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Phobia of sex


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 11:52 pm

I am an eighteen-year-old female, single as of this month. I broke up with my boyfriend at the beginning of the month. Our relationship was awkward and I'm positive that 96% of it was my fault and here's why:

I am absolutely, utterly petrified of having sex. Sex itself doesn't bother me when it comes to romance novels, but it's when I'm involved is when I begin to panick. I realized this after I went to the doctor and she told me she was going to put something in my vagina. At first, I thought it was no problem, but when she actually sat me down on the table, I started to freak out and basically had a panick attack. It was the worst experience of my entire life. I felt completely idiotic afterwards as well, but no matter how ...

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Clorox bleach to bleach your hair


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 11:11 pm

what works best to mix with Clorox bleach to dye my hair and how long should i leave it in for? i have black hair ....

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i am 17 my boyfriend is 22 do u feel it is ok


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 11:07 pm

Hi i am 17 my boyfriend is 22 do u feel it is ok but we start talking when i was at the age of 14 an he was 19

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He won't talk to me


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 10:52 pm

13/f
My boyfriend and I haven't talked for the past week.. I tried texting him but he won't reply.. I can't meet up with him or anything like that bc I'm not allowed to date..but my friend said hat he was thinking about breaking up with me but then he said he loved me to much to let me go.. and I really like him. And I don't know what to do and I don't want to mess things up with him.. We have been dating for a month

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he now wants to become "sexually active."


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 10:24 pm

HI,i'm a 13/f and my boyfriend is a 14/m. we have been dating for 5 months...but he now wants to become "sexually active." i do as well but, i dont know how. like idk what to do. some one please help so i dont embarrass myself!

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help!


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 9:07 pm

Soo...im 13, and my boyfriend is 14. We have been dating.for 5 months, and he wants to now become 'sexually active'. I do too its just that i know its not right. And its not him...its my body. I would love to become active with him...but, idk what to do during it. Help?!??

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hearing voices


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 6:51 pm

I'm 13 I've been sexually abused,my family always shouts at me and calls me a slut,whore,bitch,worthless,fat stuff like that. So lately I've been hearing voices it started off telling me I'm fat and I must starve myself to be skinny and that I'm a slut and I've become such a bitch and no one loves me and I must go kill myself and I must go cut. Oh and I forgot to say I have cut before(quit a few times) and I've attempeted suicide by taking a OD. But lately the voices have been saying that stuff but they also tell me to do things like my friends and I were talking bwt bloody mary then they made me do bloody mary(the voices) they tell me to jump in front of a car stuff like that. Its starting to scare me and I can't tell my family,I've told m...

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easy way to loose 10 pounds


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 6:33 pm

Im 13/f and im 92 pounds but i would really like to loose 10 pounds.. What is the easiest way to do this?

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i hooked up with someone and now idk about anything


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 6:09 pm

15/f two nights ago i hooked up (made out) with an older guy he was my first kiss/hook up and i was wasted really bad to the point where i couldn't walk straight but i hooked up with him and it was fine and now there was a lot of people there and my friends know about it and when we go back to school on monday i dont want it to be awkward between me and this guy. like i have never talked to him before at all but we knew of each other and then it just happened but he texted me and asked me to hangout again and i said i couldnt and said i just want it to be one night thing. but if i see him again i dont want it to be awkward how do i make it not awkward? thankyouu

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Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 5:07 pm

i want to die i am 51 and have been suffering from depression since the age of 13 i have had enough

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Adopting a child


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 2:50 pm

So i want a kid so bad help me

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I like a shy guy and he knows it.


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 1:11 pm

I am in need for advice. I like this guy that i go to school with. I guess he knows that I do. We have talked a couple times. Ever since he found out about me liking him he hasnt talked to to me. Its as if he was avoiding me. Everyone says that he is this shy guy and that he is probably just scared to talk to me because I am very attractive and intimidating to talk to. He has told people that he just doesnt know how to talk to me and that hes nervous. I have caught him getting quick glances of me and doing lots of cute and stupid things around me. Just recently i asked for his number. I texted him once and it took him hours to text back. People have told me that he does do that a lot. How can I get him to be more comfortable around me witho...

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is it cheating if...


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 1:00 pm

A little background info, met my current boyfriend in September. Dated from then and made it official in November. During the dating time we both said we weren't seeing/talking to anyone else. During this time he went on a trip out of state and had sex with one of his best girl friends. The night he got back, we had sex and he asked me out officially. I was unaware of the fact he slept with his girl friend I actually just found out last night from a mutual friend. Not to mention he has slept with 2 other girl friends. All these girls are still around and they all hang out regularly. I feel so gross, I know we were not officially together when he slept with them but the one on the trip bothers me since we got together the day he was back fro...

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Please help me deal with my parent's illness. I feel helpless and don't know what to do!


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 12:51 pm

My father had stomach cancer at the age of 46 .he was so young..he had his stomach removed so that the cancer won't spread.im a mbbs student .i know what patients who had their stomach removed due to various medical reasons suffer..I know my dad is suffering.. I feel bad. I am depressed.i want to remove the pain from my dad. He is such agreat man.he works hard for my family.he is also a doctor.please help me.

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I am very self conscious, insecure and apparently too hard on myself


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 11:31 am

I am very very self conscious about myself. I always feel like shit. Sometimes I feel good about myself, but then I see all these other people that are just so much better than me and I realize that I'm nothing. I'm not good at anything, I'm not atheletic good at school, Im not the prettiest, I don't have big boobs. I don't do anything at all, I'm not really helpful with chores, I'm lazy with school and everything. I'm not rich and I can't do as many things as other kids. I'm just not good enough at all and I always just hate myself. I'm mean to people too, I guess I don't know how to control my anger and I take it out on ppl and then I get called abusive, mean, a bitch, always angry and I feel even worse and so guilty. I dont wanna be abus...

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End it or risk it?


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 11:10 am

I've been dating a guy long distance for over a year. He wants me to stay with him for awhile so we can work on our relationship. He doesn't want to do long distance anymore so if I don't come, he's going to break up with me. However, I have bills to pay and feel like it would be too difficult to. He said he can help me out with things until I find a job. But he's always saying how broke he is. And I don't know if he would even be able to really help me. I try talking to him about it, but he just says not to worry. Advice?

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What is the reason behind my late periods?


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 11:06 am

I am 13 years old and I got my periods when I was 12 and half.I didnt tell anyone about my periods because of some personal reasons(I dont have any sibling and i am not close to my mother and my father is abroad and I am too shy to tell someone else).I hate sex and I dont have any boyfriend.I started doing skipping rope and running excessively at morning without taking breakfast(I didnt do exercise that much in my whole life) and I am sure that i have lose weight.

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Would You Do It?


Posted Saturday March 30 2013, 5:20 am

My Sister Wants Me To Add Her On My Xbox, But I'm Afraid She'll Say My Real Name And Stuff. I Talked To Her, And She Said She Wouldn't.. But She's Kind Of Immature. She's A Teenager, 16. Would You Add Her?

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Shaving down there...


Posted Friday March 29 2013, 10:42 pm

I'm used to shaving down there. I'm a boy and I do this so I can please my boyfriend. Thing is that I keep getting this awful rash a couple of days right after I do so. It burns and aches a lot!! What can I use to prevent this from keep happening?? Thanks in advance :)

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Controling Parents.


Posted Friday March 29 2013, 4:12 pm

I'm 19 years old, turning 20 in a few months.
I feel as though as my father is extremely controlling and is having a negative impact on me.
For reference, he has been diagnosed with depression for a while now.

Basically, I am an adult now and I'm still treated like a child. My Dad gives little importance to my opinions and feelings, and is always pushing his beliefs and his opinions on me.

He is also always trying to control EVERY THING I do. For example, today is Good Friday, and the day is absolutely gorgeous outside.

I want to go outside by the lake, take a walk(It's about a 15 minute walk), read a good book, sit, relax and even meditate but my Dad says I can't. It's not like we ...

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