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I think im 2 young
13/f
Hey, I really like this guy. But I'm 13 and he's 16. But I've liked him since the beginning of last year. Were both in Band. And we both have really good taste in music. But he has a girl friend. And I really want him. He's sweet, he plays the piano, he can sing, he's funny, and he's got great hair. It's not fair. He's like the perfect guy. And I can't have him. But I'm also very shy around guys. Is there anything I can do?????? Please help me
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Hey,
It is good that you have common interests, such as music. But.. if he has a girlfriend, then you shouldn't try to take him from her. Just become good friends and maybe in time he will lose interest in her, then you could have a try. The only way you are going to break out of your shyness is to get out there and talk to guys. I know it sounds hard, but practice does make perfect! :) Once you talk to a few guys you will find that it isn't so bad. To start, you could comment on their clothing and then make casual conversation. One day you will find someone who you can relate to way more than this one guy. Believe me, there will be a ton of guys you will find amazing and you cannot have them all :p Age isn't necessarily a problem, but it is all up to the guy to decide whether he thinks you are too young for him or not. Usually around three years difference is plenty.
Be yourself, become real good friends with him, and be patient. One day, your real meant-to-be guy will come.. and when he does, you will know ;) and you better be wearing your smile! <3
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I think your a little young to be dating someone 3 years older than you plus he has a gf so you shouldnt be interfering its not nice and its totally wrong i think you should date someone your own age plus a lot of guys seem perfect but you have to get to know them and actually have something in common with them but ya i suggest you just be friends with him and nothing more and as for the being shy thing you need to break out of your comfort zone just go up to him or any guy and just strike up a conversation and the more you start talking to people you havent to before the more confidence you will gain and i dont easier said then done but your going to have to atleast try to get less shy and to be able to talk to guys.
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