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Long Distance relationship?
Posted Friday August 6 2010, 6:14 pm
17/f
This guy and I have been really good friends for a very long time, and its always been obvious that we have feelings for eachother. We went to school together until last January when I moved to a different school an hour and a half away. But we've kept in touch a LOT and we still talk every day. Well this year he graduated and is going to college, and I'll be a senior in highschool. His college is almost 5 hours away, and even when he comes home, his house is still and hour and a half away from mine.
Lately, we've been talking about getting together finally, but we don't know if its a good idea to start a long distance relationship with some one who is just about to go to college. That's the only thing keeping us...
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two boys one cant get over, the other i dont know if i like
Posted Friday August 6 2010, 5:04 pm
18 female girl. so, i started liking this boy the end of last summer because that is when i met him. (matt) we talked the whole entire winter every single day, never saw each other and he didnt date anyone because he really liked me, and the same way i felt for him. we go to the same camp during the summer. the first weekend of summer we hooked up. i didnt tell my best friend any of this because i said that it should stay between me and him. he randomly stopped talking to me and moved onto my best friend. they hang out all the time and it really bothers me, weve been in many fights about it but were good now. he told her everying that i lied about and only secrets i told him because i trusted him. and he went and told my best friend. any ad...
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older boy, friend doesn't aprrove, i don't know what to do.
Posted Friday August 6 2010, 1:09 pm
Alright. I'm fifteen (girl) and the guy I think I might like is seventeen, we'll call him Matt. Sooo Matt and one of my good gal friends haha used to have a thing about two years ago? And they kinda rekindled it a liiittle bit last year, but they never dated, or really hung out alone or kissed or anything. Well i've been talkign to Matt for like a few weeks or so and I think I kinda might like him :\ ! I don't know though. I haven't admitted this to any of my friends but two of them have been like "girl. you like him. admit it." even the one that used to have a thing with him is like "awwww you and Matt?!" but anyway, another one of my friends is a guy, he's a little older than me too but he's like one of BEST friends. H...
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Guy trouble
Posted Friday August 6 2010, 11:40 am
Well, I dont know if this works for every guy. But do most middle school/ high school normal guy do they care about what there girlfriend has as in do they care if they have big boobs or a nice butt or have it all and are skinny or do they care about the girls personallity? My family just tell me not to really worry about it but i would like to know. So from your experience what could you tell me should i not worry abou it or should i just see what guy i get.? Your advice would help alot thanks(:
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How to tell a guy how you feel without coming on strong?
Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 10:45 pm
Okay so i am an average teenage girl! And i like this guy alot but it's like he don't. I want to tell him so badd that i like him but i am on the shy side. I dont like getting rejected because i feel as if there saying i aint good enough or ugly. I wanna know how i can tell if he likes me or like how i can tell him how i feel without things getting akward and not me coming on strong. I just dont know what all to do or say!? So any good advise would help me alot.!
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confusing best friend
Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 9:35 pm
i have this best friend, and i have known him for 6 yrs. my best friend intorduced me cuz they where dating. he had just been a friend until like 3 yrs ago when he became a best friend then recently he became to me, i stupidly fell in love with him. recently i had another best friend say that he liked me and wanted to date me, he even went as far as to kiss me, my first kiss. i told the one that i have known longer about a week after the whole thing with this other guy started and he told me that he might like me like the other guy did. a few weeks after that his brother became interested in me, which he knew. over spring break i was hanging out with the brother at their grandparents house (of which the one causing the problems lives) and h...
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Hooking up with my ex, and have sex with his friends?
Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 3:40 pm
Alright, this might be confusing but bare with me.
Tomorrow my ex-boyfriend wants to hook up(like have a reunion, as he calls it...). Mean while, two of his best friends are bugging me about hooking up with them. Now, my ex isnt expecting to have sex, but his other two friends are. My ex doesnt know his friends are asking me to have sex with them, because if hes knew then hed hate them(because hes very possessive of me...) Meanwhile, if i hook up with my ex, some people(friends included) could potentionally be upset with me. PLUS i might start liking my ex again, which i dont want to like to happen. But i have trouble saying no. Like i dont really want to have sex with my ex's two friends, but i can't say no. And if i say no to my e...
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My tongue is swollen after making out with my boyfriend.
Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 3:33 pm
My tongue is swollen after a long make out with my boyfriend! what do i do? will the swelling go down after a bit, or what? I NEED HELP! and fast
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Does my coworker like me?
Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 2:54 pm
17/f
I have a boyfriend. Let's get that out of the way.
I've been working with my coworker for about 2 months now. His last day is on Sunday and the last day I worked with him was a couple of days ago. Apparently we used to work together all the time, but then the main office wanted to split us up because we're "always together" or we're "always talking". He was caring when I was sick, he would always talk to me, and cheer me up. He even said he was going to make me food the next time I work with him, but in the end, he didn't. After my week of being sick, whenever we work together, we're always on the other sides of the stores, we don't talk. We just stand there. It's nothing like before. B...
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my boyfriends rules..
Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 2:37 pm
I'm 19 yrs old and my boyfriend is 23. We've been going out for over a year now and he has some "rules" that are just ridiculous but he seems to always justify them somehow and make it seem like whatever he does is okay. Like, he says certain lougnges he doesn't want me going to. He's made if im out late (AND my curfew se tby my parents is already 3 am so its not like im out past then anyway). He's allowed to go to the Jersey Shore with his friends if he's invited but if I say ok would i be able to go? He says no b/c im a girl and guys are everywhere. He went to Vegas with a few guy friends when we were going out for a few months at the time. Now my friend invited me to vegas in October and my bf flipped when I told him. I said &q...
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flirting
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 11:59 pm
dirty questions to ask
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boyfriend wants to fight other guy!
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 11:24 pm
okayyy. well this is a kind of long story but here goes. so theres this park in my town, a really big one with trails and lots of playgrounds scattered around with scattered fields and parking lots. So my boyfriend and I were driving back there one night and we parked pretty far in and starting making out... well it starts gettin a little heavy sooo we move to the back of his car and put down the seats. A car pulls up next to us but we dont hear or notice. Not until I look up and see three guys looking in the car window! My bf flies outta the car, super pissed. And I recognize one of the guys and notice that they go to a school near by and one of them (we'll call him brett) and i used to have a "thing". Well my bf wants to beat th...
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i dont get him, he says he dosent love me..?
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 11:16 pm
heres the deal, its been like 2 years i like this guy, but he always told me he didnt like me , it was very clear, so i turned for another guy who liked me before, and now dosent ,but i do..the thing is, he knows i love him, its not a young childish thing. So we became ''fuckfriends'' so i could get close to him , thinking it could help me, we did things that couples did, he used to hold my hand when i was sad, always be there when i wasnt feeling right, always cheering me up, saying he cared, saying i was beautiful, anyways the perfect thing...then when i told him i loved him more and more, he told me we couldnt do stuff no more, it hurted me so bad, more the fact that i think he dosnet really wanna see me no more. Hes the kind of guy who...
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How askout some one who is already your friend
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 9:58 pm
If you like someone and she is already your friend and it is the middle of the summer but you really like her so you want to ask her out as soon as possible, but you also want to ask her out in person so you seem more confident then what do you do? Do you ask her out, or do you wait till you see her again.
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giving up on an ex?
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 7:32 pm
17/f
so ive been talking with this one girl on here who was giving me advice and she thought it best that since i want my ex back that i try to get him back. we had a good relationship and dated for 8 months and he broke up with me 2 months ago and one of those months i gave him some space to thing about things. so i texted him once and he answered we had a long conversation and it was good. then i texted him again and he was out of town and said that he couldnt talk which i understand cause im always busy when im out of town. and then i texted him a few days after that which was probably fast? and he didnt answer.
i hate giving up and i know he is playing hard to get but idk how to get past that. like do i jus...
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together for four years
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 5:29 pm
Hey guys, I'm a 19 year old female and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together for four year in September.. Everyone around us is getting engaged and we have been together longer than anyone of them. I dont know if im jealous or worried. I have said to him I want to be engaged, he said no. It makes me feel like he doesnt love me that much to marry me. He says he wants to marry me but wants to wait. I want a big wedding, huge dress ect.. I understand to wait for the wedding, but why cant we be engaged? He says he wants to be able to buy me a huge ring and make sure its beautiful, but I dont want/need that right now, just a small right so show hes mine.. Because of this I have decided to go away to school in the fall. Maybe to test to see i...
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I need help with sexual anxiety
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 3:01 pm
Ok, so to start off with some background I am 18 F and I am dating a 22 M. When I was 13 I was in a relationship with someone my age and he was very pushy with sex, but we didn't have sex, close, but no sex. When I was 14 I met my 2nd BF online and I was very sexual with him, I was able to have 'phone sex' with him, aka, speaking dirty and stuff. When I was 15 I started dating my current bf now, let's call him Damon. When we started I was kinda ok with he idea of doing stuff, we waited 5 months and after that point he took my virginity, as the relationship grew stronger, I was growing more and more uncomfortable with being sexual with him. He never did anything to make me not want to, in fact that's why I am here. I would love to be able to...
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Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 2:36 pm
I like this guy but i don't know if he like's me. Everyone thinks it's wrong for me to think this way. He stares at me and i laugh i stare at him he laughs. I tried calling but he won't pick up. What do i do. I'm afraid he'll make fun of me or think it's weird.
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in love with the idea of being in love, or actually in love?
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 12:05 pm
how do you know you're only in love with the idea of being in love?
lately, ive been thinking about me and my boyfriend's relationship. it's great, i've never felt this way. i was in a serious relationship for a year before him so i'm familiar with some old feelings. but it's very different, and much deeper. i feel as if maybe i am in love, but then, what if it's just the idea? i don't think i was in love with my last boyfriend of a year, so this is very new to me.
since i've been thinking about it lately, hoping it's not just a honeymoon phase, i caught myself -- it might just be the idea. me and my boyfriend have been literally together for ten months, but involved in each other romantically for about three....
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Am I asking too muchh???
Posted Wednesday August 4 2010, 12:23 am
My Boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months but we're talking for about 4 or 5 months.. Before turned 18 (just recently) we disscussed moving out together and getting our own place. I turned 18 a month after him and thats when i started really looking around for things we could afford, and now it seems like everytime i bring it up he always says i dont know or maybe.. Does he just not want to move out? I dont know what to do anymore..
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