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heartbreak isn't fun. help me.


Question Posted Wednesday May 5 2010, 12:00 pm

so, i need some advice me and this guy were together for a little while and he was inlove with me and i would be such a bitch to him cause, i really was not interested in him which was in the beginning of the year i would say around september through december or january we were on and off. & he used to walk me down the hallways all the time and used to stick by my side at the time i didn't find him my type at all, then i started liking him little by little we would text, and such. Then, to rewind in the beginning of the year he asked me out and i said no, because for me it's hard to make a decession, i have a problem wit choosing and at that point i didn't know how i felt about him, then to fast forward he was drinking one night, and i was texting him and i was being all flirty like "i wonder who i like (:" things like that making my feelings obivious, i guess ethier he didn't remember from the night before or he just wasn't interested or leading me on cause he thought i was easy, but the next day he had a hangover and i was being all nice to and i texted him like "when are we hanging out" and he replyed and was being all passive aggressive. then that night i just gave up and said "i guess i should have never said what i said that night =/" he replyed with "do whatever you want =/" and then i said "but i really like you" then this was the best feeling ever to get a reply from someone you really like "..." that was all he had to say so that night i cried and balled my eyes out called up his friend who was also my friend and talked about it still crying on the phone, and two days later, he had been onto the next girl. i tryed talking tot him but all he had said to me was i'm ignorging you, he said i should have known why but this, was months ago i still don't know why. & now in May i have feelings for him once again i feel like he hates me, but my friend who also is friends with him told me that he just feels awkward around me and whenever i'm talking to his friend and he's around he just pretends like im not even present like i'm invisible or something or sometimes even just walks away. but i really wanna let him know how i feel and i really do miss him, and want him back to prove to him that i'm not the same girl i was but it really seems like he doesn't want me or just avoids me most of the time, my friend told me i should tell him how i feel but i'm afraid he'll break my heart all over again and my heart already feels broken right now what should i do? help ):


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Katlyn answered Thursday May 6 2010, 10:47 pm:
Honestly i guess your just getting treated the same way you treated him its a part of life what you do to other eventually happens to you too but what i would suggest is just telling this guy you like him and tell him to give you one more chance to prove to him that you really like him and if after that he still doesnt like you or doesnt give you another chance then just move on eventually you will forget about him plus theres tons of guys out there and if one guy isnt into you then you shouldnt be wasting your time with him.

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