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how to nicely breakup??
what is the nicest way to breakup with someone?
he lives nearly an hour away and he cant drive so his house or my house or go somewhere or over the phone orr? and what all could i say?
i still care about him i dont want to hurt him but i cant stay with him its horrible
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Since you guys cannot meet up somewhere and break up face to face, the next best thing would be over the phone.
Call him up and tell him that while this is very hard for you to do, it's necessary. Just say that you still care about him, but the distance is too much and that you think that you would both be better off as friends. If he doesn't want to be friends right now, that's fine with you, and that you guys can be friends when he's ready. Tell him you're sorry, and then hang up.
To be honest though, as much as you don't want to hurt him, chances are that he'll still be hurt even just a little. Breaking up is hard to do, and it definitely hurts. Usually the only time it doesn't hurt is when it's mutual.
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I think with your circumstances, you should call him and simply tell him what you're feeling. If it's the distance, just tell him that. If he truly cares for you, then he'll understand that you just don't feel the way he does and it'd be wrong to keep you in the relationship. If you feel the need to talk with him in person as well, ask if he could somehow meet you halfway.
Good luck dear.
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