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Older Boyfriend
19/F
Okay so My boyfriend is 27 years old. I love him to death and we have so much fun togeather, but sometimes im worried that its all it is for him, is a fun time.
Were extremely sexually active, at least 3 times a day, and i basically live with him.
Sometimes he says that im immature or that i act like im young, but the fact is i am so much younger than him, and he just doesnt see it that way.
Its like whenever im around him im so happy and want to see him all the time, But he acts like my FATHER.
How do i get him to see that even though theres this age difference, he doesnt need to baby me. Its like...Im worried that he uses me for just the sex? Idk im just confused i guess, id love your input on this. If you see this going anywhere or not.
Thanks!
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He says you're immature but still for all he has sex with you. That makes no sense to me. Tell him straight up that you are 19 and not a child. If you are too immature to be a girlfriend for him then you're too immature to have a sexual relationship with him and see what he says about that. then you will know what he's really in it for. you seem to deserve someone who is going to treat you like a woman not a child. yea you're young and you like to have fun! what's the harm there? i hope all the best for you good luck.
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Honestly, I do not see it going anywhere. It seems like he isn't really in it for you, if he is acting like your father & telling you you are immature. Maybe you should just sit him down & tell him how you are feeling, communication is the best thing in a relationship. Let him know that just because you are younger than him does not mean that you can't make your own decisions & that you do not need him to be your father. If he doesn't understand & it continues, then I say cut him loose & go have fun with your life.
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