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Won't talk to me


Question Posted Saturday October 31 2009, 9:57 am

First off, I am a female and 17 years old and so are the boys I'm talking about...
Well, I was "together" with this guy, Bob for about 3 months and out of nowhere one night at a party he decided I was too much of a baby for not giving him head and he ended it, because he said I am perfect, but just not for him.. A few weeks later I began talking to one of his friends, Mike more. We had hung out before at parties and get togethers, but never really talked a lot. So, he texted me and asked to hang out and so we did and ended up hooking up and other stuff, but we didn't tell anyone. A week later we were all hanging out with all their friends and my friends and both Bob and Mike were there. Mike didn't talk to me all week, but I knew he liked me before because we hung out and he wanted to hang out again. Mike didn't sit next to me or talk to me all night. All he did was look at me and smile. I don't know why, because even after Bob left he was still acting the same. I'm not sure if it's because he doesn't want anyone finding out or if he is just not into it. I tried texting him and saying Hi but he never answered and instead told my friend to text him. I don't know what to do because I really like him. What do I do? Why isn't he talking to me anymore?


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sobeg answered Monday November 2 2009, 12:38 pm:
...uh...Im not sure he was smilling at you cause he likes you I think the news is out that you and Mike did "stuff" and in his mind he might be amilling on his accomplishment...he might have palyed you and he may not have a purpose with you anymore. Im afraid you might have been used and i think bob knows what you and mike did. Im sorry to say this to you but i dont think he wants anything serious with you. Im sorry if i offfended you and im sorry if you get upset if i dont tell you what you want to hear....sorry

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sia answered Saturday October 31 2009, 6:31 pm:
sounds like he does like you. i mean you two were smiling at eachother from accross the room so that tells you something.i think hes scared his whole group is going to disown him if they ever found out he was hooking up with his friends ex,thats usually a BIG no no in boy's cults.
he cant just ignore you like that because then that moves to using you and not talking to you again.
after all bob was the one that broke it off with you. next time you see him if you get the chance to be alone just ask him straight up and ask him what happened because hes either used you or is too scared to have you.if you dont think ull see him again then try the txting,call if you can,but i dont recomend that being your firsat option because he can have the choice of not txting back to you.
one trick to get a guy to txt you back is by saying something like "be a man and own up,stop hiding." or "i thought you were a man but i guess not" use the Man word it always works for me

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