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His friend and everyone else? what do i do?
Well to start off my boy friend is a really good boyfriend..he treats me the way I'm supposed to be treated no less, and I don't understand why people are so mean to him..He's kind very friendly..he can be friends with everyone XD He had many truamatizing things happen to him..his first love died..with him in a car crash..he survived and so did his gfs mother..:/ It hurt him so bad..*get ready very gruesome* he took a knife and cut himself deep to the bone up to his elbo. His scar is still there. He's very sensitve shy, and very caring. Always there for me. Now we went threw a lot already..and I still love him. After everything. Now he has this friend and she likes him, she has a boy friend.. but she still hangs around my boy friend hangs on to him it really makes me nervous and worried. Now I'm in 8th grade and I can't see whats going on. That's what hurts the most. He is very hoenst to me..lately people tht dislike him tell me all kinds of storys..like "oh shes all over him, they kiss" They don't from what my boy friend tells me..he can't lie to me. He doesn't and i trust him..but its getting really hard to deal when both of our familys dislike each other..people are trying to make him seem like the bad guy ..when he's not. Just hard </3 The thought of losing him kills me inside..how can I keep sane about all of this? thanks..
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Sit down and talk to your boyfriend, Communicating is the way to work things out and in the end it brings two people closer. Tell your boyfriend how you feel about him and what he means to you, How he makes you happy. If you have witnessed the girl hanging all over your boyfriend then tell your boyfriend that you really don't feel comfortable when girls hang all over him when he is in a relationship with you as it makes you feel very uncomfortable and disrespected. Relationships come with boundaries, and in order to follow these boundaries you need to make them with your partner. Trust and honesty is a plus, However bare in mind that a lot of people will say things about your relationship that you may disapprove of. That is just a part of life, Everyone deals with it. No relationship is perfect and I can promise you that there is always one person to make a negative comment about a relationship. This is how you overcome it you ignore what other comments people have to say. Ignoring rude remarks people make about your relationship just shows that you and your partner can hold your own without negativity. Despite how truthful your boyfriend is too you remember that anyone can lie and as much as you believe your boyfriend can't lie too you anything is possible. Sit down and CALMLY talk to your boyfriend, Tell one another how you feel and what is on your mind, what's bothering you, etc. This is exactly how you work through things.
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