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KISSING!!!!!!!!!!!
my boyfriend wants to kiss me and ive never kissed anyone before and im 14. he understands when i pull back but i can see him hurting inside and that annoys me that i let him down so much. he asked me if its just that im unsure or whether its to early for me but my answer is always i dunno. i really want to kiss him but 1: im not sure how and 2: i dont wanna do it wrong
like i said i really want to kiss him but im just uncertain about it all. hellppp???????? im just not sure how to and i would rather be alone with him but its a bit hard theres usually 3 othr ppl ther and he says they wont c but i dont mind if they c there my girlfriends and they know that i always chicken out with every boyfriend i have had. i just freeze sometimes. im not sure but its weird cos i do really want to but yeh. im just glad he is so understanding :)
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a first kiss is something you shouldn't plan, it should happen because you want it to happen, and only when you're ready(: take things slow, start with a peck. if you just lean in like halfway, he should know what you're after, and help out a little. i know it's scary and you're worried you're going to mess up, but it'll be fine. i pinky promise(:
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Okay first things first, Just relax. Your first kiss can be terrifying and the more you stress about it the less ull enjoy it, and thats not what you want at all.
Your first kiss doesnt need to be full on tounge action making out. Just take it easy. Go with a peck on the lips, and then see where it goes from there.
Its awesome that your boyfriend is so understanding about how your feeling and what your going through. So if you just start off slow and let your first kiss just be that everything will work out naturally!
Just sit back, relax and enjoy it!
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It is good that your boyfriend is understanding but if you continue to not want to kiss him than he will lose interest. I can tell you from experience because I am seventeen that kissing will come naturally once you do it. I made the first move when I kissed for the first time and you know all guys love it when girls make the first move. Show him you are bold and confident. Start out by just a simple peck oh the mouth. There is no harm there. Then if the two of you decide to continue to (french) kiss then just slide your tongue inside his mouth and work it around his. I know it sounds weird and it will be weird at first but then it will be as if you been doing it for a long time. And if you are thinking that it will be nasty to be swapping spit and his saliva and tongue is going to taste gross, trust me when I say that you will not taste anything. Unless your boyfriend has bad breath and that's never good. But, anyways... Just calm your nerves and go for it. I promise it will be worth it and you will enjoy it. If I didn't help, then magazines and practicing with yourself helps also.
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