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Hurt and used
Ok here goes... I am a 23 year old female. And it's this really hot guy that I like for about six years now... Actually we meet before and we exchanged numbers but at the time I really wasn't giving him any play... So time flys by and then later I was ready to talk to him but he just ignored everytime since I blew him off before.
So on face book I bumped into his profile... And I sent him a request but he didn't accept. And my felings instantly became hurt. So I mae up a facke profile using this really hot girl pictures. And I sent him a request he instantly tried to hit on her and... I played back with him.I told him that I was away in college and that I'll be coming back his way in like a month.
So for about three weeks and a half we chatted... On Im's facebook and even on the phone. And I know he really started to gain feelings for my fake profile. He even went as far as to saying he loved her. So when it was geeting close to the time when my fake profile was to see him I came out and told him.
I felt sad for him and bad that I decieved him like that. And over time I had started to gain feelings for him. I mean he really adored who I was playing to be and a part of me secretly hoped he'll like me the same.
So when I revealed who I was... He acted really shocked but he promised he wouldn't be mad at me. And he said he wanted to be friends. But he said that I had to perform oral sexual acts for him to forgive me. And I did two nights in a row.
And instantly his whole demeanor changed... Now he treats me like crap, he ignore most of my phone calls and he treats and talks to me like trash.
But when I was acting as if I was the fake profile he absolutely adored her. He would call everyday, ALL DAY and we would talk from sun up to sun down, and now I go days without hearing from him... And that isn't the worst part.
I've been really afraid lately like walking on egg shells. We stay in a small town and he's really popular. I mean everyone knows everyone. And the reason why I out up with alot from him because I'm scared on Facebook that he will annouce on his wall what I did and alot of means things about me... Because he's friends with some of my friends and family...
And it's like he have something hanging over my head that's why I performed the sexual acts in the first place... But at the same time I do have some feelings for him What in the world should I do? Please help me
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Umm... You were being used duh!!!!! I don't want to be rude and all, but sometimes we can all use a little tough love.
This guy is odviously a jerk! And I don't know if maybe you're caught up in some romance comedy (The truth about cat and dogs) Maybe????? Because honey this is real life and people are not just going to get decieved by you and then automaticly just fall in love with you.
It's totally clear that you never really was what he truly wanted. And the girl you played to be was all he wanted. So him being the loser and jerk that he is, He asked you to perform a degrading act with some retard promise that you will be eventually togeather. NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!
If he really wanted to be with you, he would have ask you on a date. MOVIES, OUT TO EAT, BOWLING, WALK ON THE PARK, BEACH.... That's what a decent guy would have done. Personally I would have been flattered that someone would go threw such extremes to get to know me. But this guy is a creep and he took advantage of you.
And all you got out of this was pure shame and embarassment... And he another notch under his belt. Hopefully next time you can learn to wake up. Meet guys the normal way let them approach you, ask you on a date and treat you like the queen you are.
Break all ties with this loser. And find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve... and not some street hooker...
- The best of luck to you and always-
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I think that you've answered your own question, but don't see it.
"...but he promised he wouldn't be mad at me. And he said he wanted to be friends. But he said that I had to perform oral sexual acts for him to forgive me. And I did two nights in a row."
After that his attitude toward you changed, and you're perplexed by this?! At 23 years of age - really??
He clearly indicated that he wasn't interested in you, so you made up a fake Facebook profile to get him interested in someone who exists only as a picture.
When he finds out that it was you, this guy, (apparently with no moral compass), takes advantage of the situation and you to get some easy sex.
If you declined, nothing was lost because he doesn't care about you anyway. If you accepted, as you did, then Great! Oral sex AND THEN dump you.
It's far from right, but come on, is it unexpected? Are you really surprised? How did you think it was going to go: I'll forgive you for oral sex and then we'll be together forever and ever?!
If so, please post your address, I have some ocean-front property in Arizona for sale. (I'm just being sarcastic, DON'T post your mailing address!!)
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