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addicted to cheating?
Posted Thursday February 18 2010, 9:12 pm
I had crushes on boys when I was young. I found them attractive and all. I started dating my freshman year. He was my first boyfriend. I was with him for two months and then broke up with him because I found out a guy I had a crush since 8th grade was going to ask me out. He didn't. My ex bf asked me out a month after we broke up and we were together for another 2 months. Then we broke up because I didn't want to lose my virginity to him. Sophmore year I started dating a guy in Febuary that went to another school. At the same time started dating another guy who went to school with me. Didn't see any harm. Broke up with the guy at my school because of rumors and just went as far as kissing him. The other bf I lose my virginity to and not rig...
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how important is sex
Posted Thursday February 18 2010, 9:06 pm
I am a 32 year old divorcee with three children. For the last six months I have been dating a wonderful man he is good to me and to my children. We get along well together and enjoy each others company. The problem? I just am not sexually attracted to him. We've had sex it's not that it's bad I just don't always want to do it. He is much smaller than I am accustomed to. Should I give up all the good things about our relationsip due to my lack of physical attraction for him?
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is it wrong? :/
Posted Thursday February 18 2010, 8:57 pm
A lot of the time I think about my two best friends' boyfriends. Isane I know! I know that it's not right, trust me, I realize that I shouldn't be. But it's so hard. One of them I see on more of a physical level since I don't know him all that well. I think about him because when we hangout with his gf(my bestfriend) he gives off subtle signals to me or at least I think so. Plus he has told her how he likes me so much constantly and a whole bunch of really good stuff about me, says I'm so pretty, calls me "beautiful" to my face. My other bestfriends bf I have known for a really long time. He is one of my best guy friends, maybe even my number one guy friend. We have an amazing bond, just one of those things that every minute is li...
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relationship issues
Posted Thursday February 18 2010, 5:10 pm
I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 18..we've been together for 2 and a half years and I just don't want to be with him anymore.
He is driving me crazy..he's extremely controlling and obsessive, where he calls and texts me 24/7 and if I don't answer a text while I'm at school or something then he'll text over and over and start calling. I haven't hung out with friends for real just about the whole time we've been together,because he gets so jealous about it and accuses me of doing stuff with other guys, but whenever he has ever had the inkling to hang out with friends then he will and he'll ignore me.
So idk I'm just tired of arguing with him constantly..every day is a struggle. I find myself like looking out my window and getting para...
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Older Boyfriend
Posted Thursday February 18 2010, 4:04 pm
19/F
Okay so My boyfriend is 27 years old. I love him to death and we have so much fun togeather, but sometimes im worried that its all it is for him, is a fun time.
Were extremely sexually active, at least 3 times a day, and i basically live with him.
Sometimes he says that im immature or that i act like im young, but the fact is i am so much younger than him, and he just doesnt see it that way.
Its like whenever im around him im so happy and want to see him all the time, But he acts like my FATHER.
How do i get him to see that even though theres this age difference, he doesnt need to baby me. Its like...Im worried that he uses me for just the sex? Idk im j...
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first kiss drama!!!!!
Posted Thursday February 18 2010, 4:23 am
im 14 and i want to kiss my boyfriend when he askes me and i for some reason make excuses up everytime. he askes me before hand because he knows that im uncertain about the hole thing and he understands but i really want to kiss him just somethings holding me back and im not sure what it is. ive never kissed anyone before and im not sure how im to aproach the hole thing and to what level i take it. im just uncertain and worried about the hole thing. i really want to but yeh :(
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KISSING!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Thursday February 18 2010, 4:12 am
my boyfriend wants to kiss me and ive never kissed anyone before and im 14. he understands when i pull back but i can see him hurting inside and that annoys me that i let him down so much. he asked me if its just that im unsure or whether its to early for me but my answer is always i dunno. i really want to kiss him but 1: im not sure how and 2: i dont wanna do it wrong
like i said i really want to kiss him but im just uncertain about it all. hellppp???????? im just not sure how to and i would rather be alone with him but its a bit hard theres usually 3 othr ppl ther and he says they wont c but i dont mind if they c there my girlfriends and they know that i always chicken out with every boyfriend i have had. i just freeze sometimes....
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HJ and blueballs? haha help...
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 9:10 pm
Alright. Here's what happened. Awhile ago I was at my boyfriends house. We had been dating for like four months at that time. So about a week before that day he had fingered me for the first time. He'd done it before but I hadn't. He's sixteen and I'm fourteen by the way, but he's only the grade above, a year and a half older. But anyway. So it was new but I liked it and yeah. Well on that day I started giving him a handjob but I didn't think I was doing any of it right and I felt like an idiot so I kind of stopped right in the middle... I guess you're not supposed to do that /: ... yeah. oops. So we decided to slow things down a little cuz I didn't think I was ready for all that stuff yet but it's been a few weeks and I want to try again....
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phone sex??
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 8:45 pm
hi
welll...
what do you people think of phone sex..it it really bad..i did it a couple times with my bf..and it feels really good. To me it makes me feel..slutty..;/ My bf treats me well..and we hardly see each other.. i never felt this way about someone before..but tell my should i be ashamed of doing this..my mom almost caught me..she's suspicous now...;/ help me out? thanks nd plz dont be to harsh..
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sould I give up or still fight for are love?
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:48 pm
Ok, you might think I'm trying to give up on someone I see every day but I never saw this guy in my life we meet in a chat room and since then are relationship grew. I knew him for about 1year and a half and we started by sending mesages and now we talk amost ever night. Don't get me wrong it is heavy flirting going on when we talke I mean how els can we tain are selfs.
We are starting to say things to eachother like iwant you to myself and iwant to love you and he made a song about me.....two songs..... real songs and he calls me sweety and I call him babe.
Your proble saying why you want just meet up somewhere but he lives all the way in LA and that's a distance from here. So help what should I do sould I give up or still fight for are love
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How to tell my mom that I'm pregnant...
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:07 pm
How do I tell my parents that I'm pregnant?
I live with my mom and I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. My mom thinks he's OK so it isn't like she hates him. I heard her telling my dad about it on the phone once when he called to see if I wanted to come down to his house on the weekend so I know my dad knows about him too.
Anyway, I've been having sex with my boyfriend since we got together. We used a condom every time but I guess one didn't work because I didn't get my period this last time. I bought some home pregnancy tests (4 of them total) and they ALL came up positive. I even took once mid-way through the school day and it still showed pregnant. I totally didn't want to get pregnant, es...
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I have nothing to talk about with my boyfriend now...
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:54 pm
I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and we have a great relationship. He comes over to my house once a week and we cuddle and he's really a sweetheart. My problem is that we don't really talk about anything. Ever.
I don't know what to talk to him about. I don't really have anything to talk to him about that I haven't already said. I don't want to end this relationship because he's such a good boyfriend but it's getting boring and, to say the least, strange.
When we talk on the phone we say the same things we usually do. I've been trying to cut down on the time we are in communication with eachother so that when we get together we have more to talk about but it doesn't seem to change anything....
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Confused?????
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:54 pm
14/m
last monday, february 15, i went out with a girl. I knew she liked me and this other guy who is older then me i think 10th grade. After the movie we kissed, nothing else. So when i get home i text her and she texts me. At the end i tell her night and i'll be thinking about her. She said night and same. Well Tuesday comes, i send her a text in the morning same time i do everyday usually. No reply, i go to school, thinking she was busy.
Later that day i send a text after school. No reply. So i called her later that night. No answer, fully rang, 6 times went to Voicemail and i didn't leave a voicemail i never do.
So now its today, Feb 17. Didn't send anything till this afternoon well actually ...
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i've aproached this many times!
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 4:55 pm
Me and my boyfriend haven't been together long (less than 2 months) and we never really actually got in a fight ( well one time !) but the only thing that we sometimes feud on is his communication with me. He's a really busy guy and i understand that,but sometimes he doesn't text me for almost a day (if its the weekend!)or we will make plans to hangout and sometimes they work perfectly and other times,he messes them up.For example,on monday i asked him if he wanted to go to the gym with me...he said yeah and at 5 o clock when we were gonna go to the gym ,he told me he couldnt go because he had to watch his sister and that we'd go tomorrow.The next day comes around and he had a parent/teacher meeting with all of his teachers after school and...
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best friend hookup...
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 4:26 pm
sorrry for the length in advance..
ok so, my best friend has told me that she has really liked me since she left for college, about 7 months ago. i have never though about liking another girl, so when we talked about it a while ago, i was against the idea of hooking up and whatnot, and just wanted to stay friends, and she decided that would probably be better, but it sucked because she liked me so much. and over the months i have really grown to like her a lot. i went and visited her last weekend so we could figure out where to go from here, and if we should try being together. but i got extremely drunk on friday night, and ended up hooking up with a random guy right in front of her. i made her really upset, but i dont rememb...
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how do i get this boy to notice me?
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 4:05 pm
so, i really really like this guy. and recently he hasn't been talking to me much, at alll.. i wanna get him to notice me. what are flirtation tricks and what should i say or do? and are there any particular ways to do makeup and hair that are attracting?
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doesnt feel right?
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 8:20 am
i'm 17/f and my bfs 18/m.
to start with, we have known eachother for almost a year now but only recently did we start dating. when we first met we liked eachother but we argued so much so we stayed friends. idk about him but i REALLY liked him, i was so upset when we argued and i always thought about him. now we have stopped arguing and were getting along really well, but it doesnt feel right to me. we havent argued at all since we have started dating, do you think im just used to arguing with him so thats why it feels weird??? i mean i dont think about him most of the day like i used to :/ dont get me wrong, i still really like him but idk..it just doesnt feel right.
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I slept with my teacher...what happens now?
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 5:20 am
I've had a crush on my English teacher since the beginning of the school year. She's really attractive and smart. I've been flirting with her pretty much since I saw her and she finally started flirting back with me.
I was staying after class so she could tutor me some. I'll admit I was purposely failing things so that she'd request I stay after class for extra help. One thing led to another and the last few tutoring sessions kind of became make-out sessions. I pushed her to do it with my flirting though.
Last friday we actually had full-on sex. We didn't use a condom either so I'm slightly concerned about a possible pregnancy issue but I don't know how the hell to bring that up to her! It was the best s...
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My boyfriend likes it when I call him Daddy! Is it weird?!
Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 5:04 am
So, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a 8 months now and we have been having sex for the past 4 months. One night I was playing around with him and called him, "Daddy." The next thing I know it was leading to sexual play and, of course, we ended up having sex. It really surprised me because he didn't tell me anything about wanting to be called Daddy. He never brought it up himself since then either.
I've called him Daddy a few more times since then to see his reaction and it really seems to get him going good. I know that I hear songs where girls are calling their man "Daddy" and "Papi" so I'm not freaked out by it anything. It's actually made me curious if this is really common ...
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I like this guy
Posted Tuesday February 16 2010, 10:22 pm
So I like this guy, but I'm not sure if he likes me! I think he likes this really pretty popular girl in my class but I'm not sure. He's really cute and I just want to go up to him and say I like you alot but I can't say it!! What should I do to get him to like me or what I should say to him! We both are athletic and play baseball for the same team! :D
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