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two boys one cant get over, the other i dont know if i like
18 female girl. so, i started liking this boy the end of last summer because that is when i met him. (matt) we talked the whole entire winter every single day, never saw each other and he didnt date anyone because he really liked me, and the same way i felt for him. we go to the same camp during the summer. the first weekend of summer we hooked up. i didnt tell my best friend any of this because i said that it should stay between me and him. he randomly stopped talking to me and moved onto my best friend. they hang out all the time and it really bothers me, weve been in many fights about it but were good now. he told her everying that i lied about and only secrets i told him because i trusted him. and he went and told my best friend. any advice about him? i probably shouldnt even be talking to him because i heard he talks about me in a bad way, not only that he is all over my bestfriend and she goes for it. im slowly moving on from that. revently i have been talking to this boy kyle. im not sure if i like him and i know he realllly likes me. when all our friends are around he is all over me having his arm around me. we hooked up twice making it to third base. we hung out every single day this week and im starting to think do i like this guy or not? i dont know what to do if i should give him a chance and go with the flow? i dont want to lead him on and then just screw him over. Im getting over matt but i feel as if i will never like anyone the way i liked him. i know this seems corny because i said that we never saw each other and "how can you like someone from just texting & phone calls & video calls" but it just ended up that way. I feel as if that i will never like anyone the way i liked matt thats why im not giving in on kyle. does anyone have any advice on anything like about matt or kyle?
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Screw Matt, he's a jerk. Anyone who does that doesn't deserve the light of day. Let your friend find out who he really is, cause eventually he will move onto someone else, tell your friend to be happy with him and move on with your life, but that's totally a violation of the rules of friendship in my eyes. If she cared about you and your feelings she never would have hooked up with him in the first place, she doesn't sound like a very good friend. As for Kyle, don't think about whether you like him like that or not for now. If you enjoy hanging out with him, then hang out with him, take it slow, and see how it goes. Tell him you want to take things slow because you don't want to rush into anything, and that you want to make sure your feelings are loud and clear with you before you move forward. You will like someone the way you liked Matt, and you need to see him for the jerk that he is. If you fantasize about how it used to be and everything else, you WON'T get over him. You need to look at him from a fresh view and realize that a jerk like that is no good for you. Good Luck
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