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hes not my type hes my mate .. i think
ok heres the deal. im friends with this guy. Hes such a try hard gangster its kinda funny. im not at all physcially attracted to him although he has an okay personality.
One of my mates today said she thought he liked me. So she asked him straight out would you go out with her! and i was standing right next to him :S he said yeah and admitted he kinda had a thing for me. i was like "AKWARD i getta go to class cya" lol. but now that i think about it i think i should give him a go but im not that sure. and i may still have feelings for my ex.
what should i do?
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Well how close are you guys? Do you really see him as a possible boyfriend? Several of my guy friends have had something for me...but I've never passed the "friend" zone with any of them because I didn't feel it. If you feel something for this guy then go for it by all means. You mentioned how you have feelings for your ex which makes me think you're not ready to enter into a new relationship. In the end its your decision whether or not you want this friend to be more then your friend. You should think about it and then of course tell him how you're feeling and what you want to do. After my friend told me he had a thing for me I had to tell him I didn't feel the same way and it was really difficult and it took him awhile to get over but we've been best friends for about 8 years and we're really close.
Just think about what you want or need!
Good luck! :)
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Hey,
You never truly know if you like a guy unless you give it a shot. If he has a good personality, then thats a start. Yeah, it can be awkward to have someone ask him right in front of you, but least now you know how he feels. I think you should give it a try. You could hang out with him on a more personal level first if you want to, such as watching a movie at his place, going out for an ice cream, or just talking alone. When I say personal, I don't mean a kissing level, just a real close friendship level first.
Tell him you may like to date him, but you still have feelings for your ex so you don't want to rush into anything. I am sure he will understand. You will find relief from knowing that he is on the same page as you.
Trust your heart, be yourself, and do not be afraid to try something new :) The new can result in wonderful things you never would of expirienced if you had never gave it a try <3
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