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am i too obvious?
i've had a crush on this guy for a while. recently i've gotten more of the courage to start texting him first. we've known each other for about four years now. well we started talking and he broke his wrist playing hockey and told me he's getting surgery on friday. i was like you need to drink more milk! and he was like i drink alot. and then i was like well maybe you should be better at hockey and then you wont get hit (this was totally a joke, he's a great hockey player, d1 colleges want him to play for them) and he was like thanks.. and i was like you know i'm kidding. come on now you know i wouldnt be serious. i never am.. how long have you known me? you should know this. and he was like haha ok calm down. i think this kind of gave it away that i have a crush, do you think? urgh i seem so worried that he would be mad. i feel dumb. and then i was like you obviously don't know me! and he was like of course i do.
do you think i gave anything away? why do i always sound so dumb when i talk to him!!
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i don't think it was that big of a give away, as long as you play a little hard to get for a while. try to seem a little more like you don't care. (without being mean, just aloof) wait 5-10 minutes before replying to one of his texts. if you see him in the hall 1/3 times, pretend you don't see him. just gaze past. wait for him to talk to you.
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You didn't give it away and I don't think you sound 'dumb' either.. It's playful flirting, it's harmless.. Usually. So I say continue flirting with the guy, as long as the both of you are having fun, it's all good.. :)
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'you know i'm kidding. come on now you know i wouldnt be serious. i never am.. how long have you known me? you should know this.'
thats a whole text message replyin to a one word text ?
either you gave away that you like him or you jus freaked him out a little bit. dont act so worried about what he thinks about you, because thats a red flag that you like him.
instead of that long text message, it could have been answered with just a 'haha ;)' or somethin simple.
dont make yourself so available and eager, just tone it down and play it cool. itll work better in your interest. plus, if youre always the one who texts him first he might get sick of it. try to wait for him to text you. dont text him everyday either !
good luck, message me for anythin else.
x sweeethoney
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