused to me that he did like me and i told how i felt i said dont play me and we got into this whole big thing but i would talk to him seriouslly and tell him to stop playing mind games remeber when yur being serious he will be serious let it see where it takes you, and if you feel you go no where after that than drop him gurl you dont want to fall for a lost cause . good luck and keep me informed and ill help any way i can [ seductive_eyes89's advice column | Ask seductive_eyes89 A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Friday October 30 2009, 10:09 pm: The first thing to know about boys is they think they are clever but they are not. You don't necessarily have to drop him but make sure you let him know that you are in control. Guys like girls who play hard to get. The reasoning behind all of the madness is guys like girls they can't get. He wanted you when his friend wanted you so it would seem you were unattainable. When you started to like him, he withdrew because he had you. when you backed off, he knew that he would lose you so he pursued you again. Guys are kind of like a puzzle, you have to look at all the pieces before you can put the puzzle together. just remember when you go to meet him, you stay in control and make him want you, not the other way around. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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