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just cant get over him
i just cant get over this guy. im at a new school since last summer & he started talking to me. we where like best friends after talking just for 2 days & it was love at first sight for me. we always hung out after school etc & i thought he has feelings for me as well so i told him how i feel. well since then we dont talk anymore cause he 'doesnt know how to deal with the situation'. now we talk again but not a lot maybe every second day, but only cause he thinks that i dont like him anymore. but i dooo and its been almosta year and i cant get over him. i mean all i think about is him and i STILL cry myself to sleep. & its just horrible. i drink loads of alcohol now just to forget it cause it hurts so much. the whole thing is scaring me. my feelings for him are soo strong. & i tried to find someone else but i cant bausye everytime i see him it just comes back. help? I'm 17/f
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Well one..
Don't drink loads of alcohol over this guy. That right there can kill you, and you are underage.
Two. I know it's hard when you have strong feelings for someone yet, they don't have the same back for you. And it's understandable that you haven't found someone that you felt the same about him with. But eventually you will have to get over him, or just drink your life away. You are YOUNG, and you WILL find someone someday, you have a lifetime ahead of you, so just because this one guy isn't interested, doesn't mean that there isn't anyone else, and doesn't mean you wont ever have feelings for someone else, even though it might feel that way.
You need to keep your head up, and stop drinking, because that will not solve anything, it'll just make you wake up with a hangover, and still feeling the same as before you got wasted.
There are better ways to deal with this, like how you are now. Ask for advice, talk to someone about it, get your feelings out in the open, don't hid them inside.
I really hope the best for you, and hope you don't take this drinking thing too serious, I've seen what it can do. But please do remember you are young, your life isn't over because this one guy. :/
xo
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