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confusing best friend
i have this best friend, and i have known him for 6 yrs. my best friend intorduced me cuz they where dating. he had just been a friend until like 3 yrs ago when he became a best friend then recently he became to me, i stupidly fell in love with him. recently i had another best friend say that he liked me and wanted to date me, he even went as far as to kiss me, my first kiss. i told the one that i have known longer about a week after the whole thing with this other guy started and he told me that he might like me like the other guy did. a few weeks after that his brother became interested in me, which he knew. over spring break i was hanging out with the brother at their grandparents house (of which the one causing the problems lives) and he kissed me too. i was texting my best friend, the problem causer, at the same time. i got a text not long after that he had wanted to be "THE" guy for a while. a couple months after that i got a boyfriend and the problem causer says he doesnt love his girlfreind (which he says he does) but might love me. i have trying to get over him and stop loving him and even with him being hundreds of miles away in another state i still cant get over him, even when i know he will most likly get back together with the girl who told him to go to hell, which hurts very much.
how do i forget him and move on? how do i stop loving him? i am 17 and not very experienced in the ways of love so i need help, please.
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Sounds like a difficult situation, I had a little bit of a confusing time between the guys situation. Either way, you forget him by realizing how he wasn't good for you. Most times, it's good to keep your best friends, as best friends. If he's with a girl and he doesn't love her, than he's using her, and you don't need that in your life. I think that you need to tell him that you would prefer it if you were just friends, that you need to be with somebody closer to you. You don't forget someone instantly, and if you were in love with them, you never do fully forget them, occasionally they will always pop into your mind, you just won't miss it. To stop loving him, and to forget about the past, you move on with your life. You date other people, go out and do things with your friends, find things that make you happy, a hobby or something. You need to know exactly who you are, before you get tangled up in a relationship, and lose yourself. The best thing to do is to not talk to him until you feel that you have fully moved on, and then you can think about being friends again, and only that. Good luck to you
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