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Afraid to jump back in...
Posted Friday May 7 2010, 9:25 pm
So last year I had my first serious boyfriend, I fell head over hills, lost my virginity, and after a year I realized he wasn't the guy for me and I had made a mistake. I was forced into a lot of things with him. Not physically as much as mentally. He'd guilt trip me, get angry and ignore me, fight with me, say I didn't love him if I didn't do things with him. One time at his friends house he locked me in the bathroom with him until I did stuff with him. I started crying so he let me out but refused to talk to me the rest of the night. So, I broke up with him a few months ago. I recently started dating this guy, he's been my best friend since eighth grade. I'm a junior he's a senior. I really like him and he respects me and treats me right....
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friend (ex boyfriend) borrowing money
Posted Friday May 7 2010, 2:10 pm
How do i set limits on lending someone money? My ex-boyfriend and best friend is a great guy (wonderful) but he borrows money frequently. He will borrow money weekly if he thinks I have any cash.
He borrows large and small amounts; he simply asks for whatever amount he thinks (or discovers) I have and that he needs. I often forget all the 10 20 30 dollar loans so sometimes he pays money back and sometimes he does not. He currently owes me over a thousand.
He got really angry when I once asked him to sign a repayment agreement, so thats not an option. He expresses frustration if I try to give him a check rather than cash. I always try to avoid talking about money with him, but if i do or if he knows I h...
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just cant get over him
Posted Friday May 7 2010, 9:57 am
i just cant get over this guy. im at a new school since last summer & he started talking to me. we where like best friends after talking just for 2 days & it was love at first sight for me. we always hung out after school etc & i thought he has feelings for me as well so i told him how i feel. well since then we dont talk anymore cause he 'doesnt know how to deal with the situation'. now we talk again but not a lot maybe every second day, but only cause he thinks that i dont like him anymore. but i dooo and its been almosta year and i cant get over him. i mean all i think about is him and i STILL cry myself to sleep. & its just horrible. i drink loads of alcohol now just to forget it cause it hurts so much. the whole thing i...
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Summer Love
Posted Friday May 7 2010, 9:35 am
I've been waiting for the summer to come for a while now and it's coming closer and closer. I've been also expecting to spend a lot of time with my girlfriend this summer. I was thinking that this summer would be great; she and i on the beach watching the sunset together. I already knew that for three weeks of the summer, she will be studying at college because where she is going, it is required. Then last night I find out that she will be spending another two weeks with her cousin up north. Her mom just bought her ticket. So that leaves time for she and I at about 2-3 weeks or not even that because we will be getting ready for college. There's barely any time for us this summer and while she's studying or having a blast with her cousin, I'...
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older boyfriend advice
Posted Friday May 7 2010, 2:49 am
hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 27 and i know he's really old for me but ya i dated him for about 5 1/2 months things went up and down and so recently ive been really busy with school, so i couldn't meet up with him as much. Anyways i got a text from him after school saying lets meet at college campus at 2;30pm and i was like no because, i have after school activites to go to. so after that he Never called or texted me again.And i even sent him a text 2 weeks ago saying how are you? and he never replied. Does that mean he broke up with me? or should i call him or just forget about it and move on?
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I am looking for Godly advice please.
Posted Friday May 7 2010, 2:24 am
I am looking for Godly advice please. My husband got violent today, threatening both me and my daughter, breaking things and hurting us... I went to the police, which I have never done with him, and now he is in jail. I dont know that he will even try to come back, it may be that he just lashes out, or never contacts me again. But what if he does, what do I do if he wants to get help and come home? How do I handle this? Im scared, and trying not to fall apart. I dont think that what he did is ok at all, but does anyone know if the Bible says anything about how to handle this?
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I am pregnant and the father of the baby ignores me, we are not married.
Posted Thursday May 6 2010, 7:11 pm
I dated the guy for few months and we are really like a couple in-love. He calls me everyday, we go out often. He said i have a special place in his heart. I cannot say we were in a relationship because he never said he loves me. Unexpectedly i got pregnant, he said he is not yet ready for me but he loves to have the baby and he will be responsible. He was very supportive during first few months of my pregnancy then he got cold, fewer phone calls until none at all and we don't go out anymore. I asked him what is the problem, he said some issues about him self, i asked if we can talk about it, he just asked for time. We did not communicate for few weeks, i gave him space then I recieve 2 easter greeting text message from him the other one ...
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Diggin' me?
Posted Thursday May 6 2010, 5:04 pm
I feel like this boy is kinda liking me and I heard that if you think you like someone, your usually right. We have one period together in school and we usually talk in that period but we don't talk a lot. I was working out in the hall with my group for a project, he was in the room, working with his group. His group consisted of, the smartest kid in the class, him and my best friend (whose a boy) so I went into the room and asked my best friend when this one battle ocurred and he looked up at me and didn't answer, maybe because he was thinking but they boy I like answered and I said "are you suuuure?" and he said "noope, just a total guess" and he did that cute, crooked smile. Then, my best friend found it in his notes ...
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Likes me?
Posted Thursday May 6 2010, 4:58 pm
There is a boy in my english class and I think for a total fact that he likes me. He does that grade school shenanigans, he makes fun of me, pokes me, touches my desk, flips my book pages when I'm not looking. I asked this kid next to me if he knew how to spell my last name and he forgot the second letter so the kid that I like said "no no, it's spelled like this" and he wrote it on my folder and spelled it right. He just broke up with his girlfriend. Which I really like because she wasn't the best to him. We talk every single day. We look each other in the eyes all the time, even if we aren't talking. He asks me for help when he doesn't understand something. I heard when a guy accuses you of liking someone else, he likes you. He ...
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hes not my type hes my mate .. i think
Posted Thursday May 6 2010, 1:36 am
ok heres the deal. im friends with this guy. Hes such a try hard gangster its kinda funny. im not at all physcially attracted to him although he has an okay personality.
One of my mates today said she thought he liked me. So she asked him straight out would you go out with her! and i was standing right next to him :S he said yeah and admitted he kinda had a thing for me. i was like "AKWARD i getta go to class cya" lol. but now that i think about it i think i should give him a go but im not that sure. and i may still have feelings for my ex.
what should i do?
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The age difference
Posted Thursday May 6 2010, 12:27 am
17/F senior.
Okay so I'm a little worried bout the age diference between me and this guy I like who I'm going with to prom too. Here's the thing: he's a freshman and I'm a senior. We have the same birthday week so when he finally turns 15 I'll be 18. In other words right now he is 14 while I'm 17. Although he is extremely mature for his age like already has a job ad everything. He definately does not act like a freshman. I'm bout to graduate and he's only gonne be a sophmore. So if we dated this summer I would be a freshman in college dating a sophmore in high school. Another thing is if we date I know it will be endless crap from my guy friends for dating such a young guy even if it's only 2 years because the whole college to h...
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Need Help :\
Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 11:49 pm
Well there's is this girl, I really love so much & adore with all my heart and care bout' so dearly. She lost her grandma, someone who was so so special to her like a mother. Now she's suffering and crying due to her loss & as a guy I feel worthless and ashamed that I don't know waht to do to help her. Waht shud I do ? :\ I don't like seeing her like this. Any advice I can give her ?
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I think im 2 young
Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 8:49 pm
13/f
Hey, I really like this guy. But I'm 13 and he's 16. But I've liked him since the beginning of last year. Were both in Band. And we both have really good taste in music. But he has a girl friend. And I really want him. He's sweet, he plays the piano, he can sing, he's funny, and he's got great hair. It's not fair. He's like the perfect guy. And I can't have him. But I'm also very shy around guys. Is there anything I can do?????? Please help me
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His friend and everyone else? what do i do?
Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 5:09 pm
Well to start off my boy friend is a really good boyfriend..he treats me the way I'm supposed to be treated no less, and I don't understand why people are so mean to him..He's kind very friendly..he can be friends with everyone XD He had many truamatizing things happen to him..his first love died..with him in a car crash..he survived and so did his gfs mother..:/ It hurt him so bad..*get ready very gruesome* he took a knife and cut himself deep to the bone up to his elbo. His scar is still there. He's very sensitve shy, and very caring. Always there for me. Now we went threw a lot already..and I still love him. After everything. Now he has this friend and she likes him, she has a boy friend.. but she still hangs around my bo...
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My Girlfriend
Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 3:32 pm
I've been with this girl for about 7-8 monthes now. And I still have trouble understanding her. For example, on her FB page, she has put up a picture of her and her cousin. She rarely puts up a picture of us unless it's for a short time. Is she embarrassed of me? Or is she more in love with her cousin? Her cousin is very pretty and she has a great personality as far as I know. She lives a few states away so I've never met her.
I also think that my girlfriend doesn't really love me. I think she's in love with the fact that somebody loves her. Everytime I make a minor mistake such as missing a lunch date because I was busy doing something else, she goes overboard and I think she's ready to break up. If I give her any doubt that I don't...
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How do I overcome this?
Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 3:18 pm
I am married, and an adult...I deal with Panic disorder and anxiety... I have a low sex drive, and as a woman, there isnt much help out there. I love my husband very much, and I want to overcome this, so any help would be great. Its not that I get anxious about it, or anything along those lines, I am just very rarely in the mood, and can go months at a time without thinking about it.
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heartbreak isn't fun. help me.
Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 12:00 pm
so, i need some advice me and this guy were together for a little while and he was inlove with me and i would be such a bitch to him cause, i really was not interested in him which was in the beginning of the year i would say around september through december or january we were on and off. & he used to walk me down the hallways all the time and used to stick by my side at the time i didn't find him my type at all, then i started liking him little by little we would text, and such. Then, to rewind in the beginning of the year he asked me out and i said no, because for me it's hard to make a decession, i have a problem wit choosing and at that point i didn't know how i felt about him, then to fast forward he was drinking one night, and i ...
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best friend no more?
Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 3:11 am
Shari (my best friend) since 1st year high school was who i thought the most IDEAL. We dont have much in common but i grew closer to her.. sometimes, even silence is understood.. we fought a lot when we're in high school. When i entered college, i met two people who change my life for the better. I learned a lot and i managed to be more of myself when I'm with them. Sometimes, i compare them with Shari but i shrug off the idea.. But i came to a point, when i started to doubt my friendship with Shari.. She's this very sophisticated lady. You can't really grab her to a street food joint or do fun, stupid things with her.. I MUST be my BEST, city girl when I'm with her. We talk about serious matters and sometimes problems are magnified when i'...
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he's 21 and i'm 16....
Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 1:21 am
my friend i've known sense i was 9 and he was 16, bumped into each other like 4 months ago. his family spoils me rottin and they treat me as their owin (i mean i've known them sense i was 9). My mom knows he's way older than me but she feels as if he is her son. But wat neither of our parents know is, we have been talking to each other more and more each night, i walk 2 blocks away from my house so he can pick me up and take me to school. During my lunch time he brings me food, and after school he lets me drive his car (i'm praticeing for my linces)he basicly does whtever i ask him to do. its not about sex with him, because if it it was he wold've left me alone a month and a 1/2 ago.
But 2 days ago we were playing a game (21 questi...
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boyfriend doesnt masturbate.
Posted Tuesday May 4 2010, 10:48 pm
i know this may seem weird but i'm really open about this topic to all my guyfriends, as well as my boyfriend. when i ask my friends, they say they do it at least 3-4 times a week. i think the last time my boyfriend did was like 6 months ago, last i asked him.
this may not seem like that big of a deal, but its putting a downer on our sex life. since he doesnt masturbate, hes prone to certain "issues". for instance, when we're about to have sex, he has trouble getting it up. and when he finally does, it takes him forever to ejaculate. we could thrust for what seems like an hour and still nothing! this is very tiring for me, and he's also very lazy about it. i've tried talking to him but he doesnt seem to get the mess...
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