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dont think he does
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 8:31 pm
so i like this guy. and i guess he could just tell that i liked him. he went to one of my friends and was like i think blah likes me. and my friend was like yeah i kind think so too. and he was like yeah me too. and then he went to my other two friends and told them that someone told him that i liked him. i do like him. i think he went to my friends to confirm it. i do like him but i dont think he likes me because if he did he would talk to me. and he doesnt act like it. i would ask him but im to shy to do it and i dont like to get rejected straight to my face. and i dont want my friends to get into it. so what do you think?
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Major Problem
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 7:34 pm
Well I used to talk to this boy that has been my friend for 8 years and when I say talk I mean he was a suggestion of someone I would go out with well that stopped lie 4 days ago when I heard he said we didn't talk no more but he didn't let me know that and he tried to talk to my friend which did leave me heartbroken and I know we wasn't going out so I wasn't mad that he wanted to talk to someone else it's just the fact that somebody was my friend but he didn't know that...I know what the problem was...our conversations were boring its like we didn't know what to say to each other all we did was say hey and ask each other what we were doing and that's it... conversation over...well lets cut to the chase...I just wanted to know how could we ...
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pls help. no one has given me really good advice on what to do. sop i help
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 7:18 pm
13/f
and i like a
13/m
BEWARE: this might be long.
OK. So i have posted so many questions on the same topic. But i haven't gotten any real good advice. All of my answers usually say "just go with what you think is right" or "its better to do it and say you did the to not and regret it later." so i hope you can give me better advice. like what i should specifically do.
So i have like this guy for a long time. Ive known him since elementary school and he lives two houses away from me. I think I'm IN LOVE with him. now don't say "i think your too young to be IN LOVE" or "you need to wait and see if these feelings leave. if they don't...
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akward after breakup?
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 7:10 pm
the right thing to do to break up with someone is to do it in person but like what do you do as an allday type thing? do we go to the movies or to one of our houses or what?
how akward will it be finishing off the day since i would have to drive him home and he lives 50 min away. i dont think my heart could take it to see him sad especially for that long.
how and what do i do?
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how to nicely breakup??
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 7:04 pm
what is the nicest way to breakup with someone?
he lives nearly an hour away and he cant drive so his house or my house or go somewhere or over the phone orr? and what all could i say?
i still care about him i dont want to hurt him but i cant stay with him its horrible
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who cares more the wife or the kids
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 5:51 pm
My wife of 24 years has just left me and moved back to her parents citing my unreasonable behaviour but I am suffering depression and on medication ,I have changed the way I react to people and sent all my phone contacts a text stating I was going to become a changed person ,given up smoking ,been going to a counsellor with my wife and now she says that she has not loved me for a couple of years.I have 2 boys 1 is 21 and in the army the other is 15 and she has left him here with me.she wants her freedom not a mothers commitment but I have no choice in the matter and i am left to pick up the shattered remains of our lives while she goes out all the time now with friends.should I give up on her and walk away or still try to save our marriage...
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Hurt and used
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 3:35 am
Ok here goes... I am a 23 year old female. And it's this really hot guy that I like for about six years now... Actually we meet before and we exchanged numbers but at the time I really wasn't giving him any play... So time flys by and then later I was ready to talk to him but he just ignored everytime since I blew him off before.
So on face book I bumped into his profile... And I sent him a request but he didn't accept. And my felings instantly became hurt. So I mae up a facke profile using this really hot girl pictures. And I sent him a request he instantly tried to hit on her and... I played back with him.I told him that I was away in college and that I'll be coming back his way in like a month.
So for abo...
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First Kiss
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 3:06 am
So, I'm not talking about my first kiss-I've been kissed before, although not much. And I don't know if my boyfriend has been kissed before-but I'm guessing he has. I'm talking about OUR first kiss. We haven't been together very long (btw, we're both 16) but we haven't yet kissed. And I'm wondering, should I leave that up to him? He's shy (we both are to some degree), but he is the guy, and he's not THAT shy. Or should I take matters into my own hands (he's quite the gentleman, maybe he's wondering what I'm ok with, and besides, I tend to be more agressive). Or should I try to talk about it? So-wait for him to make a move, just go ahead and kiss him, or what? How would I go about the correct option?
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wandering eye
Posted Monday May 31 2010, 12:35 am
19/f
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I am so in love with him. We are very serious and I see an amazing future with him - but theres just one problem.
I's not that big of a deal but he has a little bit of a wandering eye. While I know he would never cheat on me, he constantly tells me which girls he thinks are "total babes" and which celebrities he would love to get with. I know this is normal, but it makes me uncomfortable and insecure. When we go to the beach, he stares at other women. Just the other day he took one of my lingerie catalogs and was drooling over the girls while I was sitting right next to him. When I get mad or upset about it he just laughs or blows m...
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FLIRTING HELP!!!
Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 9:55 pm
13/f
how do u flirt with a guy you like...i have no idea and i really like him
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breakup and confused on what to do!
Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 6:20 pm
16/f : sorry its so long. i need help!
so over a week ago my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. it was random because nothing was that wrong that week. normally things use to get really ugly because i use to get frustrate because we couldnt see each other during the week and i took it out on him.
once he broke up with me he texted me right after saying it was a break for now and i believed it because he had nationals this weekend and this is something he needs to focus on cause its do or die for getting in to college. but the next day after he broke up with me i texted him bugging him by what he had meant by the break and he said that we were done but then the next day he said we werent then again the nex...
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Why can't guys go back to being friends?
Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 6:02 pm
Hi...
here's some context for what went on: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=581185
So me and this guy ended up making out three or four times after the first time... the one before the last went as far as i've ever gone in my life. he ended up putting me on his sofa (no one was there and for some reason i ended up going there!!!) and taking of my bra and shirt and kissing me there... a few mins later he pulled the same trick again and put my hands on his pants, this time i was okay thinking he was sincere about what he said about being "serious" last time.
Anyway so he ended up masturbating in front of me...
two days later he txts again and i end up being super later for a frien...
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My boyfriend and i have been on and off with for the last month
Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 4:07 pm
my boyfriend i have been on and off with for the last month, he asked me out, and we dated and we broke up, we both found another person to have a relationship with... and then we coicidentally broke up with them on the same day.. and then a few daays later we start dating again... This guy has a reputation as a player, but i really love him. He cheated on me with some skank that i don't even really talk to, but she knows damn well we are dating.. i told him that i loved him and that it would hurt really bad if we broke up. We are still together, and i don't have a clue if it is going to last, what should i do?
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Septate Hymens
Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 2:39 pm
Hey, I am 16 femal and i am i a relationship, i have a septate hymen but im not ashamed to tell my boyfriend and my mum, when me and my boyfriend are being intimate he goes down and he is able to fit 4 fingers in, i am very worried that when we do have sex which i know will be soon that my Septate hymen will split and bleed uncontrolably, i dont want to go and see a gyno cause my mum will know im having sex but i need to go and get this sorted in the mean time i want to have sex with him,,, what do i do? if i bleed will i die???if i go and see my doctor could they do it there?? please give me some advice me you are my only hope...
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he has a girlfriend
Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 1:28 am
so, this guy has had a girlfriend for 2 years, and says that he is breaking it off soon. he texts and calls me almost every weekend at like 1130 asking me to come over. i really do like him, but i have told him so many times that as long as he is still in a relationship, i dont want to get involved. he does not understand that if it is kept secret it doesnt matter... how can i get it through to him that it is not going to happen while he is still with this girl? (ive tried everything, even just saying that multiple times, but he wont give up) anyyy advice?
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a boy...
Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 12:33 am
okay. sooo i read your advice to this one girl and i really liked it and i\'m about to tell you the entire story of my relationship (7 months) (things i\'m too scared to tell my friends) and i just wanna see what you say.
alright. i am a fourteen year old girl (freshman) and the guy is a sixteen year old boy (sophomore). it all started about ten months ago when i met him. we\'ll call him jack. (not his real name) and i saw him playing baseball last summer and i thought he was cute. when school started we talked because of a mutual friend. one football game he looked at me and smiled and after the football game we went to bdubs and just talked. after another football game (i\'m a cheerleader) he talked to me and asked for my n...
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Dealing with wife's emotional affair
Posted Saturday May 29 2010, 9:59 pm
I recently found out that my wife has "fallen in love" with a friend from childhood whom she reconnected with on facebook. It blew up when he was in town for a reunion and she invited him over for dinner and I watched my wife flirt with him most of the night.
Now we have been trying to work through this and I realize that I played a part in her searching for things that were lacking in our marriage elsewhere. I was being consumed by our financial situation and was completely unavailable emotionally, but I thought is was just a phase that we would get through.
We own a business together and have three children and just celebrated our 12 anniversary. We are working through things. Trying to get back on track.
B...
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Add someone on skype?
Posted Saturday May 29 2010, 9:41 pm
This is weird, but I want to see if someone has blocked me on Skype.
If someone could just offer to add them to their contacts..just to tell me if they're online, I would reeeally appreciate it. I'll send you a question to your column with the info, pleaseee and thank you!!
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Really, really need help.
Posted Saturday May 29 2010, 6:01 pm
I ended things with my long distance boyfriend of 1 year, a month ago. The distance was hard, we were fighting a lot the last 2 months, and I figured it was best to end it.
We haven't spoken since, as I decided no contact is best for me to heal, he did contact me once but I never responded.
3 weeks after we broke up, he got a new girlfriend. I feel really sick about this.
I was doing surprisingly well, until I found this out. Now I find myself thinking, "wait, are we soul mates? should i contact him? did i make a huge mistake and let go of 'the one'?" I keep feeling the urge to e-mail him, just to talk to him, to see if he still cares, to see if we'll ever have a future.
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somebody told this guy i liked him
Posted Saturday May 29 2010, 3:35 pm
so there is this guy i like. and somebody told him i liked him. so he is going around telling everybody. im pretty straightforward and i would tell him things like he has pretty eyes. well he told some ppl that i told him these things. i dont understand why because i dont think he likes me like the same way i do because he do he doesnt show it. i would ask but he is supposely mad at me. but that was b4 someone told him i like him. i would just let things happen but school is almost over and i like him lot.but this is my situation.
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