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Does my coworker like me?

Question Posted Thursday August 5 2010, 2:54 pm


I have a boyfriend. Let's get that out of the way.

I've been working with my coworker for about 2 months now. His last day is on Sunday and the last day I worked with him was a couple of days ago. Apparently we used to work together all the time, but then the main office wanted to split us up because we're "always together" or we're "always talking". He was caring when I was sick, he would always talk to me, and cheer me up. He even said he was going to make me food the next time I work with him, but in the end, he didn't. After my week of being sick, whenever we work together, we're always on the other sides of the stores, we don't talk. We just stand there. It's nothing like before. But whenever we talk, he would flirt. We would give each other hugs now and then but not all the time. I think he was just naturally nice because when he doesn't talk to me, he talks ALOT to other coworkers. He's the only guy at my work place (girl clothing store). He recently bought a cake for this other coworker for her birthday. Last time, he said he dated Caucasian girls but he wants to try Asian. Later on, he started appearing in my dreams. Like we're hugging and stuff (my boyfriend knows). It was really weird to me, so I told my boyfriend and him about it. Then my coworker said, "you had a dream about us kissing? o_o you seem to have alot of dreams about us. :P" Two nights ago he told me he liked my hugs, and that I fit right on his chest. Then that I was a cutie. Today, he doesn't talk to me as much, he seems to avoid whenever I talk to him. He deleted his comment that he sent me. I guess he doesn't wanna deal with anything towards me since I have a boyfriend and because he's moving to another city??

What is going on? Does he like me? And what's going on with his random actions?

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blondiebluesky answered Friday August 6 2010, 12:14 pm:
Hes hurt, and sad, and doesnt wanna get more hurt. I understand why he is trying to protect himself, because he probably feels like if you two go any further, itll be harder for him to leave. I mean, can you imagine how hard that would be? Just as thing start getting intense, you have to leave? Itd break my heart...I bet his is already cracking...
He definatly likes you, but he also respects your boyfriend enough to know that your taken. Which just makes it that much easier for him to want to isolate himself from you.

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MissM answered Friday August 6 2010, 3:18 am:
Well, if he likes you or not, you shouldn't stress on thought about it, because you already have someone else that loves you.
Think about your boyfriend, don't think about him. It's not worth your time. You've already established your love-life elsewhere.

And yes, he might have gotten his feelings a little confused towards you.

And as for his sudden, change-of-ways, somebody might have casually made him realize that his behaviour with you was a little out of place. That's why he probably backed-off.
Then there's the fact that your taken already and it possibly created an uncomfortable situation for him.

This is just what I believe
I hope I helped you in some way :)

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